Glitter, heels, and money

“Knowing you’re worth the money Hi girls, Just wanted to share a psychological tip that’s been working for me this week. A lot of times at work I’m afraid to push VIP rooms because I know they are expensive and I figure, “Who would want to spend that much money just to talk for a little and get a dance.” Then when I do manage to get a VIP room I won’t ask for a tip at the end because I’ll feel guilty. Like, I already made 300 dollars for a half hour, why would I ask for more? That’s being greedy. I was kind of getting down on myself because I haven’t been making as much money as the other girls at my club, but then a friend at work who consistently banks, (like $1000 is a slow night for her) said somethingthat really clicked with me. She said, “Don’t be afraid to charge what you’re worth. You have to remember these men wouldn’t even be able to speak to you outside of here.” Wait, what? Like I had never even thought of that before. I have been in a committed relationship for years. If anyone even tried to hit on me anywhere I would stop them in their tracks. There would be zero chance of conversation or contact. Even if I was single I would never give a customer a shot. So customers are not only paying for my looks, my dances, my conversation, but they are paying for my attention which would otherwise not be available anywhere else or for free. This is what makes me valuable. I am unattainable. I went to work all week with this attitude, taking sometime before I headed out on the floor to remind myself that I am worth the high prices, I am worth the tip, I am valuable, and unattainable anywhere else. On weekdays I’m used to only making around $300. After adapting this new attitude, on Monday I left with $763, Tuesday I left with $815, and Wednesday I left with $1153!!! So needless to say I believe thinking like this is working. So if you’re like me and you have trouble pushing for VIPs or asking for tips just remember: There is a 0% chance he would get to talk to you outside the club. There is a 0% chance he would get to see you topless (or naked) outside the club. There is a 0% chance he would get to have you gyrating onhis lap outside the club. This is why you are worth the high price. Hope this helps, XO”

“Anything you can do, I can do naked in eight inch heels.”

Last night was a DREAM

I started taking it as a compliment when people, especially customers or other girls, find me intimidating.

Me, when a customer tries to make me "work" for that measly dollar, on stage:

Good morning hoes. Here is your daily reminder that sex work is work.