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How to earn points

1 edge with hands = 1 point

1 edge by humping something = 2 points

1 edge by stroking just the head = 2 points

1 edge while kneeling = 2 points

1 edge with underpants on = 2 points

1 edge standing = 3 points

1 edge with legs in the air(upside down posture) = 3 points

1 edge outside your room = 3 points

1 edge outside the house = 4 points

Watching porn for 10 minutes without touching = 2 points

1x hitting my balls = 3 points

5x spanking ass = 2 points

Clamps on nipples for 5 minutes = 2 points

Clamps on balls for 5 minutes = 4 points

Toothpaste on cock head for 5 minutes = 3 points

Go outside without underpants for ~ 1 hour = 3 points

Go outside without underpants for more than 2 hours = 4 points

Licking precum while edging = 2 points

Anal penetration for 5 minutes = 5 points

Important: If you do two tasks at once, you only get the higher amount of points. Example: you edge by humping something (2 points) outside of your room (3 points) you get 3 points (not 2, not 5).

Rewards

Cum Eating = -50 points

Cumming on face = -75 points

Ruined orgasm = -100 points

Full orgasm = -200 points

Important: Doing something of the above really costs you points. So if you have 20 points and you choose to fuck yourself with a dildo, you’re left with 10 points.

To make things more difficult(depends on number of reblogs I get) If I get odd number of reblogs, I will make the game difficult using the following!

I can only do 10 edges per day.

Wait half an hour after every edge.

I can not do the same task twice a day.

Lastly the number of days I have to play this also depends on all you lovelies!

50 notes = 14 days

100 notes = 1 month

200 notes = 2 months

400 notes = 3 months

I will be counting the notes and reblogs starting today 12PM EST, Tuesday 10th August until 12PM EST, Friday 13th August.

A simple spiral.

With a simple mantra.

All you need to do.

Another edging game here. This time we're taking things to a more interesting route. Your initial time for edging will be 1 week. If you at all fail to edge the correct amount of times the amount of edges per day will double and the overall time the game lasts will also be doubled. This game can essentially last years if you fail too much.

Roll 1: How many edges per day

10-12

16-18

20-24

26-28

30-32

40

Roll 2: Orgasms

Even: Yes

Odd: Not unless permitted

Roll 3: Punishment

Pussy Spanking (2spanks per edge missed 20 spanks per orgasm not allowed)

Clamping (Clamps on tits and clit until you succeed your next daily edging)

Lose Clothes (lose 2 articles of clothing until you succeed your next daily edging)

Humiliation (Do any humiliating task your dom tells you to)

Obedience (Do anything your dom tells you to do until you succeed your next daily edging)

Time, Edging, and Slavery. (Instead of overall time and edging being doubled it will instead be Trippled permanently, and you will do anything you're told until you succeed your next daily edge)

Roll 4: Freedom Roll (Optional at any time during game)

1 or 2: Freedom from game.

3 or 4: Time and edges doubled

Originally written for FetLife Wed, April 3rd, 2019  https://fetlife.com/users/7310184/posts/5546604

So, this morning I woke up after a week of being on the edge of sanity over online harassment from all sides. I have blocked everyone involved weeks ago on every single platform and yet my name continues to pour from their lips. If you don’t know me or the situation you really have no place to comment on whether or not I should be banned from con spaces, fetlife groups or various other places.

Here is what I have done.

I did back in February 2018 purchase a file from the patreon of one NeuralNets upon the notice from a submissive of mine that he heard it in a discord server and the content scared him. When I asked why he said he didn’t want to tell me. I said, fair enough and decided to find out for myself. What this lead to was HypDom and I creating a transcript of the whole ordeal and posting it with reasons why consent warnings are basic minimum for this kind of thing. The post exploded into a huge back and forth over abuse and a lot of people came for my work and started attacking me. For about five days I lay in bed crying, not knowing what to do or when the harassment would stop. Lies about me started coming out from all sides and I lost friends, followers and got blacklisted from a lot of discord spaces due to my small support group and lack of numbers.

So, after this I kept mostly to myself except for a few times in the leaders of servers discord, Watch Tower where I did get into a debate with Neural about NLP and what it is. Considering I was doing a certification in it at the time I didn’t like the lies he was trying to spread about it’s use and I felt the need to say something. (If you want screenshots, DM me I have them saved.) Occasionally people would ask me about the whole feather ordeal and I would tell them what I knew, and I started attending cons and the like later that year. After I got back from Entranced, I met LittleMissMorpho at a local munch and we became fast friends. She was very positive about Pattern Palace, the server on Discord run by Neural Nets and told me all about how, “things had changed”, “he’s nicer now” and “you should come back on”, I politely declined as I didn’t feel safe after all the online abuse I got from him and his followers. Unfortunately this all changed for her as well when she started receiving emails from him about me all about how she needs to stop supporting me and reblogging my posts. (Again, I have these emails, if you would like proof you can DM me). This is about the time I also got messages on tumblr from another creator friend of mine (again, I have screenshots) telling me NN was messaging him and talking about suing me for defamation.

Then, things started moving in Pattern Palace. When Neural stepped down as owner I heard tell from a close friend that they were looking to keep it as a more neutral space for creators to share their work and hang out. Myself, my girlfriend and a few others joined. This lasted all of about an hour as we soon realised he was not only still there but running the show from the background. When we asked about what was really going on things broke into all out chaos. There are paste bins of said chaos if you really want to go there, it was a lot. I left and again tried my best to turn my back on the whole crew.

Cut to December, my family were away on holiday and I was home alone when I got some strange messages from an ex patron of mine, “Someone sent me a brainwashing file about you.” Honestly I didn’t know what to believe and being the type of person who likes evidence I asked to see the file, they couldn’t send it. What they did send me was a series of messages from someone claiming to be MistressMagenta. I called a few people who were in on this whole ordeal, yes actually spoke to them on the phone over discord and the story I was told was, someone claiming to be Magenta was a close friend of mine and we had had a falling out and so as revenge they were making a file and sending it to patrons of mine to turn them against me. Honestly, the story was far fetched at best until, I started getting messages from two patrons of mine calling me a liar and telling me I steal all my work and content from other creators. This was were my mental health took a nosedive and in a moment or weakness I gave myself the cuts on my thigh that have scarred me, probably for life. It was at this stage everyone thought I was going insane, a patron of mine told me he would message Magenta and let her know she was being framed. He did, she said thanks and I thought it was over.

It wasn’t. Two weeks before Charmed I got a message from the concom about a report that was going to be filed against me. They had received a message from Bliss to say that one of their presenters had doxxed Neural and needed to be reprimanded. They asked her to write a report and once they did they would deal with it. When asked to comment I said I didn’t know what they were talking about only to later find it this was all because I reblogged a post from MissMorpho where she has used the real first name of Neural and the supposed “real name” of Bliss. We later found out this was NOT her real name. I was told everything should be fine and I could still teach at Charmed, which I did. I won’t go into details about the hotel thing as everyone has their own story to tell, what I will say is at dinner on the Thursday, a close friend pulled me aside and said Neural made plans to come to the lobby of the Charmed hotel, and that I should be careful. I went back to my room and cried, scared that I could be at risk. I spent the rest of the weekend trying to keep busy and around people.

Cut to the last month. A friend of mine, Nath, was banned from the EH Fetlife group for fighting with Neural over issues of consent practices. When the announcement was made I took it upon myself to share my story and some posts I was sent about Neural. You can read my comments on it on the EH page it’s all posted there. I thought this would be the end, it wasn’t. Recently VanessaSpectre has taken to all forms of social media, more specifically fetlife and tumblr to accuse me of doxxing. The reblog that I did back in December is apparently enough to warrant my banishment from both the con scene and the EH Fetlife group. She also claims I am harassing them relentlessly, which I have yet to see proof of. Bliss sent a message to the consent page of the NEEHU discord server, I won’t comment on what was said as I’m not in that group but I also chose not to get involved. I have been working hard not to get into this drama. Vanessa has continued to comment on various posts and keeps talking about it, stirring up the community to turn their back on me. You can see her main posts here https://vanessaspectre.tumblr.com/post/183841709757… https://vanessaspectre.tumblr.com/post/183890944597… I have not ever met this person, talked to this person nor know anything about this person, so for them to say such things about me has been deeply hurtful and everyone who has been watching my past few live streams knows, I take this all very seriously indeed.

This is my story, my whole truth and things from where I was standing. I can’t decided what you think nor can shape your mind to thinking one way or the other about me but I just wanted to make it known that this is who I am and what I have personally done. I am hurt. I am deeply saddened by the people calling for me to be banned from spaces I worked hard to help build and wanted to be a part of, but at the same time if I am not wanted I will exit quietly and without a fight.

I am done with fighting, and I am done with sharing this story. A story that has been going for OVER a year now. My mental health has plummeted since March last year. I started medication for depression, social anxiety and OCD in November and will be using my patreon money to go and get some CBT for my self harm and other issues that while they didn’t start here, they have been exacerbated by all this. I’m not sorry for anything I have done or said. I am sorry for those who feel the need to judge me before they could get a chance to know me and what I stand for. I just wanted this community, our community to be a better place. I wanted to push for education and give people the knowledge to make informed decisions with negotiating kink play. I love kink and all it has given me, but like I said I am more than prepared to give it all up if people decide that I need to be punished for my actions, and I will live by that.

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If aces do this? Then what’s the difference between them and non-ace individuals? I’m not attacking or anything.. just want to know

https://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/06/19/asexual-spectrum_n_3428710.html

Other resources you should check out.

https://www.asexuality.org

https://fuckyeahasexual.tumblr.com/FAQ

http://wiki.asexuality.org/Main_Page

Many asexual people still feel romantic attraction, find people good looking, or require intimacy outside of sex. Some have sex because they enjoy the closeness with their partners but don’t necessarily need to orgasm. Some just like the feeling of an orgasm. Some have sex drives and have absolutely no need to have sex with anyone else. None of that has to do with sexual attraction.

The problem with offering submissives tips to avoid predators is that predators can also read and, I believe, sometimes even access the internet. You know, like the rest of Western humanity. Take it slow, establish a rapport, establish trust before the first trance - these are good rules from both sides of the spiral.

However, something I can do is reduce the chance of this happening accidentally. So, I present some things to think about, based on slips I have to regretfully own up to having made, things I spotted, and things I’ve heard.

This will not be a complete list and everyone is encouraged to add to it.

If the reason you’re happy with the subject setting a limit is that you’re pretty sure that limit will move as the relationship progresses, you need to figure out which are hard and which are soft limits. (Maybe they’re gonna be malleable. Maybe not.)

Talk through what you’re going to do until and unless you’ve established that your subject both likes surprises and trusts you to give them.

Talk through what you did afterward. Do not brush off objections, complaints, or even apparently minor issues raised by the subject. It’s their head, not yours.

Lock your damn triggers. Without their express request, triggers should be locked in some way. At minimum, they should expressly work only when the subject is comfortable with that. Possibly they should work only with nobody else around depending on the subject’s particular situation. II recommend that they work only for the hypnotist giving them unless otherwise discussed.

Mark Twain said that the difference between the nearly-right word and the really-right word is the difference between the lightning bug and the lightning. Think through how you want to phrase your suggestions, how you want to limit them for safety. What will be safe? For that matter, what will generate the effect you’re playing with most effectively?

If it’s a one-off session or intended to be, even if you hope to get another chance later, your triggers and suggestions should be cleared out before you go.

Their consent within trance is not consent. In a long-term relationship where both or all parties understand the dynamic, there may be indicators both sides can use to determine consent without explicit discussions. You shouldn’t be doing that at all at the start, and you should always discuss any attempt at that afterward and be prepared to have been in the wrong.

Suggestions to temporarily enhance their enjoyment are totally fine. Suggestions to develop a stronger dom/sub dynamic are fine. Suggestions which are designed over the long term to make them less able to decide yes or no for themselves are the height of fuckery and should be stamped out.

Every altered state suggestion should have two limits on it; one you can use to end it if needed, and one that will shut it off anyway before it causes trouble should you forget.