~~Haai, I'm Adista😊☺️,~~

anything I’ve lost was never meant for me in the first place.

i really wish everyone had good hearts and good intentions for others. honestly.

its always "wyd" and never suggesting if you wanna sneak out at midnight and read poetry in a cave by the creek under the moonlight

The real flex is healing yourself without becoming like those who traumatized you.

but it really is so important to find people who don’t lose patience with you or get angry if you’re being irrational or insecure or downright ridiculous, it is so so necessary to be treated with gentleness from loved ones and not to be made to feel like you’re irritating or a burden

I don’t know if anyone needs to hear this but “we all respond to trauma in different ways, not just pretty palatable ways” and “we are accountable for our own actions, even actions born from trauma” are not contradictory statements

it’s the smallest habits. how you spend your mornings. how you talk to yourself. what you read. what you watch. who you share your energy with. who has access to you. that will change your life.

You cannot let a woman down multiple times and expect her energy to still crave you.

You are presented with two choices: evolve or repeat

as you get older, you realize that you’re not always right and there’s so many things you could’ve handled better, so many situations where you could’ve been kinder and all you can really do is forgive yourself and let your mistakes make you a better person.

healthy relationships are created, not found.

Time doesn’t heal you. You heal you.