Don’t put your SP on a pedestal

If you’re manifesting a specific person and you’re having intrusive thoughts about how they might reject you and deem you not good enough, this post is for you.

YOU are a gem, ANYONE would be lucky to have someone like you in their lives. I don’t care who your specific person is, I don’t care if it’s the partner of your dreams, your desired group of friends or a celebrity. Whoever it is is not above you and you wouldn’t kill to have someone like them, they’d kill to meet someone like you.

Stop thinking you’re not good enough. Stop thinking people will get bored of you or not like you. Everyone is you pushed out. You have total control of how people perceive and treat you, so decide that everyone loves and cherishes you unconditionally. Nobody is above you, stop putting them on a pedestal. I don’t care if your specific person has a nonnegotiable type and you're the exact opposite. I don’t care if the person you want to be friends with is reserved and selective. Because you know what? You’re the physical embodiment of everything they have ever wanted in a partner/best friend. You can’t mess this up. You get to call the shots. Every. Single. Time.

People will only think of you as you allow them to. This is why I will always advocate for a strong self concept because the way you think of yourself is the blueprint you set for others. See yourself with grandeur and excellence and others will follow suit. Never entertain any ideas that you might not leave a good impression on whoever or that they’ll get tired of you. You are amazing, you are magnetic, you are an incredible person all over.

Actually, they’re intimidated by you, they think they’re not good enough to approach you and they worry you might get bored of them. All they think about is how you’re so cool and gorgeous and interesting as a person and they really really want to get to know you and be a part of your life but they’re just a bit nervous about how to start a conversation with you.

You are the one people go after, not the other way around. You do not chase people and you do not seek anyone’s validation. Others chase you and seek your validation. Everywhere you go people are so drawn to you and they are desperate to find an excuse to talk to you because you’re just that alluring. People are dying to leave a good impression of themselves so they still have a chance to get close to you. Whoever your specific person is, you've got options to spare because you can have anyone you want, and everyone knows that.

You are the standard, you are the ideal best friend and you are the partner of their dreams, You tick off every single box and that’s why people fear they won’t live up to you and you won’t approve of them. YOU are the one on the pedestal.

Never look for external validation. You are all you need. Now, repeat after me.

✧ I am infinitely more loved by the people I love

✧ Everyone who meets me adores me

✧ I am always treated with utmost respect

✧ People are always interested and invested in me

✧ Everywhere I go, I am always the center of attention

✧ People can’t get enough of me

✧ Everyone who knows of me wants to get to know me

✧ The people in my life are grateful that I am part of theirs

Remember that anything you experience in the outer world can be altered whenever you want - the 3d follows you, not you following it! Live in your imagination - that is the real reality. Remember, you can always replace an assumption in the outer world with an ideal assumption whenever you want.

Revert to the basics and work on your self-concept. You create your reality with your dominant thoughts. You can get what it is you want no matter what the circumstances are. Your 3d is just past assumptions, and is completely malleable. Everything you desire is already yours as long as you remember these, nothing can keep you from achieving it. Nothing can stand against you; everything is conspiring in your favor; allowing you to achieve what you want. Claim it and accept it with knowing that it is already yours.

Your reality is created by you; embody that.