Btw there is something that literally no one can take from you no matter what and it's a grounded, embodied knowledge and understanding of who the fuck you are

it's fine i don't even need to be part of social groups or friend groups anyway (giant hole appears in my chest spontaneously) ? what's that

"trans men have been historically included in lesbian spaces!" and trans women have been historically excluded from them, what's your fucking point? and also by historically they always mean america and european countries, which is the only queer history they know of

Sleeping poorly is so embarrassing... sorry im grumpy I stayed up past my bedtime. Like a toddler

imagine if you woke up and your name was your url and you looked exactly like your icon

the small stinker spends time with me on the couch

genuinely sickening to think about how men pop up out of holes in the ground and you have to swing a mallet and hit them over the head to get them to stop

This email could have been a flayed screaming man

i think part of the reason that "trans men dont have male privilege" has become so popular (other than a refusal to accept trans men ARE men for real and not some fake simulacrum, among many other things) is that 'male privilege' is seen by many as a sort of abstract omnipotent superpower that has to be consciously enforced specifically by cis white men and not like. a systemic force built into the foundation of the societies we live in and grow up in.