sorry for casterly rocking

Harrowing: someone in your Fandom just made an innocuous and harmless post that nonetheless betrays a deep misunderstanding of the character and the character's narrative purpose and you just have to sit there and let them be wrong lest you be an asshole

whenever people talk about farming games it's always in relation to stardew as if it birthed the genre when stardew itself is openly inspired by. yknow. A Certain Franchise That Predates It By Like 20 Years

ppl complain abt everyone being so boring/inauthentic/detached these days but the second u have interests they deem unusual theyll be like "waitttt thats giving neurodivergent..." like damn its so awesome that were pathologising giving a fuck about anything they dont sell at a tj maxx

the way the dominant ideology gets naturalised in almost every sphere of life makes people so resistant to examining it. so many people still naturalise the nuclear family, for instance. "ofc two people partner up and have children together, it's always been that way" except it hasn't always been that way and doesn't always have to be. things like childcare and providing/cooking food can be socialised. the nuclear family isn't necessary for social reproduction, and neither is the personal isolation and patriarchal oppression it supports

Tyrion's sexual abuse is often viewed as something that only happened in the past when it's actually something he still experienced as an adult. Tywin is constantly trying to have control over his sexuality from his relationships to who he has sex with this is why he has to keep Shae a secret and why he goes to extreme measures to keep her hidden. He forces Tyrion to marry Sansa then tries to pressure him into consummating it when he clearly doesn't want to. He has Shae talk about her and Tyrion's sex life in front of everyone at his trial. All of this is sexually abusive and it's not acknowledged anywhere near enough