You've got two feet. Why won't you stand for something?

Wait but I thought dysphoria was a life ruining experience that will absolutely end in suicide if not treated with “life saving gender affirming care”? Is that not true when detransitioners have dysphoria? Their dysphoria isn’t life ruining because it’s inconvenient to your narrative?

And why are we ignoring the fact that elevated testosterone in female people is a health issue? It’s not just no big deal. It’s something that can impact female health. Especially if you’re literally injecting wrong sex hormones into yourself which can lead to increased risk of heart attack and osteoporosis and that’s just scratching the surface.

When gay people say “I’m not interested in having sex with someone of the opposite sex” they flip their lid. They go into this “HOLY SHIT DATING DOESN’T HAVE TO MEAN HAVING SEX?? WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU??” rant. 

I mean yes, Im not interested in dating a biological female full stop as a gay man - but its asinine to ignore that sex is a part of a romantic relationship for almost all of us, gay asexuals are in the minority. 

So what do you expect from us exactly? We fought to have gay sex decriminalised and we are still fighting for gay sex education. After decades of tireless work we are finally making major steps to prevent/cure AIDS. Our sexuality is an innate part of who we are and you are asking us to ignore a large part of it. By that I don’t mean we’re sex craved maniacs (though thats the narrative I see a lot), but we have had to fight for our sex to not be illegal - do you not understand the significance of that? We fought for our right to have sex the way we want to and now you want to take that away from us while claiming to be part of the same community and supporting us. Anyone who claims to be gay or our “ally” while supporting this rhetoric is nothing more than a wolf in sheep’s clothing. A lot of gay people will spend a significant part of their lives in the closet, wishing they could change. Once these people have come out of the closet, to then tell them that ACTUALLY they should still have have sex with people they’re not attracted to or accept a sexless relationship is nothing short of evil and homophobic. 

i immediately unfollowed and blocked the mutual who'd resblogged it. even thinking about it again now is making me so fucking angry

I can’t figure out if these men are just entitled misogynists who want to make women’s issues about them, or if they’re genuinely delusional.

Either way this is such an insane take…what do you MEAN men get worse pms than women lmao. Can they hear how idiotic they sound??

What discussions about periods are we supposed to include men in? Discussions about period poverty? Oh, they don’t experience that. Discussions about figuring out how to deal with the blood in school during the most awkward time of your life? Oh, that doesn’t apply to them either. Discussions about menstrual huts? Except no male has ever been sent to one. Discussions about women being treated as “unclean” during their periods and forbidden from certain activities? That hasn’t affected a single male ever.

Hey, you, cis girl that's very (correctly) vocal about women being allowed to talk about their periods, do you include trans women in that? I ask because every single time I've tried to talk about it to anyone that isn't a trans woman they get fucking angry. Which has caused me to have to just suffer in silence every single month. So I really relate to cis women when they talk about literally the exact same thing; being shamed by everyone around them their whole lives for talking about their periods, so they just suffer in silence every month as it negatively impacts their work and social lives. But I don't even feel like I can voice that I am literally dealing with the same exact thing because most of y'all react like you want to throw me in front of a bus for saying it, even those of you who act like your such big great transfem allies.

"hey you cis girl"

i legitimately hate these moids

Ugh this is so disgusting 💀

Again…what the fuck do they even want to talk about??? They do not experience the exact same thing as us, they’re missing the part that actually makes it a period: the bleeding.

In the patriarchal imagination, the male is never raped. The male is never degraded. The male is never overpowered. The male never loses. Only the female.

AGPs, traumatized effeminate men or men who have an erotic, fetishistic lust for male violence declaring themselves to be "women" or "female"- are agents of patriarchy.

They are intent on preserving the illusion that the sacred male is always unblemished and never overpowered. They want the disempowerment, shame and humiliation of rape to belong exclusively to women and females.

Female ppl had such limited freedom in most societies throughout history there was no reason to dub them a third gender- all female ppl were uniformly forced to marry and reproduce with men- lesbian or not, gender non conforming or not. There was no functional purpose in creating a third gender category for them since they had the same personal freedoms as essentially cattle.

Male people-typically having more personal freedoms- needed to be categorized according to who was living up to masculine standards and who was failing.

How fucking BAD does it have to fucking get?! Drive in RAPE stalls like women are actual cattle.

This is a threat. This is literally saying “Be grateful that prostitutes exist, otherwise men would treat you like that.” And, in continuation, “If men don’t go to whores, they’ll rape you instead.” 

you actually have to do less mental gymnastics to say someone who is female can be a female homosexual than to say “lesbian is a sexuality describing anyone with the essence of a woman including both males and females but it still means female homosexual.” trans women treat trans men like the antichrist and dumbass fucking losers then have the audacity to get mad when trans men rightfully fight back. 🤨 surprise they’re not your punching bags just because you’re insecure in your “womanhood”.

and having the audacity to say “transmisandry isn’t real fuck you and die” to some of the only other people in the LGBT community really willing to defend you is absolutely bonkers.