Incomplete Life

i will not lie, friends in my phone, i have been imagining affection from time to time

"Your love language is what you were deprived of as a child" actually no you're allowed to want, prefer and like things without everything tracing back to some dormant unprocessed trauma. You can just say you want to bounce on it without having to explain how as a child you always wanted - but never got - a trampoline.

Cleaning gets easier when you remember it's a thing you're doing to make your life less miserable, and not a thing you're doing as punishment

to be seen without performing. to be heard without screaming. to be missed without disappearing. to be enough without proving it. to be held without falling apart. to be understood without explaining. to be wanted without conditions. to be. to be.

If she tells you about her father, she's handing you a fragile chapter of her story, handle it with care. Listen closely; there’s pain, love, or both behind her words. It means she trusts you with a part of her past that shaped her. She’s not just sharing memories, she’s letting you see her soul. She’s showing you the roots of her strength, or the source of her scars. She’s not just talking, she’s revealing who she became because of him.