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Tumblr is changing: starting December 17, 2018, adult content will not be allowed on the site anymore. All existing content will be  permanently hidden.

Yet Tumblr always was a safe space for NSFW artists and performers who have built and maintained diverse communities with hundreds of thousands of followers.  More than 500K people signed  petitions  to reverse  the change.

Here comes Timbr.xxx. We here will try to save as much as possible until the deadline.  We start with copying blog content blog-by-blog. We are backing up all blog posts,  photos and videos to Google Cloud and making them viewable forever. To save your  own and your favorite blogs just enter their names on the main page.

I started on Tumblr soon after it was created with a vanilla blog. Since then, hardly a day has gone by that Tumblr wasn’t a part of my life. I have made excellent friends on Tumblr over the years. In fact, MOST of my friends came from relationships I made via Tumblr. The precious, bubbly cupcake that is in my bed? Tumblr. So you can imagine how painful Tumblr’s announcement has been for me.

I love seeing the marginalized communities that are shunned elsewhere on Planet Earth have a safe place to exist and be themselves. It always made me smile when I see a Tumblr blogger ease out of their shells, steadfastly into the world.

Well, that shit is no more.

As some of you may have noticed I started a community effort to rescue these communities. I want everyone involved because it will be our garden, our club, our safe space to be ourselves.

And the new site (name to be withheld until we have something to show) is not just for kinksters, I want vanillas too; artists, witches, horror writers, brewmeisters, budtenders, book sluts, fandoms of all types, beat poets, wilderness photographers, Burners, vampire hunters, Dungeons and Dragons players, and rocket scientists. Hell, I want people who just want to blog about cats and cabins in the woods.

What we won’t tolerate are bullies, minors, Nazis (and their fucked up allies), abusers or trolls. They can fuck right off to a cesspool of their choice.

I am putting up the cash to get this started PLUS I am making this a community effort, that is why I am being so transparent about the process with our Discord planning group. Yes, it is chaos. We have taken on an INSANE project to get done in less than 2 weeks. Well, 9 days now.

This isn’t my first rodeo. I am actively trying to keep my anonymity as long as I can, but I know it will soon be spugged out in due order soon. You will then see what I have done in the past and learn about a very vanilla project that has been near and dear to my heart. You have probably heard of it and maybe even participated!

The beta site will not be perfect. It will be good but not perfect. Hell, we have been suffering with “far from perfect” with Tumblr now for years. It is my hope that our community can put up with our rough edges for a little while.

Where we are tonight is pretty good. We have selected a host, got our software loaded, installed the Linux packages required and are now getting those packages to play nice with one another. We had it working for a bit until a small issue with the registration page required some elbow work.

I am working on the branding and marketing with a bunch of really smart pervs in our Discord group. I am really proud of all of our volunteers and want to thank them all. 

If you want to volunteer or simply eat popcorn and watch the porn riots, please use this invite link: https://discord.gg/jVempgb

Remember, Discord is just the site we are using for planning, not the actual site we are moving to.

Many of you have asked about the Library For Kinksters, it will be archived and placed on the now site.

We plan to allow you to import your Tumblr blog over to our new site but Tumblr may have other ideas. Other services have been using Tumblr’s API for exporting and now Tumblr now seems to be shutting down that API functionality.

That is all for now. Keep your heads held high and remember you are ALL FUCKING AMAZING PEOPLE!

- Dominant Life

P.S. Please reblog the shit out of this. Santa may drop a slutty elf off at your house for Christmas!

As Joe and I became more serious, I had to make a hard decision on how committed I was to having a non-monogamous marriage. I loved how my parents were free to experience sex with others outside their marriage and still enjoyed a happy marriage that was full of sex. Because they didn’t insist on monogamy they enjoyed sex with each other more and were happy together. Yet, I also knew I might be forced to choose between my parents version of marriage and Joe who expected to live out his parents vision of marriage. Until then I’d never really faced the reality that I might have to make such a choice if Joe was not willing to adopt my family’s lifestyle.  

I told Joe fairly early on that I would not compromise my nudist lifestyle one inch. We would not be vacation nudists or summer time nudists. Or even people that visit a nude beach. We would be in the nude all the time. It would be the defining aspect of our lives. That was the easy part.  The harder part was that he also needed to come to grip with the fact that while my heart would always belong to him, my pussy would be fucked by others. My body would always be my body and I had every intention of sharing with other men (and women) when I chose to. But at the same time I made it clear that I would never I make any claim on sole rights to his dick.  After all, with Joe possessing such an amazing dick, it would be terribly selfish of me to deny the other women of the world access.

I know a lot of men reading this would be like, where do I sign up? But I am quite sure that such feelings would evaporate quickly if faced with the choice Joe had to make all those years ago.  He loved me, but in the world he came from men expected that no man would ever touch “his” woman once they were married. Yet, I was stating clearly even as we were dating that I let him know if, for instance my roommate’s hot boyfriend wanted to screw, I would do it.   Not only that, I was saying I would continue to do so even after we were married. For almost all men that is simply something they could not even consider. It took some time. The first time, after we were a real couple, that I told him that I’d had sex with another man…

At first Joe was definitely a little stand offish, even bordering on jealousy. Then when I came home, I got naked and used my feminine charms and I sat down next to him. I started stroking Joe’s dick and he wanted to know how my date went. I started to tell him and as I did, his amazing cock got harder and harder. He was getting more turned on. Even though I was well fucked I couldn’t resist his election and I took turns sucking Joe’s dick and giving him a blow by blow. My pussy was still wet from my earlier encounter, but that didn’t stop me from getting the fucking of my life from my future husband. I came twice by Joe’s dick ask the while telling him another man’s dick fucked his future wife’s pussy. He finally filled me with his cum when I told him that one of my hot co-workers wanted him to fuck her with his monster cock.

A few weeks later he came home a Sunday morning after being out with that woman all Saturday night fucking her brains out. She was coming out of a bad relationship. And I had told her what a great dick Joe had a that he was a talented lover. She had met both Joe and my sex partner and knew that Joe was a willing participant in my nudist life and open sexuality. She admitted to me hearing how we were engaged and he made no claim to the exclusivity of my pussy and I made no claim on the exclusivity of his cock that this was a huge turn on to her. She later told that he was the best dick she ever had. They even did it a few days before our wedding.

So we did have a bump in the road early on, but in time, and with the help of talking to my dad who also had to accept this arrangement. Joe came to not only accept the idea of a committed yet sexually open marriage, he fully embraced it. He realized that me fucking other men and women was not an attack on his manhood, but increased both our sexual possibilities and opened up so many experiences that he only read about. Once he did that he found it changed his entire conception of marriage and family.

So during our courtship Joe and I had numerous discussions on our future. I have to say that I was unwavering in my passion for nudism. I knew that as a nudist my childhood was just plain better than that of my textile counterparts. I was happier about my body. I was happier around my parents and I was happier with my friends. I was open with my body and closed to body shame. Plus I was having great sex! Just the many and varied ways that I knew how to masturbate my pussy and enjoy my entire body was out of this world. I loved jilling off watching Mom and Dad do their thing.