Sterlingwildwolf

On my last Tarot Spread I did a in depth layout, and I want to point out that not everyone will like or have any usage of it. And that’s fine. Just because I make an in depth spread it doesn’t mean that you have to lay all those cards, if you want to do just some of the questions/cards then do them and leave the rest. You also don’t have to lay out the cards the same as it shows in the picture, you can pull out 1 card at a time. I just make the layouts, but it’s your reading and your reading you can do however you want. If you see any of my posts then I want you to know this: Take whatever resonates with you and leave the things that don’t.

But I want to point out that I don’t appreciate when people reblog my work but comment something negative. Why even reblog it just to trash someone else’s work? If you don’t like my content I would truly appreciate if you comment on that post or write me a dm. I’m not all about love and light and can’t handle critique, but at least write a comment on what you didn’t like and what I can change. That’s literally the main ingredient in how people can change and learn. The complaint about my Tarot Spread that was an in depth about if you should stay or leave a relationship was that if you have to make a big/in depth tarot spread about it then “you should just fucking leave” as that person wrote.  So let me share a bit about me and that layout… 1. I’m not only a spiritual wooh wooh woman, I’m also a certified social pedagogue (don’t know if this was translated well), so I do try to add my education and more psychology into some of my spiritual work. This is because I strongly believe that both go hand in hand and that they can work great together.

2. That spread wasn’t specifically made for a young woman who wants to leave her shithead of a boyfriend, it was made for all types of relationships, which was stated in the post.  I have myself been in and had relationships that I logically know that I need to end. I also know people that have dated people that they shouldn’t be with. Logically we can both think and say “you should just fucking leave”, because that’s our first instinctive thought and emotion. But then we ignore that there are emotions involved, and that for some it isn’t easy. Some people can’t just leave, because of various reasons. And some people actually don’t Want to leave.

I wrote this in depth spread as a way to truly see all angles of the situation we’re in in that moment. I as a grown up woman in my 30′s have been in that situation in all forms of relationships; with a man that was controlling and treated me like shit, I had a friend that I had known for years and who was like a part of my family that I had to let go off, and I also had to end the relationship with my dysfunctional family. In all of those relationships I logically knew that I should just leave, but things take time, especially when emotions are involved.  This is why that spread was so in depth, because sometimes we have to see things from all apects, all angles and all perspectives.

I hope that my tarot spreads are helpful, insightful and even fun for the people who try them. But as I’ve already stated, if you like or dislike my posts then take a moment to think about the creator behind it. Don’t trash the content, but instead write a comment about what you liked/disliked, what you agree on/disagree on. And try to be self-aware that if things don’t seem to be of your liking then you have 100% free control over your life and you can scroll past it and focus on the things you do enjoy. If you feel that you want to trash others content then I would recommend that you Log out from your social medias and take a 2 week vacation from social media so you can think about your privileged behaviour and work on your shadows. If you don’t know how to work with your shadows, then don’t worry I actually have 1 article about this and 1 FREE Shadow work program on my blog about this:

A Crazy Thing Happened in my First Video!!! New Tarot Reading Channel 🔮

I’ve fallen really out of touch with my craft as of late, and this is a small tip of lists for me to start reconnecting with it again. I hope this list can be of use to someone else too!

Meditate

Starting from the basics. Try to keep a daily meditation routine. Don’t make timed goals for yourself when you meditate. Meditate just as long as it feels good and right for you. What phase is the moon on today? You can meditate on the meaning of the moon phase to help you focus if that works for you!

Ground and Center yourself (at least) weekly

It helps, it really does. Balance yourself and re-center your energies and you’ll feel more stable.

Daily Tarot

Draw one tarot card from your deck daily and interpret it. This will help you to reconnect with your decks.

Sigils for Everything

Sigils are fast and easy to use for pretty much everything. Need some protection? Draw a protection sigil on your body when you start your day! Put a beauty sigil in your make up bag! A sigil for good dreams under your pillow! A sigil for keeping hydrated on the bottom of your water bottle! Sigils can be used for so many things.

Tea? Those are Potions

Drink a lot of tea? Those are potions! Stir your tea anti-clockwise to get rid of something. Stir it clockwise to attract things. What ingredients does your tea use? Use the meanings of the herbs and fruits to charge and bring a little magic to your tea! Put honey in your tea to sweeten your mood or your day. Is your tea black, green, herbal, something else? This post has great resources for what different teas mean! Use those meanings and make tea your magical potion!

Got old spell jars lying around?

Charge those spell jars to get more out of them!

Work with any deities?

Thank your deities after eating a meal. Thank them for things big and small in your life.

Keep a dream journal! Or…

If that’s too much for you, think about the dreams you’ve seen after waking up and wonder what it might mean for you.

Pick up a new thing

Never got a hang of astrology? Start looking into it! Interested in different methods of divination? Do some research and find interesting ways for it! Start following new witches with crafts different from yours!

You don’t need to do all of these or do them the way I do them. Just pick up something and bring back magic into your life. 

I went grocery shopping the other day and had a REVELATION.

Hate doing dishes? Get disposable plates, bowls, and silverware.

Hate cooking? Stock up on microwave meals and frozen veggies.

For the days when even microwaving is too much, I got lunchables, uncrustables, gogurt, and string cheese.

Yes, purchasing these things was a bit more expensive than getting fresh food to cook with… but I figure it’s better to spend that bit more money if it means I actually eat, and it’s significantly less expensive than ordering pizza or having food delivered.

All in all, I feel pretty good, and I’ve eaten better at home today than I have in a long time.

[id: a photo of a messy altar. the altar cloth is a marbled pink silk scarf. the altar is very full, featuring fake pearls, dried flowers, a sigil written in lipstick, various shells and stones, three candles, one in an antique brass candle holder, and two antique porcelain vessels. one is an egg cup and one is a swan. there is also a gold statue of a cat, and a rose gold colored shell shaped brush /end id]

i know there are a lot of these out there, but for this particular list of tips for spoonie witches, i want to focus on deity worship! i work part time, in addition to having a condition that causes significant chronic pain and dealing with anxiety, depression, and sensory exhaustion from being autistic. it can be hard to feel like i have the spoons to dedicate time and attention to my deities, so i wanted to share some of the ways i’ve found to work with my low energy days, and even use my worship to help me with basic activities.