Signs of emotional, verbal, and mental abuse:
- always blaming you for things out of your control
-making you feel worthless
-humiliating you in front of other people
-demean and or disregard your opinions/suggestions/needs
-use of sarcasm or teasing to put you down and lower your self esteem and self worth
-claim you are too sensitive instead of taking ownership of how they are treating you
-Correcting your behavior
-Make you feel like you need to ask permission to do things or make decisions
-claiming they are always right and you are wrong
-pointing out your flaws continuously
-cant laugh at themselves or others laughing at them
-make excuses for their behaviorĀ
-repeatedly cross your boundaries
-call you names either to your face or behind your back
-emotionally distant most of the time
-no empathy or compassion
-pouting and or withdrawing to gain attention or get what they want
-play the victim, deflect blame to you instead
-donāt notice or care about your feelings
-deny their guilt when confronted
-making subtle threats to control you or frighten you
-Withholding information/thoughts/feelings
-denying you have any right to your thoughts or feelings
-claiming something they said that was upsetting to you was just a joke
-deciding what topics can be talked about and ignoring all others
-making what you want or do seem insignificant
-making you question yourself
-blaming you for things out of your control
-Calling you names that put you down
-always going out of their way to find something wrong to comment onĀ
-forgetting promises/dates on a regular basis
-messing with your emotions and thoughts
-making you second guess everything
NOTE: Ā Some of the signs fall under more than one type of abuse. Ā Please if you or someone you know has these signs in any of their relationships get help. Ā Get safe. Ā You are not alone. Ā We are here for you. Ā I was abused and I wish i saw this list before so I would have known earlier.
amandla
baratheonpilled
romaincrisis
