Sombre Society

1. Believe that I exist.

2. Don’t try to talk me into redefining my identity. 

3. Celebrate bisexual, pansexual and fluid culture with me.

4. Don’t try to convince me that people who lived bisexual, pansexual or fluid lives in the past would have been gay.

5. Validate my frustration within the gay and lesbian community.

6. Ask me, if appropriate, about my other-sex relationships and my same-sex relationships. 

7. Don’t use scandals related to bisexual+ people in the news as an opportunity to make derisive remarks about us generally.

They said that the boots were “super girly” and wouldn’t suit a man. Me being the person who hates gender norms and society’s gender labels, ignored them and proceeded to purchase the boots to spite them and show that I am my own person and won’t be dictated by sexist, misogynist, patriarchal and, quite frankly, queerphobic, viewpoints.