Hi :]

Age: 14-18 years old

Gender: female

Pronouns: she/her

Likes:

Ren faire stuff

Watching jousting

Swords

Watching sword duels

Fantasy things

Animals

Mythology (specifically Aztec)

True crime

Murder Drones

Crocheting (I’m a beginner)

…Okay, there was absolutely zero reason to be rude.

I know I don’t have a say over someone else’s identity, and I’m perfectly fine with that. I’m not going to tell someone whether they can or cannot be something, because it is their identity and not mine. The only reason I made that post in the first place was because, when looking through comment sections of videos talking about lesbian transmen, I couldn’t find any explanation as to how lesbian transmen are valid on other social media platforms, so I thought I’d ask it here, since nobody was explaining how they were valid, and the only people explaining were the ones against lesbian transmen. I am not allowed to comment on peoples’ posts on TikTok or Pinterest, so I was unable to ask there.

Someone explained to me how lesbian transmen are valid, and I am extremely grateful for that.

I don’t mean to be rude, but something tells me you either didn’t read my entire original post, or you did and simply forgot about the ending, because I stated towards the end of the post that I wasn’t trying to be transphobic or lesphobic, and simply wanted to understand how lesbian transmen are valid since I couldn’t find answers elsewhere. Nowhere in that post did I try to tell people what they can and cannot identify as.

Like I said previously, there was no reason for you to be rude and twist my words just because you misread my post. I never said or implied in the original post that people can or cannot be certain things. Yes, I mentioned the definition of “lesbian” and said that, by that definition, transmen can’t be lesbians, but I wasn’t trying to mean that in a rude way. I was simply showing how people on other social media platforms who are against lesbian transmen were explaining that they are “invalid”.

Lesboy is a contradictory label meaning that one is in some way a male, and is in some way a lesbian.

This could be a trans man identifying as a lesbian before they came out as trans, and they still have a connection to the lesbian label.

This could be a genderfluid individual who still identifies as a lesbian even when they are male or masculine aligning.

This could be a multigender person who is male and female (or other gender(s)) who is a lesbian.

There are other ways to be a lesboy, too. I recommend checking out the lesboy page on the lgbtqia.wiki

I have not encountered a lesboy who is a perisex cisgender male.

(And I’m not calling you queerphobic as you haven’t done this, but it is queerphobic to say that contradictory labels such as lesboys are invalid)

I just got 6 notifications on here from 6 different accounts that mentioned me in a comment.

Those comments claimed that they were Tumblr Staff and found suspicious activity in my account and wanted me to go to a link and follow the instructions on there. (Btw, I was not the only account they mentioned in those comments, which was immediately a red flag)

Here’s the thing; TUMBLR STAFF WILL NEVER MENTION YOUR ACCOUNT NAME IN A COMMENT IF THEY FIND SUSPICIOUS ACTIVITY ON YOUR ACCOUNT! THEY WILL USUALLY SEND YOU AN EMAIL TO LET YOU KNOW.

Even if Tumblr Staff DID mention your name in a comment, THEY WILL NOT TELL YOU TO GO TO A LINK TO SORT IT OUT. THEY WILL MOST LIKELY TELL YOU TO GO TO THE HELP AND SUPPORT PAGE (or something; idk what page they’ll tell you to go to, I just know they won’t tell you to go to some random link)

The fact I got SIX notifs from DIFFERENT ACCOUNTS is insane. Like, cmon people. Do you have NOTHING better to do in life than try and scam people?! It’s ridiculous.

Anyway, thought I’d put this out there for anyone who almost fell for the scam but wanted to check if it were actually a scam.

For context, my mom was once asked to put me in a gifted class when I was younger. She declined (I don’t remember why) but I still consider myself to be a gifted kid since I was smart enough that my teacher thought I should take a gifted class.

Anyway, I saw this post on Pinterest just now:

And I read one of the comments, which said this:

IS THAT WHY I DONT HAVE MUCH PASSION FOR BAND OR ANYTHING ELSE I TRY TO LEARN?! BECAUSE IM NOT USED TO HAVING TO TRY?!

Holy crap this makes SO MUCH SENSE!

This explains why I never studied for tests until last year, and why I rarely ever practice my instrument yet still manage to be REALLY GOOD AT IT.

This also explains why I drop every new hobby I try, because I’m so used to not having to try, that I think everything I try for the first time is going to be easy!

Yknow what sucks about being the older sibling?

For those who don’t know, I’m going to explain this in the simplest way possible. I will be summarizing.

Now, I do not remember everything from the drama, and since I don’t have Discord or Twitter, I can’t exactly figure out what’s going on.

The main reason I just found out about happened when I was little (there are other reasons but I don’t wanna talk about them rn)

So, I was OBSESSED with the book Wonder by R. J. Palacio when I was…7 or 8 I think.

According to my pawpaw, I read that book so much at the time, that he could flip to any page in the book, show me a single LINE on that page, ask me what happened on that specific page, and I’d be able to tell him.

Now, I don’t remember this happening. I do remember how much I loved that book when I was little, though. It was one of the first novels I had ever read that were longer than, like, the Magic Treehouse series.