FemDom

I have news for you. You’ve been lied to. Femdom is not what all the hateful jaded women and self-loathing sissies out there try to make it out to be.

Female Domination, at least to me, is about a culture of Strong and Wise Women taking the lead and asserting their power in personal relationships and in society.

It is about women taking charge of their men in and out of the bedroom to get what they want and to train men to submit to female guidance at large. It is about teaching and leading a man to be a better person. It is about focusing his mind on giving rather than receiving. And it is about making him into a stronger man. There is absolutely no contradiction in a hyper-masculine Alpha Male completely submitting to a DOMINANT WOMAN.

It is NOT about humiliating and belittling men, treating them as worthless and acting as if they are inferior creatures made to lick the dirt off womens’ feet. This is just online idiocy. Perhaps you are simply a beta-type guy, but if you think this means wearing diapers or emasculating yourself every second of the day or begging a woman to treat you like shit, you need to wake up and get some help. Sure, everyone has their odd fetishes, but in real life, any woman who wants to be with a man just to treat him like scum is simply angry, pathetic, mental and low-rent. It is in no way a healthy form of kinky masochism. It is just sad. And always a fleeting waste of time and life. A submissive male should seek out a Dominant Female in order to make himself better, not worse.

Femdom is about a Woman asserting her power over a man because she wants to be in control. She believes she was born to be in charge and she believes she has earned the right to be in charge. She believes her guidance is superior because she knows intuitively that her inner strength and her inner wisdom is superior to that of a man’s. Sexually, it is about the eroticizing of power and the transformation of personal identity. She fucks. He gets fucked. Even if this means her wanting him to fuck her rough and hard, she is ultimately deciding how things go.

I love intelligent boys. Absolutely adore them. And I find those who are passionate about reading and writing share a common thread. They all yearn for an equally intelligent Dominant who can reach deep into their erotic “centers”, rip the pages from their fantasies, and give them a lifetime of living, breathing memories.

An intelligent submissive appreciates the beauty of the dance on the fringe. He is a strong, independent, talented, capable man in his own right, yet he hungers for a Dominant who can fuck his mind long before She touches his body. He needs a Woman who can respect him as an intellectual equal but effortlessly assume her role as Dominant - the only Woman he would ever consider yielding to. For him, this need is utterly palpable. He can feel her hands through her words, her voice, and her instruction.

And herein is my secret insight. Intelligent, gifted submissives are the naughtiest, sluttiest, hungriest boys imaginable. They are capable of giving themselves completely up to the Woman they trust and respect, and going places they themselves do not yet know they are capable of going. They are insatiable once leashed (note the irony). And they hunger to experience whatever their Woman challenges them with and sate her with the gift of their bodies and their talents.

For the Woman who can appreciate my words - I promise you - the dance on the fringe can be a most inspiring journey of sensual delights with a smart, talented boy.