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- P. Califia, "Public Sex"

That was 1986. In some ways it's gotten so much better. In all too many ways it still hits hard.

"The Meese Commission has highlighted the failure of most civil libertarians to deal directly with porn. The typical anticensorship witness argued that we can't ban porn because the next things to go would be important - art, literature, theater, legitimate film, political protest. But this claim rings hollow. Silencing artists and radicals is not on the Commission's agenda. Most of the commissioners are quite plain about the fact that they just don't like people having sex out of wedlock or looking at porn and not feeling guilty about it.

The flaws of pornography make it difficult to defend. Much of it is sexist, made under poor working conditions, overpriced, and controlled by the Mafia. But you can't fix any of these problems by making it even more illegal and harder to get. The more marginal, the more persecuted porn is, the worse it will become. And the new producers who are gambling with nonsexist, challenging material will be squeezed out of business.

More of us have to start saying that we use porn, like it, and want it to be accessible. Even given the constraints under which it is currently produced, pornography is valuable. It sends out messages of comfort and rebellion. It says: Lust is not evil. The body is not hateful. Physical pleasure is a joyful thing and should not be hidden or denied. It is not true that women have no sexual hunger. There are other people who think about and do the things you dream about. Freedom is possible.

There is a choice.

There is a choice.

The number of people on this site who hold otherwise progressive values yet who will fight you to death like a wild dog over any one of these sentences is absolutely wild.

Don’t just lick His feet…worship them.

Your collar isn’t just a piece of leather or steel you put on or take off whenever you feel like it.

It’s not something that disappears when you put on a suit, walk into a boardroom, or take charge of a meeting. In fact, it’s especially there in those moments; quiet, steady, and unyielding beneath the surface of your professional armor. You might lead at work, make decisions, carry the weight of responsibility, and hold the respect of those around you, but none of that changes who you are beneath it all.

Because being collared means something deeper than titles or roles. It means your submission isn’t a part-time thing or a mood. It’s a core truth that follows you everywhere. Your collar is always on, even when it’s invisible to others. It’s a constant reminder that no matter how high you rise or how much control you wield in the world, your loyalty and devotion belong to someone else.

Obedience is the beginning.

It’s the action you take when you first step into submission; following commands, showing up, doing what’s asked without question. But obedience alone isn’t enough. True submission is built on trust. It’s trust that forms the foundation beneath everything else. Once your Masters have earned that trust, respect isn’t something you have to force or demand, it grows naturally, quietly, and powerfully.

With that respect comes a shift. You don’t just obey because you must; you obey because you want to, because you recognize Their strength, Their wisdom, Their control. These Men have proven They’re worthy of your loyalty. They hold your safety and your purpose in their hands, and you let yourself sink deeper into that reality. That surrender isn’t weakness; it’s the greatest strength you have.

They lead; you follow. They hold the power, the vision, and the discipline; you serve willingly, with heart and soul. You accept your role because it’s where you find clarity, peace, and a sense of meaning. The deeper you sink, the clearer your purpose becomes.

Respect is born from trust, and that respect binds you tighter to your Masters. It’s a living, growing force that shapes your submission into something sacred.