Fcuk The Stigma

http://www.flamingcursor.com/ (This carries a trigger warning, it’s a realistic looking flame so beware)

http://www.lookingatsomething.com/

http://www.coldvoid.com/

http://www.papertoilet.com/

http://www.brokenself.com/

There are lots in that toolbar at the top and they’re quite fun to play around with. If you have epilepsy or flash induced seizure be VERY careful though. Some can be very very flashy.

happy aro-spec awareness week to all aro-specs including but not limited to:

aromantics

greyromantics

demiromantics

quoiromantics

frayromantics

cupioromantics

lithromantics/akoiromantics

recipromantics

apothiromantics

caedromantics

amicusromantics

vallisromantics

apexromantics

arospikes

arofluxes

alicoromantics/agnoromantics

platoniromantics

nebularomantics

aegoromantics

bellusromantics

idemromantics

requisromantics

non-sam aros and arospecs

non-partnering aros

aros in romantic relationship

aros in queerplatonic or alterous relationships

aplatonic aros

loveless aros

lovequeer aros

lovepunk aros

aroaces/acearos

aroallos/alloaros

aromids

romance repulsed aros

romance ambivalent aros

romance favourable aros

triple/quadruple a batteries (arospec acespec aplspec agenderspec)

anyone questioning if they are arospec or where they fit on it

anyone else whose arospec identity I missed

Pansexual: tbh I never really cared about gender

Almondromantic: I’m more romantically attracted to men. I rarely have romantic feelings towards women (I’ve only felt any actual romantic feelings towards around 5 women so far). (Almondsexual is the sexual counterpart)

Almberriflux: I fluctuate between almondsexual and berrisexual

Bigender: I identify as a female and male

Ambonec: I identify as both female, male and neither at the same time because I never feel truly female or male

Monoflexible: I prefer monogamous relationships, but I don’t really mind polyamorous relationships (as long as sex is involved tee-hee)

Flags:

Pansexual:

Almondromantic (and also almondsexual):

Almberriflux:

Bigender:

Ambonec:

Monoflexible (I’m not entirely sure though, so please correct me if I got this one wrong):

I’m genuinely glad that I found the right terms for me as bisexual never felt truly right :D

☆ If I got any flags wrong, feel free to correct me!

-🥀🫀

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First person (neo)pronouns flag

First person (neo)pronouns (often shortened to 1stpp, 1pp, and fpp) are a type of pronoun modification that change one's usage of i/me/my/myself etc. rather than third person pronouns. They are typically used to refer to oneself.

Example: "I am having the time of my life" could be "Vi am having the time of vy life."

This flag is largely based off of the color scheme of the original neopronouns flag by uncommongenders (green, white, purple), but with inspiration also taken from the other two primary flags (purple-pink one and green-yellow) one. Then I just edited the colors and my own twist onto the stripe formation to make it look unique.

The symbol is just of an average user icon, to refer to one's own pronouns (aka first person.)

Or, and hear me out...

We were under diagnosed.

See, AFAB, POC, and trans people are severely under diagnosed.

I am AFAB and as white as they come. I showed classic autism traits as young as 6 months:

I didn't talk until I was 4, I cried and squirmed if touched, I showed no interest in others, I didn't hit my milestones, I didn't make eye contact, I lined up my toys by colour and size and showed intense interests.

My mum took me to the doctor 3 different times. The diagnosis? She's just taking her time.

See, up until quite recently, the old school of thinking was that AFAB people couldn't be autistic without intellectual disability, too.

POC are more likely to be viewed as just defiant and be given a personality disorder as a diagnosis, ignoring everything else.

Trans folk are misjudged or just outright ignored based on their AGAB. And in some places it's dangerous to be trans and autistic.

Body hair

Body fat

Stretch marks

Loose skin

Scars

Skin discolouration

Belly rolls

Thighs touching

Yellowed teeth enamel (which is the natural colour of teeth)

Breasts of all sizes

Genitalia of all shapes and sizes

Body modifications of any kind

All body shapes and sizes

What's NOT NORMAL:

You, and your aids look awesome, pretty/handsome/pleasant, and super rad.