Spectacularly-Rectangular

she refused to lay beneath him, wishing to be his equal, only willing to have sex with him if she was on his side or on top 

adam tried to force her to have sex with him the way he wanted, so she left him and became a demon…

but basically, lilith is never documented in the bible so you cant really bash anyone by talking about this story, its just another folktale. yes, you could say the same about the bible, except even that was written down ages ago and in scrolls and documented and all that shit. lilith is mentioned in one translation of the bible, and its completely different from every other rendition (is that the right word?) with all the other translations talking about night creatures and all that jazz. 

anyway, going by what ive heard SDAs say over the past however-many years, Eve isnt even meant to Adam’s little bitch who was beneath him, they’re meant to like compliment each other or something - yeah, im a little hazy. Eve being created out of Adam’s rib isnt meant to be demeaning, its meant to show that they are equal, having taken an important bone, from the middle of his body (not his head, to say better ((i think that was it - brackets in brackets i know, dont judge)) and not his feet, to say that she is lower).