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Some ideas and things you can do to romanticise the Spring season 🫧˚˖𓍢ִ໋🌷͙֒✧˚.🧚🏻‍♀️.

Spring Wardrobe - Spring is the perfect time to start integrating new pieces into your wardrobe. Long flowing dresses, maxi skirts, pretty blouses, milkmaid dresses/shirts, rompers, dungarees, mini skirts, cami’s and so much more. Make sure to add a pair of new Spring pumps (Mary janes are perfect) and some pretty floral hair bandanna’s and flower crowns in there too. Pastel pinks, yellows, blues, greens and white fit perfect for this time of year, along with patterns and materials like floral print and lace 🩰

Change your eating habits. Put away the comfort food from winter and indulge in the delicious delicacy’s of Spring. Fresh fruit and vegetables can make endless recipes for Breakfast, Lunch & Dinner, sweet things like Oatmeal, Honey, gelato and any particularly sweet fruits are perfect for this time of year 🍒🥗🍵

Consume Spring media 💐 The media you consume affects your mood, consuming uplifting Spring content will not only make you feel happier in yourself, but will also make you look forward to and romanticise the season more. I have a list of Movies, TV shows & books you can consume in Spring that I will be uploading shortly ☀️

Read Spring books. There are SO many out there, classics are perfect for this time of year but any whimsical, forest-core, fantasy story’s like “The Hobbit” or “The legend of King Arthur” are perfect too 📖

Listen to classical music, movie soundtracks and pretty instrumentals whenever you are doing any of the following activities (I find it helps romanticising a lot! 🎶🌷)

Have a picnic outside - Bring a wicker picnic basket, beautiful picnic blanket, fancy plates and cutlery and have a picnic fit for a countryside princess outside, either at the park or in a field. Wear a big sun hat to keep shaded from the sun and be sure to bring the essentials (Princess picnic food can include miniature sandwiches, scones, cookies, cakes & cupcakes, fruits like strawberries, cherries and apples, any snacks you can think of, lemonade and sweet iced tea) 🌷

Host a Tea Party (either indoors or outside) Set a table with all your finest dinnerware pieces, wear a floaty dress and white gloves, and use your most precious Teapot to pour fruity and sweet flavoured teas into any delicate teacups you can find. You can even make this Bridgerton inspired and have a high-tea esque party. With cookies and strawberry shortcake, cupcakes and miniature sandwiches. Make sure to set the table with a pretty tablecloth, fresh flowers and napkins/fine cutlery for yourself or your guests. Play some classical music and enjoy 🫖

Go berry/fruit picking. This time of year is perfect for Strawberry, Cherry’s & fruit picking in general. Wear a big straw hat, a long dress and don’t forget to bring your basket with you to collect the fruit in 🍓

Visit a flower field 🌸 💐 this time of year, flowers are in full bloom. Wear the most beautiful dress and a flower crown, so you are ready to twirl in the flower fields to your hearts content 🌷

Bake new Spring recipes. There are SO many Spring/Easter baking ideas on Pinterest. Have a look at any and compile a list of Bakes you want to try this Spring season 🍰

Cook new Spring recipes, you can even incorporate any new foods you have tried into the recipes and be sure to write them down in your recipe book 🥧

Make flower crowns! You can use fresh flowers or fake flowers, some wire or plain headbands. Get creative with them, use flowers, gems, lace, ribbon (this is a lovely activity to do with friends outside) 🌸

Press flowers (Such a Spring fairy activity!) any wild flowers you find (preferably dying or damaged) take them home and press them in a heavy book

Go on Forest Fairy walks. Explore your local forests, parks, meadows in the most vibrant green and pink dresses, wear flower crowns and just be one with nature, listen to fairytale music and take in the wildlife and nature around you 🧚‍♀️

Decorate your bedroom/space for Spring. This can be as simple as changing the bedding or by going all out and re-decorating your room completely. Fresh flowers, fake plants, cottage-core illustrations of animals look lovely too 🌷

Celebrate Easter like a Spring princess (really get into it this year) enjoy a beautiful Spring breakfast, paint eggs, eat chocolate, do some Easter bakes in the kitchen, make Easter Sunday a special day for you 🐣

Journal/Sketch/Paint - Painting outside is one of my favourite things to do, and you could even set up your easel/painting supplies in a garden or local field and paint the scenery 💐 Journalling all about your pretty Spring days can be uplifting and I find that sketching illustrations of Flowers, woodland animals and just Nature in general makes me feel so at ease any time I do so 🦢

Visit historical places like castles, botanical gardens and garden centres. These places are always abloom in Spring. Most of these places offer café’s and afternoon tea’s too! 🌸

Visit a cute Café for afternoon tea 🫖 (Make sure to wear a pretty outfit!)

Go frolicking in meadows. Roll down hills and twirl in flower fields 🌼

Feed birds and take time out to Spend time with nature and wildlife 🐰

Lipstick stained love letters, cups of warm coffee, red splashed everywhere, winter bleeding into Spring, slow evenings by candlelight, dark chocolate and rom-com movie marathons. Early Sunday baking, pyjama days, writing in your diary about your latest crush, romance novel reading, candy hearts and pink skies at dusk ༄₊♡⋆

• hot girl walks in autumn weather

• drinking tea in a cute mug, early in the morning

• study dates with the girls (library, cafe, so cute)

• meditating outside, breathing in that fresh autumn air girllll

• reading/book shopping

• gua sha + skin care routine + lash/eyebrow serum

• working out like a pink pilates muscle mommy

• journaling + self improvement/healing

• long soaks in the bath, epson salt, bubbles, essential oils, candles, everything girl

• manifesting/daydreaming (one of my favs)

🍂Hi🍂

11 tips from a master manifestor.

y’all have been loving my first post and it’s really encouraged me to come back. this time i have 11 tips for you! i would’ve really appreciated a post like this when i was a beginner so i’ve decided to make it for those who may also be starting with their journey. actually it doesn’t matter where you are on this road, this is supposed to help everybody, including master manifestors (yes, sometimes doubts cross our minds, we just know how to deal with them)!

there is a lot of repetition as there are some concepts i want to emphasize on. excuse any grammar errors. let’s get straight to it!

stop giving a fuck about the 3D. that is absolute (as in, don’t check it, don’t wait for anything from it, don’t let it get to you). just stop. i have a post over here that will really help you in doing so (and no, it isn’t me cursing at you while ordering you to stop. it’s me having a discussion with you and listening to your doubts while refuting them and i also back it up with scientific sources).

acknowledge that you already are a master manifestor. you’re already where you need to be. don’t let the illusion that is the 3D tell you otherwise!

if you see a piece of manifestation advice that rubs you the wrong way then simply act as if it’s false and doesn’t apply to your reality. you make the rules.

speaking of rules, make yourself some manifesting rules that dictate that manifesting is effortless and instant for you. don’t settle for less.

keep a success story list (and yes, you can put stuff that you’ve assumed that hasn’t appeared in the 3D since the 4D is the only reality) so that you can use it to reaffirm your belief in the law if you ever doubt it.

never seek approval from the 3D for ANYTHING. it is an ILLUSION. your 4D/mind/assumptions are the OBJECTIVE reality. this also applies to the state of waiting and wanting. why do you want to wait for the approval of an illusion? and what are you wanting when it’s already here?

the 3D is not your enemy and it is impossible for the 3D to reject your manifestation. the bitch is inanimate lmao. have you ever walked in front of a mirror and had it tell you “i’m not gonna reflect right now”? i’m sure the answer is no. the 3D works the same way. it EXISTS to reflect our assumptions. that’s its entire purpose. it is nothing but an illusory perception of our 4D. it actually obeys you down to a T. i was gonna say it’s your pet but pets are actually alive and autonomous, the 3D isn’t. the 3D just an inanimate illusion. your business is in the 4D. that’s where you live.

you don’t need a technique. to manifest, all you have to do is assume you have it or enter the state of having it. techniques simply exist to help you do so (that’s why we affirm/visualize/etc. that we have it) but you can do it directly. that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t use them. do what feels most natural to you. do what is the most efficient when it comes to making you fulfilled (not what gives it to you fastest in the 3D. remember, it’s an illusion).

you shouldn’t care if the 3D will give it to you or not. the 3D is an illusion, remember? a simple way to get yourself to put your eyes on then 4D is saying something to the effect of “this 3D/physical world isn’t real/is an illusion, the 4D/mind is the only true reality, i live in the 4D and thus all my affairs are there and not in the 3D and this is what the 4D is saying: (insert manifestation)”. seriously, all your affairs are in the 4D. you’re 4 dimensional.

when doubts persist, reading rants and banging pots and pans might help sometimes but sometimes you just have to sit down with yourself and have an internal dialogue. you’re human (probably 🤔 just in case you’re manifesting otherwise as you read this, and yes it IS possible). hear what your doubts have to say in full (don’t buy it though) and debunk them calmly and civilly.

Toxic romanticization of studying

In a word of introduction, my profile partly shows that studying and exploring is wonderful. But as a person involved in science*, I would like to show healthy and true patterns of this beautiful adventure in acquiring knowledge.

The inspiration for writing this post this time was not the phenomenon from Tumblr (although you can also observe it here), but from Pinterest. There you can come across cycles composed of quotes and photos whose aim is to motivate young girls to learn, succeed and get good grades. These images often also show examples of characters from movies, TV series or real life that you can aspire to be like. Overall, I have to agree that it really works! But I would like to draw attention to certain elements that need to be verified.

1. You shouldn't get up at 5am

First of all, the correct amount of sleep is one of the most important factors affecting the proper and effective functioning of our brain. During sleep, nerve cells regenerate, organize information acquired during the day and consolidate memory traces, which is directly related to learning. Lack of sleep increases impulsivity, deepens negative thinking and slows down the body's reaction time!

2. You can be a genius without good grades

Of course, good grades are a pleasant confirmation of our knowledge and praise for hard work. However, sometimes it is worth considering whether the structure of exams themselves, especially those with closed questions, affects the results. We often study for one specific exam, the knowledge of which may be very… limited and sometimes not useful, so it is worth prioritizing the topics that we study hard.

3. It's not cool to think you're better than others

We are different and have different priorities in life. It is also worth considering how many people escape from the rat race and start a slow, stress-free life. So we have to agree that judging people based on grades or responses under stress (sic!) is not cool.

The good thing about romanticizing studying

As I have already said, these types of collages are really motivating. So let's talk about what's great about them and what's worth highlighting and saving for later.

1. Knowledge is beautiful, but your outfit and surroundings can also be

We know that we should never judge a book by its cover, but… the issue of social perception painfully confirms that we do and will continue to do so because this is how our brains work. And isn't it nice when someone looks at us and thinks this girl is so classy?

Moreover, a nice outfit that makes us feel good gives us a lot of self-confidence. There are also many studies confirming the positive impact on motivation and concentration of a neat and aesthetic workplace.

2. Not just cramming, but also discovering

Broadening your horizons is easier with passion and real commitment. And to achieve this, the topics must really interest us. Not everyone has yet found something that they are extremely passionate about in science, so that is why you have to dig deeper and discover different areas.

3. Don't be afraid to use your knowledge in practice

Schools and universities, unfortunately, have their own rules and they do not always allow you to show your 100% potential. Thus, share your knowledge with others externally, write essays, blog and social media. This form of activity also makes you learn things faster and easier. In addition, contacts with others will expand your knowledge.

Therefore, I must say that it is worth choosing your inspirations carefully. Nothing helps you enjoy studying better than a clear head and lack of prejudices.

Yes, you heard me right. It is possible even overnight. I used to think it was impossible to get anything i want, like it never made sense to me. Even after reading multiple posts and tweets and watch every loa video you can possibly think of. I applied the law, i affirmed for days and days, but nothing changed. Why Alli? you must think. Because i affirmed and did every technique i could find, but i never actually applied. If it wouldn’t show i would always be bitching why it didn’t show up or why everybody could get it and not me.

But then… Then i found out that the 3D actually didn’t mean shit. I could be miserable all i want and still get my desires by just thinking in my favor and actually persisting in it. No more looking in the 3d, no more bitching about things i didn’t have. No, actually thinking like i have it all right now. Because guess what? IT IS POSSIBLE. Your imagination creates reality. Be delusional, think like you’re that bitch. Get. your. shit. No more wavering, be disciplined. Trust in yourself, because you create your reality!

Here are some of my favorite things i manifested:

-My desired appearance and overcoming bodydismorphia and actually falling in love with myself

-A shit load of money [yes you can do it, money is just paper. Its easy]

-My psoriasis clearing up overnight.

-Getting my diploma without doing much for it.

Buckle up, bitches - it’s time for a new challenge!

I call it the alter ego challenge. Here’s how it works.

step 1: define your alter ego

What does this version of you look like? What does she eat? Does she drink alcohol? What does she do after work? What does she wear? When does she go to bed? Does she like the gym?

There are no wrong answers here. Remember that this isn’t just your “best self” - it’s a gorgeous, fabulous character. Maybe she hates the gym and prefers to take long strolls while sipping an iced coffee. Maybe she’s a poet who loves to sit up all night scribbling in a notebook. Maybe she lives in her sweats and a messy bun and has a toss-your-head-back laugh that rings out her open windows to the whole neighbourhood.

Don’t get caught up thinking she has to be perfect. She’s just someone you’re trying on.

step 2: test her out

Dress like her, walk like her, talk like her, work like her. Keep her in the back of your mind as you go through your day. Ask yourself “would she eat this? Would she wear this? Would she do this?”.

Feel free to refine as you go - no one needs to know about your journey! If you thought you’d love something but find it’s not working, ditch it and try something else instead.

step 3: document your journey

I’ll be posting about my journey here every day! I invite you to do the same. If you’re not someone who takes a lot of pictures, ask yourself - does you alter ego? ;)

in this post i’m not gonna go into the theory behind manifestation and law of assumption and imagination and i’m gonna focus on practically what to do to manifest something you want.

if you want to know WHY you manifest like this you’re just gonna have to go and read my other posts.

this is gonna be a PRACTICAL guide to manifestation and it’s gonna be the simplest thing ever.

i’m not gonna go too deep into the theory behind this as i have other posts for that, i’m gonna provide you a nice simple guide which can be useful for when you’re feeling like you’re deep into overconsumption.

back to the basics

define your desire:

this is key because you have to be clear on what you want, if this takes you time to fully understand what is your end goal don’t worry, take your time and understand what it’s your truest desire, what is that you REALLY want.

leave the world alone:

once you have decided what your desire is now you need to leave behind all the reasons why you can’t have your desire.

for example: you want a car BUT you don’t have any money, your parents won’t buy it for you.

your only job here is fulfilling yourself in imagination leaving all the reasons why you can’t have your desire in the 3D, any reason why you can’t have it logically does not matter at all because you’re never supposed to create anything in the 3D or make it happen there. forget all the reasons why you can’t have it because there is no 3D in imagination.

you can imagine anything!

fulfill yourself in imagination:

once you disregarded all the reasons why you think your desire can’t be yours and you realized your only job is to have it in imagination you can fulfill yourself.

the 3D does not exist in imagination!

you can imagine ANYTHING no matter what’s going on outside of you!!!

remember how you used to imagine you and your crush together? without expectations? without worries or anything? that’s how you’re supposed to imagine. imagine what you truly want and fulfill yourself in imagination ONLY.

your only job is giving it to yourself in imagination. your only job is changing self, how do you change self? by changing imagination.

tip: you can switch your state (aka give it to yourself in imagination) using methods like visualization/scripting/affirmations/sats

persist in your new state

once you gave it to yourself in imagination your job is done, now all you have to do is persist in your new state TO FEEL good simply because you don’t deserve to live in desire in your own mind.

you don’t persist to make it dominant or anything like that, you persist because it makes you feel good, you persist because you understand you’re a figment of God and you don’t deserve to live in desire.

whenever your desire naturally comes to mind or whenever you happen to notice lack pay attention to your awareness and realize it’s just your old state, don’t be mad at yourself, simply remember that now you have it in imagination and you can access your desire whenever you want.

THE END. IT’S DONE. YOUR JOB IS FINISHED.

what happens now is that your imagination (God) will find a way to make it happen in the outer world in the most natural and best way possible.

you’re NOT supposed to:

- worry about the how.

- worry about the when.

- worry about the means.

Edward Art:

“I do not argue the point, I do not try to figure out how it will happen, which means are needed, I do not wonder if it’s possible, I do not wonder when or feel fear whether or not it will work, I remove past and future and remove grudges.

this is gonna be a guide to states for dummies.

i’m gonna try and explain this in the simplest way possible so that it clicks for you even if you haven’t read the source.

key information before diving deep

★ imagination is the only reality ★

3D = physical form of imagination

4D = imagination, consciousness, awareness

whatever you are experiencing physically as real as it may feel you need to realize you are only experiencing the feelings the physical experience gives you.

the 3D is simply a reflection of consciousness and everything physical exists because you are aware of it. it wouldn’t be there if you were not aware of experiencing it in imagination.

imagination is a lens through which you experience your physical world and whatever you persist in is what expresses. this is why you can manifest.

whatever may be going on in the 3D is not what you’re experiencing, you are always experiencing imagination. you are always trusting imagination.

remember when you “trusted your gut” in the past?

remember when you had a feeling that one person in your friend group wasn’t so good and then you were proved right?

“ohhh i just knew it! i’m always right.”

well news flash —>

that’s you experiencing and trusting imagination!

you are only and always experiencing consciousness, this is exactly why manifestation happens.

it is a new way of approaching life, completely opposite to what we have been thought but once truly understood it is the easiest thing ever.

what we grew up believing:

imagination is fiction, delusion, fake.

the outside world is reality, facts, truth.

we learned to bring our physical limitations to imagination. even if we knew we could imagine a different situation to what we were physically experiencing we dismissed it because we thought there was no reason to do it since it was fake, delusion, lies.

we didn’t allow ourselves to enjoy the experience in imagination because it was not “realistic”.

what’s the point of imagining something so “unrealistic”? you’re an adult! face your reality and move on! be responsible! deal with your problems! stop dreaming!

we learned to only trust our inner feeling on something when it came to negative things. because it is easier to accept that negative things can happen out of nowhere, it’s easy to trust that the possibility of negativity happening to us is so real because we believe we have no control in our reality.

when you believe you have no control and you’re living in a world of chaos where there’s no reason why things are happening it’s very easy to believe bad things can happen.

this is why we have built this concept of “gut feeling”, of just trusting your gut when it comes to situations.

“if you have a bad feeling that something is gonna happen, trust your gut!”

well this is just the way man trusts his imagination, the way man always has and always will trust his imagination first.

this is applicable to having the feeling of something good happening of course but that is just a bit rarer because since this is what we have always known it takes a very solid, well rounded and confident person with a strong character to strongly believe something good is gonna happen and to have a “positive” gut feeling.

why? simply because we have learned to believe we are who we are based on our external experiences and infect the belief we have about who we are with the opinions of others.

this is why it takes a strong character to believe something good can happen when you don’t know about manifestation and are simply living with the belief that we have no control over what happens to us.

what manifestation is

manifestation is allowing yourself to experience whatever you want in imagination without bringing the limitations of the outer world within you and trusting/realizing that imagination is the creator of all things.

all you have to do to manifest is allow yourself to experience in imagination what is it that you want to experience no matter what is happening in the physical world.

you know that imagination is limitless and you can literally conjure up anything, you can imagine everything you want.

the only push you need is allowing yourself to experience it in imagination even if the physical world you’re living in is completely opposite.

since you CAN why not be aware of having the solution to your problems in imagination?

since you CAN why not be aware of being the solution to your problems in imagination?

it makes you feel great and you shouldn’t live in misery in your own head. if you can imagine something great because you have this wonderful ability why would you bring the lack and the limitations and the circumstances to your own ONLY mind?

why would you live in desire and misery if you have fulfillment and happiness at your fingertips?

states of consciousness

now that we’ve established the basics let’s understand states of consciousness.

what they are:

states of consciousness are experiences.

experiences you want to live.

that’s all they are.

a state is just an experience or a concept of yourself.

it’s an experience you want to live where you either have something you want or you are something you wanna be.

it is that simple. it’s not some fancy concept, trust me.

this is where the desire comes in:

you want to live this experience, you wish for it, you hope for it and since you don’t know how to apply manifestation you live in wanting, hoping, wishing, desiring because you have been “trained” to not fulfill yourself in imagination, dismiss this desire simply because you don’t have it physically.

you are always in a state means that you are always experiencing something whether that be lack or fulfillment, chaos or peace.

we are always in a state because we are always experiencing something.

right now you’re probably reading this post because you are in the state of not having your desired experience and in the state of trying to manifest your desired experience.

to manifest you simply need to allow yourself to experience in imagination what you want to experience disregarding all doubts, limitations, circumstances because they don’t matter in imagination since you can imagine experiencing anything you want.

learn to change imagination before worrying about changing the senses.

the change in the world of senses will come automatically, naturally and in the best way possible, it’s not something you need to worry about because it’s not your job to make it physical.

to change imagination you need to change your state aka your experience in imagination.

this is what it means to shift states.

this is what it means to shift to the state of the wish fulfilled. —> allowing yourself to experience what you want in imagination regardless of what’s going on in the outer world.

focus on the change of imagination.

change imagination and the outer world will follow.

“you need to change self!”

“you need to change within!”

“you need to change inside.”

what is the self? imagination.

what is the “within”? imagination.

what is the “inside”? imagination.

the way you change imagination is by accepting that you already are who you want to be in imagination and you already have what you want to have in imagination.

the only reason why you struggle is because you don’t accept that you have this experience that you desire already within yourself, and because you try to mold your state to your 3D, instead of completely disregarding it.

since you can imagine it, it exists.

this goes for everything!

imagination creates all things! including the ones you don’t want.

accept this duality.

the sp who doesn’t want you exists just like the sp who is deeply in love with you.

the version of you who’s broke exists just like the version of you who’s wealthy.

EVERYTHING YOU CAN IMAGINE EXISTS.

the only reason why you’re not experiencing what you want is because you’re not accepting its existence and persisting in being aware of such concept of yourself.

when you accept the duality of imagination and accept that in it you have all these concepts of yourself, bad and horrible ones and amazing ones you understand that your job when being indifferent to the senses it’s not to deny the existence of the opposite state you’re now experiencing, but rather to deny the belief that you are stuck in it by simply accepting a new truth in its place: the new concept/state.

manifestation works by realizing/accepting that this wonderful experience exists within you and persisting in being aware of it, persisting in being aware of having already the thing you want in imagination instead of being aware of its opposite.

the state you light up with awareness is what manifests.

you’re not pretending, you are it. you have it.

imagination is the only thing we experience always so whatever you experience in imagination is true always. that’s the only truth. you only need to believe this truth to exist and to be real.

remember!!!

imagination is the only causal power and the only creator. there’s nothing outside of you causing events to happen, there’s no fate nor destiny and no such thing as divine timing or “whatever is meant for me will come”. there is only You and Your Awareness.

it’s not your job to make something physical, god is within you in your imagination and will build the road for you.

manifestation is instant, the moment you imagine some new concept or state about yourself the 3D starts adjusting and reshuffling for you.

your only jobs is enjoying being the one who has it (your desire) in imagination.

remove the concept of past or future from your imagination because tomorrow is shaped based on who you are being now, there is no reason for you to worry about the future if you’re in control of it.

stop worrying about time, it is a social construct the only thing out there is the present moment (imagination). there is only Now.

you don’t get to decide when or how your manifestation is materialized and it’s not your job to focus on that, you only focus on having. since imagination is the only reality your manifestation is real now.

you are not your body, you are not your brain, you are not your thoughts, you are not your emotions and you are not your states.

you are awareness choosing which state to experience.

François Martin-Kavel & pink fabrics