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If transfems call themselves dolls do transmascs call themselves action figures

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people on this site will say "kill trans people" and be surprised that they are being called a transphobe
The reason why so many of y'all's feminism sucks is because you still believe deep down in your hearts that there are only two kinds of people in the world: precious, ethereal, fragile dollthings called "women", and violent, lustful, rage-fueled apes called "men". Until you throw that idea away, 3rd-grade-tier "girls rule boys drool, girls are princesses and boys are stinky :(" is as feminist as we'll ever get-- and I hope it's obvious that that's lightyears away from the bare minimum of where we need to be.
I don't know how I'm supposed to explain to ostensibly trans-friendly feminists that "women are beautiful soft things made of glass, men are obsessed with violence and sex" is exactly what the patriarchy wants you to believe. Patriarchy wants you to believe that being a woman and/or having a vagina (patriarchy generally believes those two things are synonymous) makes one shatter on impact with reality. It makes you easier to control if you are scared shitless of the other half of the population, and it makes you more compliant with your lot in life if you believe it is in the nature of the other half of the population to rape and kill rather than realise those were choices those individual rapists and murderers made. There is no way to make gender essentialism progressive and feminist, because it is one of patriarchy's tools of subjugation. Stop trying to make it progressive.
And I can scream all of that from the rooftops over and over again, and what I hear in reply is "Trans men really are men because no woman would ever decide to become an inherently evil repugnant rapist ape", and "You're so right. Trans women are women because they too are pretty delicate little objects I can fuck", and "You're non-binary? So are you fucktoy non-binary or sexpest non-binary?", and my patience runs ever thinner.
You're so right! the fact that this still needs saying after decades of feminist theory is genuinely infuriating. Bell Hooks had this covered!
The work isn't choosing better categories: it's learning to think without need categories in the first place. I mean- Please Stop trying to shove people into tidy little boxes! I escaped my box!
But how do we help people notice they're thinking in binaries without immediately sorting 'binary thinking' into another binary? This is why I say "labels are traps".
How do we train brains to stretch to continuums, and nuance, and 'grey areas'?
bastard sounds great in an irish accent. if an irish person calls you a 'daft bastard' it just feels right
the welsh have the monopoly on things ending in hell. fuckin hell and bloody hell hit different in a welsh accent. its like music to my ears
the scots have piss and shite for sure. "its pishin it doon out there" "this is a load of shite" absolute poetry
if i may speak for the english i think we do penis related words very well. dickhead, knobhead, twat, etc.
and for all the shit we give them, you gotta admit that no one can deliver a 'goddamn' quite like an american. theres a certain weight to it that you just cant achieve in other accents. when an american says goddamn you know shit just got real
The Myth of Trans Male Privilege?: A Casual Statistical Analysis of Three English-Language Wikipedia Articles
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Before I begin, I want to make some big disclaimers: I am NOT a professional statistician, polisci specialist, or etc.- I’m merely a person with access to Excel with some undergraduate-level statistics courses under my belt. The data used here is compiled by me, somewhat messily, from the Jan. 9th 2026 versions of these three Wikipedia articles, plus some supplementary information I could find attempting to verify demographics information. I am not claiming these numbers to be 100% accurate, and they should be taken with a massive grain of salt, but I do believe they speak to larger trends and therefore are worth discussing.
Figure 1. Percent of total number of transgender politicians by region.
First up, I have an interesting general demographics figure that, while not entirely relevant to the point of this post, I think is interesting nonetheless. As you might expect from English language Wikipedia pages, the majority of the reported data comes from North America and Europe. Verifying how reflective this is of reality, and whether there are (likely) politicians missed in non-English speaking parts of the globe, is outside the scope of what I, a random guy on the internet, is willing and able to perform.
Table 1. Number of elected transgender officials by demographic.
A summary table compiled from my master data sheet, listing out just how many officials from each demographic there is worldwide, according to the articles. The most standout numbers here is the difference between the numbers of trans women and men- 159 vs 15! That’s more than 10x the number of trans women that have been elected to a position of power than trans men. A note for this section is that I grouped some identities together for simplicity of data presentation, but there were more microlabels and groups than listed here.
Figure 2. Identity of transgender officials worldwide, with categorizations by region.
The big summary figure, showing that worldwide, only 7% of transgender elected officials have been trans men. The most “even” proportion, coming from North America, only represents 10% of the total. The least even proportion came from Oceania, where no electorates identified as trans men, although they also made up the smallest percentage (6%) of the global total. Europe had the least diversity, with only two groups represented- trans men and trans women- with no entries labeled as nonbinary. Again, it bears repeating that these figures are based on a small aggregated source, and very well (and should) be further revised in a future academic context.
Takeaways
Does this data support the idea that trans men, like cis men, are advantaged over women in government? In short: No. Significantly fewer trans men have been able to achieve political power than several other groups of trans people in a stark reversal of their cis counterparts’ trends. Trans politicians make up a very small minority of worldwide officials, and an even smaller minority of those officials are trans men. What can we conclude, then?
1. Trans people, as a group, are a political minority and have little sway over the policies that affect us.
2. Trans men experience unique challenges that significantly reduce their ability to rise to political positions of power, undermining the argument that “male privilege” is easily accessible to them once they come out.
3. We need to lift up all trans politicians, regardless of demographic, and remove the barriers to success without presenting one group as more important than another.

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the "transfeminist" discourse on this website is so like... white trans women need to be more aware of the fact that asians assigned male at birth are often perceived as more feminine than their white counterparts. if you're black, it's the opposite. they speak like everyone starts out the same, but that's just not true. you, as a white person, are far more free to explore femininity/masculinity than people of color are.
they also don't seem to understand the ways in which cis women of color are forced to interact with western ideas of gender. the darker your skin is, the more masculine you're often thought of being. i said this the other day, but not all cis women get to enjoy the cliche soft femininity filled with flowers and rainbows. darker-skinned women are not handed femininity on a silver platter. maybe take that into consideration the next time you try to pull some theory out of your ass
I found out today that there was a (thankfully very ill-fated) attempt to have the entire Wikipedia article on discrimination against transgender men deleted. At first I thought the perpetrator was yet another bargain bin transphobe/TERF act of disruption but apparently not so, she is a trans woman. The user in question had been disputing the use of transandrophobia in the article as being inappropriate, but as other editors pointed out, the way in which it was used was as to be expected (basically saying “hey this term is being used commonly right now in places to describe this phenomena”). When attempts to get the article edited to remove any mention of the term failed, this user instead decided to just nominate the whole article for deletion instead. She even went as far as to say “you will never be a man” to the editors disputing this, though it was quickly deleted. It’s the actions of only a single person, but I find this indicative of how the chronic devaluing and othering of transmasculine people and voices in faux-transfeminist spaces leads to action basically indistinguishable from cis transphobes. Resorting to attempted vandalism of an online resource and blatant transphobia is a symptom of this trend that deserves absolutely no patience at this point.
I hate when I'm looking at posts from someone I don't like and then a worse person shows up and I gotta be like "DON'T TALK ABOUT THIS PIECE OF SHIT LIKE THAT!" I feel like one of the humans in a Godzilla movie.
In case anyone was wondering about the current state of transfeminism, one of the most praised transfeminist authors just boldly and unapologetically referred to someone as "tdickmatized".
We're supposed to take seriously the critiques of a woman who is coming up with new derogatory terms for transmascs in relation to their genitals.
okay you've taken offense to this one sentence in the book. which book? oh you won't tell us okay*. oh it was ten words from that run-on sentence which you've. okay which you've paraphrased to mean something inflammatory. awesome i'll 100% buy your book encouraging transfems to secede from community as a whole so we only associate with people we agree with! #communism am i right
*Book is Public Sex: The Culture of Radical Sex by Pat Califa by the way
I realise dogpiling isn't gonna change anyone's mind but i'll say my bit anyway. The people who are constantly uplifted on this website as pillars of transfeminism are increasingly just reactionaries using revolutionary communist talk to drive hate and encourage us to fear our non-transfem friends and isolate ourselves from any sort of actual force creating social change.
I would like everyone to know:
Everyone who’s upset about me going after this book and using the phrase the tdickmatized… you’re defending a book that defends pedophilia. Not any amount of destigmatizing but straight up abolishing the age of consent. Have a good day.
I am not defending the author or their views by criticizing your use of the word tdickmatized. You can criticize the author's views without using derogatory terms for transmasc's genitals.
That is one HELL of an extremely bold claim to make about a book that, again, the OOP is refusing to let anyone read for themselves on the basis of it being a traumatically corrupting influence.
Which is interesting, since the book is over thirty years old.
If Pat Califa were, in fact, actually agitating for an increase to the sexual abuse of endangerment of children, don't we all think perhaps that would have been mentioned in the last 30 years of commentary?
No?
No, we should just assume that a queer man--the group of people MOST LIKELY to be stigmatized as child molesters in the west--is himself a secret child molester and that it took the brave and insightful eye of someone who personally detests him for being a queer man to figure it out?
You really think a book that has had multiple reprints and multiple additions in the last 30 years is secretly calling for mass child rape and no one else ever noticed?
I'll say it again:
That's one HELL of a bold claim.
A claim refuted by Califa in 1992 before the first edition of the cited book was even released:
'I don't agree with NAMBLA, because their position is that age-of-consent laws should be repealed, and there are members of that organization who think it's OK for prepubescent children to have sexual relationships with adults, and I just cannot agree with that. I think it's developmentally inappropriate.'
So, yeah, okay, this is just straight up lying to call a queer man a child rapist so you can feel great about sexually harassing him by mocking his genitals in public.
TLDR: OOP is a lying asshole who wants us to really truly believe for realsies that THIS time the queer man being lambasted as a child rapist is doing it for real. Meanwhile, the man in question has been loudly refuting these claims for longer than OOP has been ALIVE.
OOP who, as a reminded, faked receiving a threatening FBI letter for her "transfeminist" writing, signed some bullshit "I vow to never believe or repeat any accusations against trans women no matter the context" pledge, and uses fuckin gen AI to write her shitty little articles.
She just isn't queer friendly or feminist in any sense. Shes a liar and a grifter.
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If Spider-Gwen had a bi flag on her wall there wouldn’t be any debate as to whether or not she was really bi
“Oh but I think that it’s that her version of Peter was trans so that’s why—”
This conversation would not exist if it was a bi flag or a pan flag or an ace flag
Why are you so eager to convince yourself that she’s not a trans woman? Why is that?
“I don’t mind characters being trans but I hate that it’s made their whole personality can’t it just be that they’re trans and the narrative doesn’t have the call all this attention to it? Just let it be subtly there”
Aight here’s a trans woman who’s narrative is thematically linked with her transness in a way that enriches both her story, her characterization, and the story around her who doesn’t ever mention that she’s trans (but y’know she has a trans flag in her room in the background subtly like you asked)
“Uhhhh yeah she isn’t trans where does it say that she’s trans and also why would it matter that she’s trans? Stop projecting yourself onto fictional characters”
I bet some of y’all think the message of Moby Dick is that we should kill whales
It's either Gwen or her dad. Maybe even both.
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