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Alright, let's blow the dust off this blog and get back to using it.

Hey, I'm Sleepless, also thesleeplessdoktor or Doktor Sleepless in a few other places. If you see me out and about on the internet, wave if you like!

I'm a 30 something hypnokinkster in Eastern Standard Canada who writes and roleplays through the various urges that occasionally possess me.

I have a few stories on Read Only Mind, and I have this blog.

Obviously it goes without saying that the things marked with 'erotica' are just that. Fiction. I don't condone the actions of fictional characters, you know the drill. I write stuff that's unethical to do in real life but really hot to get off to.

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Always a mix of sadness and frustration when someone up and deletes or just starts ghosting you.

So, was playing with one of my subjects the other night and in the planning phases it became a session with an audience.

Which quickly became a "and now the audience is hypnotized too" given how the other subjects kind of chased after the first.

Did everyone enjoy being brainwashed and deepening their submission? Yes. Yes they did.

straymisc

the simple fact is, the more segregated an adult/kink space is from everyday life is, the more it sucks. this applies to the kink in your head as much as it does for websites, shops, and events. the less 'normal' you treat sex and kink, the more adult and kink spaces become insular selfish wankfests.

sleeplessdoktor

And for everyone who says "but what about the children" for the love of god there need to be spaces where other people's children do not have to be my responsibility.

The more that something is made to feel borderline illicit, or actually illicit the less space there is for nuance, harm reduction approaches and genuine education. The more that something is labelled as "wrong" or "weird" the more license we provide to genuine bad actors. The less clear and open education is, the more shady corners, dark alleys and missing stairs there are for people to exploit.

merithegreyelf

Doms are so confusing.

Their vibes can switch so quickly.

What do you mean you can be giggling at a poorly rendered shark 1 minute & have control me effortlessly with my mind melting the next?

No fair..

sleeplessdoktor

This is the way.

You can't take yourself or life too seriously *and* expect to keep the joy of kink kindled in your heart. Silliness is important where you can find room for it.

Dorky little triggers, inflicting psychic damage on subs with wordplay in their mantras, making them respond to your whims simply because it will make them laugh. This is what makes kink joyful for me, and keeps me from burning out.

merithegreyelf

This!

Veeeery important to know when doing this sorta stuff. I fully agree.

That being said...

Still not fair, y'all can be silly and be pulling all the strings at the same time (；ＴДＴ)

*cough* Makes me hornier I just love complaining and being a brat about it *cough*

Oh, pardon me I have a sore throat

sleeplessdoktor

Complaining is a sacred right. And something you get familiar with the good version of.

My doll frequently calls me a witch. Another sub complains and adds a /pos to the end when they want to vent about how good it is to be controlled and denied.

Anyone not listening or willing to stop for the potential of a "oh that's a genuine issue" isn't paying enough attention.

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merithegreyelf

Doms are so confusing.

Their vibes can switch so quickly.

What do you mean you can be giggling at a poorly rendered shark 1 minute & have control me effortlessly with my mind melting the next?

No fair..

sleeplessdoktor

This is the way.

You can't take yourself or life too seriously *and* expect to keep the joy of kink kindled in your heart. Silliness is important where you can find room for it.

Dorky little triggers, inflicting psychic damage on subs with wordplay in their mantras, making them respond to your whims simply because it will make them laugh. This is what makes kink joyful for me, and keeps me from burning out.

Honestly, too many people are trying to rush to a point they want with hypnosis, hypnotists are probably worse than subjects about it though.

You do not need to hypnotize someone into sending you nudes. It's not going to work most of the time anyway, and will make you look like a creep.

But, if you respect their boundaries, play with their mind in the way they beg for, and treat them like a person when it's important to do so, you don't actually need a hypnotic trigger.

Do this and adorably horny playthings will happily display themselves!

My neighbours have a device out in the front garden intended to deter skunks. Except, it's this little stake and at night it pulses through colours.

And the terminally hypnokinky part of my brain went "oh right, a visual fixation device to catch people trying to run away from being brainwashed"

perfectfeelings

“If someone treats you badly recognize that there is something wrong with them, not you. Normal people do not go around destroying other people.”

— Unknown

miscling

don't just say no, give it a way to earn a yes, and make that way to earn a yes mean, degrading, humiliating, and achievable

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There's something really fun about meeting a sub who is already trained or kinky in a way you enjoy and going "We're going to customize you to better suit me, does that sound fun?"

And naturally her answer was "Yes, please!"

So now she gets instructions, simple things like colour to include in an outfit, or what to listen to. Because I like to be surprised a little

But she's being trained to put her knowledge of my taste at the center of what she chooses. Just knowing "he said this was a favourite" and encouraging that consideration is such an insidious control.

So of course I love it.

#the dom thing #hypnosis #bimbofication

yourlocalmissingtexture

Unhinged “trust me, I’m a doctor” scientist & their partner whom they perform questionable experiments on is my favorite dynamic

br4ttysub

control me but like in the sense that you really care about me and my wellbeing and not in an abusive way

stepfordgentleman

An important lesson

sleeplessdoktor

Only way I'm interested in.

lemoncutie

okay okay hyponotic amnesia is hot but consider being incredibly aware of the hypnotist's suggestions. knowing exactly what they're doing to you, how they're manipulating your mind... and you don't want to stop it because you've been told you don't want to stop it. wonderful

sleeplessdoktor

Having a thought and knowing it originated from outside of your mind.

Doing something and knowing that not only that you did it because you were told to, but you didn't have any choice.

Waking up and picking out an outfit and realizing it's one your hypnotist has said they like after you've finished dressing up like an obedient toy.

Knowing that even if you tried to resist, you wouldn't make any headway because it feels so much easier to obey.

thehypnobunny

Consent PSA of the day

If someone asks you if you’re comfortable with X happening and you don’t know, remember that you don’t necessarily have to decide yes or no! Acceptable answers can include:

I don’t know but let’s try it and see

I don’t know but I don’t want to find out right now, but please ask again next time

I don’t know but go ahead and I’ll tell you to stop if i don’t like it

I don’t know but go ahead and then I’ll think about it for a few days and get back to you with my thoughts

I don’t know, can you tell me more about that?

I don’t know, can I watch you do it to someone else?

I don’t know, can I talk to someone you’ve done that with?

Then the other party can decide whether they are comfortable with your suggested approach.

Happy kinking!

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Every once in a while I get a follow and I wonder, what brought this person here. Sometimes the interest is obvious, other times it's an utter mystery. Probably because side/main difference.

But curiosity remains as to what path lead them there. Which post sparked a connection?

prettysheepy

Godddd so horny thinking about doing kink and consent discussions with somebody...just sitting across from one another, discussing limits and boundaries and fantasies you want to try, looking the other in the eye and seeing how excited they get at the ideas put on the table, at sharing the things they want to do to you, at hearing the things you want to do to them...

anyway bdsm-safety talks are hot as fuck

sleeplessdoktor

Absolutely, this is also the time where you find out if the other person can treat you like a human being as opposed to a convenient vessel for their kink of choice.

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