(disclaimer: this is from purely personal experience and is not a substitute for seeking professional help. these are just personal tips as i was formally diagnosed with depression and anxiety in the third year of college, but had been showing symptoms even in high school. different methods help for different people, but i really hope some of these things can help a struggling student out, because one of the reasons i went on studyblr in the first place was that i felt really lost and anxious.)
1. done is better than none.
sometimes an assignment you have to turn in would be objectively easy to complete, but it takes longer to do so because youâre afraid that the final product wonât be as good as you want it to be, or as good as a professor expects it to be. itâs hard to remove those expectations, but it is a little easier when you remember that getting some points (no matter how many they are) are better than getting a deduction for late submissions or not turning in the project at all. many people â including myself â suffer from perfectionism in university, but it is overall more important to complete something to the best of your own ability, and learn from the feedback on the project later on.
more importantly, often, youâre doing better than you think youâre doing, so surprise yourself. you can do it. just start.Â
2.  keep careful track of your deadlines.Â
much of my undergrad anxiety came from the fact that i knew something was due, but couldnât keep track of it, or didnât want to confront it. itâs better to confront it because you have more time to do it slowly and thoroughly. as soon as you hear about an impending exam or paper deadline, keep track of it. personally, i use google calendar. from there, you can make smaller plans and break down your goals to make it more doable!
3. donât be afraid to ask for help.Â
there used to be a huge stigma against mental illness, but thankfully, many educational institutions are much kinder and more considerate about it. if you really canât meet a deadline or come to class, let your professor know. most professors are kind, reasonable people who genuinely care about you and your well-being. even one of my scariest professors granted extensions to a girl who was genuinely struggling with serious depression, and the college of law iâm in takes mental health very seriously to the point that they instruct faculty how to deal with such cases.Â
if youâre not able to talk to a professor, try to ask help from a classmate or a friend who can share notes or fill you in on how they accomplished a certain assignment. many people will be happy to help. you are not a burden, love.
4. be kinder to yourself.Â
mental illness is like any illness. it often keeps us from doing as well as weâd like to be because itâs a genuine and serious health problem. sometimes it helps to keep this in mind when we flub a report in class (as i did several tens of times in undergrad), get a bad score, say something ridiculous during recitation, or mess up a paper. itâs okay to do your best while you heal. you know youâre trying your best, and slow growth is still growth.
5. on that note, care for your other needs.Â
one of my happiest and most fulfilled semesters (even though it was my busiest) was when i had time to see a psychiatrist, run, pack lunches and fruit to school to eat healthy, and have a reasonable-ish sleep schedule. this was during my thesis semester. while i had to take an incomplete, and finish my thesis the next sem, because i was attending to my own needs, i felt like a living, breathing, learning, happy person. and i finished my thesis the next semester. itâs better to look after your own physical health and needs before your academics.
6. sometimes, itâs better to do nothing and rest. you deserve it.Â
part of the reason iâd been doing horribly in law school was that i didnât sleep and it was making me mildly unbalanced and incredibly suicidal; not to mention the fact that i wasnât really retaining any information or performing well.
rest days are just as important as days when you study because rest IS productivity.Â
7. take your meds. see your psych or therapist if you have one. avail yourself of mental health services on campus if there are any. these genuinely saved my life at a time that i thought i was beyond saving. please go seek help if you can.Â
BONUS: MY STUDY SETUP ON A TERRIBLE MENTAL HEALTH DAY (like today)
- i try to clear the space and clean up as much as possible. it makes me feel like i have things under control, and have my work things where i can see them.
- i eat something healthy, like fruit, and get a lot of water. i keep a water jug on my desk because it clears my thoughts and helps me replenish the fluids lost from crying (1/2jk). it also really keeps up my strength for the study process.
- i turn on a calming playlist, like a jazz or lofi or ghibli playlist. in another window, i turn on a rain sound video on a softer volume, and it helps center me.
- it helps when you have a soft or calming scent to calm you down. i use a lavender room spray, and it makes me feel cozy and productive, but in undergrad, i used this tea-tree lavender mix and it smelled like sunny afternoons and guitar coffeshop playlists. it really is nice.
- there are breathing exercises and gifs all over the internet. they help calm you down when things seem Too Much.Â
i really hope this helps, guys. donât hesitate to message me if youâve been having a hard time with school or life or anything. please, please care for yourselves. you can do it.Â
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