Ur Fav Butch

“Korra is a Mary Sue.”

This is probably the weakest criticism to me. A Mary Sue is a character who’s unrealistically perfect so rarely fails and faces no meaningful consequences to their actions.

Korra is impulsive, stubborn, hot headed, spiritually disconnected, and often lets her emotions cloud her judgment. She loses her bending, loses her connection to the past Avatars, gets poisoned, develops PTSD, and spends years recovering from her trauma. She loses more major fights than almost any Avatar we’ve seen due to the strength of her villains.

Calling her a Mary Sue is not only inaccurate, it’s also reductive. It’s a label that’s disproportionately thrown at capable female protagonists, while equally gifted male characters are simply called “talented.”

“She dated her whole friend group.”

Did she?

She dated Mako as a teenager. Years later, after she and Mako had long broken up and remained friends, she began a relationship with Asami.

That’s two relationships.

Her going on one date with Bolin, a guy she was shown she didn’t like in that way, is not a relationship.

Meanwhile Sokka dates Suki, Yue, openly flirts with multiple girls throughout the series, and nobody claims he “dated the whole group.” Funny how that criticism only seems to stick to Korra. And people go as far as to label Sokka a “back bender”.

“She uses the Avatar State too much.”

People ignore context.

Korra’s villains aren’t random Fire Nation soldiers. They’re Amon, Unalaq, Zaheer, and Kuvira…arguably some of the strongest opponents in the franchise. Of course she uses the Avatar State. That’s literally what it’s for.

And the infamous race against Tenzin’s kids? It was an obvious joke. People act like she was using godlike power to win an Olympic event when it was a playful family moment. You can also see it as Aang pushing through for a moment with his grandkids.

“She’s immature.”

Yes.

She’s 17.

So are Toph, Sokka and Aang. Kids being immature isn’t bad writing…it’s called being young.

On top of that, Korra was raised in isolation in a secure compound, surrounded almost exclusively by adults and teachers. She never had a normal childhood or friends her own age. It would actually be unrealistic if she weren’t socially awkward and emotionally immature at the start.

The entire point of her story is watching her grow beyond that but I think that’s asking too much media analysis for these people.

“She loses too much.”

Isn’t that the exact opposite of being a Mary Sue?

You can’t argue she’s an overpowered and flawless character while also criticizing her for losing.

Her enemies are also far stronger and more complex than those Aang faced. Every season pits her against a villain who challenges what it means to be the Avatar in a changing world. The fights are supposed to be difficult.

“Aang is stronger.”

This debate is mostly subjective.

Aang and Korra were written for different stories.

Aang’s greatest strength was his spirituality, wisdom and ability to avoid conflict.

Korra’s greatest strength is her raw physical power, resilience and determination.

If we’re talking pure combat, Korra has a very strong case for being the stronger fighter. If we’re talking spirituality, Aang clearly has the edge.

Neither answer is objectively correct because they excel in different areas.

“She lost the past lives.”

This is another criticism that gets directed at Korra for something that wasn’t actually her choice.

The past lives weren’t lost because Korra was careless or incompetent. They were destroyed by Unalaq and Vaatu during Harmonic Convergence while Raava was literally ripped out of her. Korra fought to stop it and even managed to restore Raava, but the connection to the previous Avatars was already gone.

That’s a tragedy of the story, not a personal failure. Blaming Korra for it is like blaming Aang for the Air Nomad genocide. Sometimes terrible things happen to the Avatar that are beyond their control.

“Team Avatar was weaker.”

This criticism ignores the difference in what each series was trying to do.

Aang’s Team Avatar was made up of once in a generation prodigies. Toph invented metalbending. Katara became one of the greatest waterbenders alive. Zuko was a firebending master trained by dragons and her sister was a lighting bending prodigy. Sokka was a military strategist who was seen as outsmarting entire armies. (Idk how realistic that is but it is a kids show).

Korra’s team isn’t built around being legendary prodigies. Mako is a skilled lighting bender, Bolin grows into an accomplished lavabender, and Asami is a non bender whose strengths are engineering and intelligence. They’re capable, but they’re intentionally more realistic.

That also puts more emphasis on Korra herself. Unlike Aang, who often had teammates capable of matching elite opponents on their own, Korra frequently has to shoulder the burden of fighting the biggest threats herself. This puts more emphasis on the strength of the avatar. Her villains are also so dangerous that even her team can’t realistically take them on without her.

Rather than making Korra look weaker, it actually highlights how much responsibility falls on her as the Avatar also. Her team supports her, but they aren’t written to solve the conflict for her the way Aang’s exceptionally gifted companions often could.

“She is humanity’s destroyer”.

One thing people often forget is that every Avatar inherits the consequences of the previous one’s decisions.

Aang spent years cleaning up the aftermath of the Hundred Year War. Korra inherited a rapidly industrialising world where the role of the Avatar itself was being questioned. Every generation faces problems created by the last.

Now, with Seven Havens, we’re already seeing the cycle continue. Before the series has even begun, people are blaming Korra for the state of the world as if the entire point of Avatar isn’t that history is messy and every Avatar leaves behind both achievements and unresolved problems.

Avatar has never been a story where one Avatar “fixes everything.” It’s a story about an endless cycle of responsibility. Roku’s failures became Aang’s burden. Aang’s decisions became Korra’s challenges. Korra’s era will shape the next Avatar’s world.

If people only remember an Avatar for the mistakes they couldn’t prevent, then every Avatar has failed. But that’s never been what these stories are about. They’re about imperfect people doing the best they can in impossible circumstances, knowing the next Avatar will have to continue the work.

At the end of the day preferences exist and you don’t have to like Korra.

But calling her a Mary Sue, pretending she dated everyone she knew, ignoring the context of the Avatar State, criticizing her for acting like the teenager she literally is, and then complaining that she loses too much while also claiming she’s overpowered just isn’t consistent criticism.

taking in a man you barely know just because he needed a place to stay. noticing mel's loneliness and taking her out for a fun night, even offering to bring her sister along with zero problems. noticing an attempted suicide when no one else did, staying with him and talking to him and showing him that people do care, and life is worth it.

and you've been chewed up and spit out by life over and over again and you're not healed and maybe you never will be all the way but every day you try. you're making a life for yourself, making a career that you're fucking good at, starting to make friends, and if you fail you just keep trying. and you care about doing the right thing. you hide behind a shell but you fucking care. so much.