And while I'm on the topic of Ted Lasso I only realized recently the extend to which people can watch an entire show with an extremely heavy handed message and not pick up on it's central theme. So if you're like the people on tiktok I saw recently who hated Nates story line PLEASE hear me out PLEASE.
Nates storyline was so upsetting and he did so much wrong and it was so easy to hate him. Yes. That was the intended effect. But if you finished that show and were angry that he got a redemption arc you goooootta understand that you missed the point.
I saw someone say that he didn't deserve to be forgiven and that whole plot was unnecessary.
My beloved, he was hurting inside. And that is not an excuse, that is just a reason. He was hurting inside and he thought that by doing those things it would make him feel better. And they didn't, and when he realized he had done the wrong thing he tried to fix his mistakes. Of course they forgave him. Of course they welcomed him back.
And the reason they did that was for YOU
YOU!
If YOU are hurting inside and have made irrational decisions to try to make that pain go away YOU still deserve love and to be forgiven and to have another chance!!! Let's forget about characters for a second because thats for you!!! You can make mistakes and still be loved!!!













