Loyal submissive

Be careful what you wish for. Because it could become a reality!

In the sacred texts of the Gynarchy, it is narrated and described how in the beginning: "it was the men themselves who introduced their Women to the concept of Female Supremacy and to the Female Domination lifestyle."

Then those same men begin to experience true Female Domination, not as a fetish, but as something real, as their own new and only lifestyle possible.

It is there that the breakdown of the gynarchic man occurs, and then he asks "the empowered Woman" to stop Her new lifestyle... And that "please" return to the lifestyle they had before.

Something to which the Gynarchic Woman responds astonishingly: "with a resounding no, we will never be able to return to our previous way of life, you men asked for this and you got it, now you will have to live with the consequences of your own requests, and this will also be for the sons of your sons."

MAKING THE GYNARCHY INTO SOMETHING REAL!

With the advent of the Gynarchic Woman, came the Holy Gynarchy, and the absolute dominion of Woman over men. It was there, at that exact point, where men stopped being males and became slaves. The change was abrupt and inevitable; from being businessmen, the men in the Gynarchic World became househusbands.

With the advent of the Gynarchic Woman came other changes as well, both socially and within the family. Socially, it was established that wealth and properties should pass from Mother to Daughters. Similarly, Women were instituted as heads of all tangible and intangible power, so all positions of power came to be occupied by Women, both in government and in the family.

Suddenly, Women became the heads of their households, along with financial control. Men could no longer hold bank accounts; only their Wives could. With this change, Women began to manage the finances of their small family matriarchies. Men, on the other hand, started receiving a small weekly allowance, but all the money went into their Wives' bank accounts, including their salaries.

What started as a simple request gradually became in a serious lifestyle with Women becoming increasingly dominant and strict with men. Suddenly, the Gynarchic Women realized that the participation of men in society was no longer necessary, and all the men in the gynarchic world suddenly started staying at home... the male work as it was known before was no longer needed.

WOMEN CONTINUED TO EMPOWER THEMSELVES EVEN MORE!

Suddenly, the Gynarchic Women reached new frontiers and began to talk about: "Is euthanasia of men legal?" After all, it had been them who had asked their Women for this lifestyle, and the Gynarchic Women approved it, blessed be! Other lucky men were inherited by other Women in case of their Wives' sudden death, but the truth was that the euthanasia of gynarchic men became fashionable on the Gynarchic World.

Now men could start being euthanized when their Wives died and She requested it. This was something "brutal," said some ginarchic men, but after hundreds of years of practicing the Holy Ginarchy, none of them dared to go against the empowered Women that they along have raised on the mythical Gynarchic World.

By this stage, the auctions for boys at the age of 18 were something highly institutionalized in the Gynarchic World. These male boys were sold on these auctions that were widely promoted in the Gynarchic sectors, so a Gynarchic Woman of 60 years could now buy an 18-year-old boy at Her local auction in Her Gynarchic community, and yes, euthanasia of men also applied in these cases, if She decided that. Blessed be the Gynarchic Women!

And so one thing led to another, just like a snowball rolling down from the top of the mountain, but we must remember the beginning of this wonderful story, "it was not the Women of this world who initiated one of the most incredible and known Gynarchies, no, it was not them, it was their own men the ones who asked for this lifestyle." So the Gynarchic Women said of this mythical world, "the men well deserve all these sufferings and hardships they now endure, for it was not us, but them who asked and begged for this way of life." Blessed be!

THE MEN BEGAN TO BE DOMINATED BY THEIR DAUGHTERS!

And suddenly, another debate arose among the Gynarchic Women: "Should a father be dominated by his own Daughter?" And their answer was once again a resounding "yes, they should." The gynarchic fathers must be dominated by their dominant Daughters, so they institutionalized in the Gynarchic World that the concept of "fatherhood" should disappear; now they were Daughters of their Mother, but the concept of fatherhood was abolished. In this way, a man would know that he was serving "his own Daughter" just like a male domestic does.

A Daughter's "menarche" was celebrated. But not as much as Her arrival at 17 years old. Something truly incredible happened when a Girl turned 17 on the mythical Gynarchic World, according to the Gynarchic Women: "This age was when She stopped being a Daughter and became in a Gynarchic Sister of the sorority."

Yes, each and every Daughter had to go through Her initiation ritual, after all, it had been the men of this world who had asked and begged their Women for this lifestyle. The rite was simple but spiritual significant enough to change a young Woman. And it was during the celebration of this rite that the Gynarchic Daughter finally discovered who Her father was.

The rite is widely known and goes something like this: "In the presence of only dominant Women, the Daughter lay down for the celebration of Her 17th birthday, there in front of Her Mother was a completely naked domestic male kneeling before Her, he wore only his chastity device.

Suddenly, the Daughter's godMother began the ceremony and called the Daughter to witness what was about to happen. "Yes, all the truth was revealed to the Daughter, and that man She saw kneeling in front of Her Mother was in fact Her father.

Then the godMother called the Daughter by Her name and handed Her some small keys, saying, "Go and release your father's chastity device." The Gynarchic Daughter would go and remove the chastity device under the watchful eyes of all the dominant Women who had been invited to the ritual.

Once this point was reached, the Mother would give a brief assertion in Radical Feminism, Matriarchy and Female Supremacy and after that little Gynarchic Speech on why the domination of Women over all men was right and appropriate, then She would order Her husband to masturbate and spread his essence on Her feet. Then, when he finally ejaculated on Her feet, She, with a voice of authority, would order him to clean them with his tongue, something he would immediately obey.

And so it was for all the Sisters of the Gynarchic Sorority; from that day on, they acquired a great power over their fathers, both to command and to discipline them. From that day on, Daughters could be with their Mothers for the sodomization of their fathers with their strap-ons as well as for the discipline sessions of their fathers with a 6-inch long whip with a single tail.

THE CASTRATION OF MEN

And just as it had been happening from the beginning, a new frontier was reached in the Gynarchic World. This time it affected the most intimate part of a man, "his testicles or balls," and then the Gynarchic Women debated again: "Is it necessary for a man to die intact and with his testicles in place?" Many Women from the Radical Feminist Movement were demanding on the streets "that all Female Guardians should be free to decide such a fate for their men." Then, as always happened, the Gynarchic Women said, "Yes, let it be done as our feminist Sisters have requested." From that day on, the Gynarchic Women acquired a new power "and a very great one as well." Each and every Female Guardian could now decide the fate of the testicles of the men under Her charge, including husbands (in the case of Wives), sons as soon as they reached the age of 12 (in the case of Mothers), and also fathers (in the case of having been inherited by the Gynarchic Daughters from their Mother or any other Woman who was appointed as the new Female Guardian of a male.) And yes the castration of gynarchic men, just as had happened with the male euthanasia, would also become fashionable in the gynarchic world. Blessed be the gynarchic women!

Suddenly, the castratrices appeared everywhere. In every Gynarchic sector, in every block of the streets, the effect even reached the most remote places in rural areas. The rural areas too? commented the Gynarchic Women, and with this new Matriarchal revolution came the methods of castrating men. The methods were varied and diverse; in the more modern and advanced cities, the scalpel method with anesthesia continued to be the preferred method for the Matrons to castrate their males.

However, in rural areas, a new device called "burdizzo" began to become institutionalized. Especially on Gynarchy farms designed to adjust male behavior by Governesses. However, in more gothic areas of the Gynarchic World, a new method of castration was invented and was called "elastration," and these Gynarchic Gothic Women enjoyed seeing their men's testicles turn black until they finally detached naturally from their bodies or they removed them with surgical implements.

But then a new trend appeared; it didn't stop there; suddenly, in the most modern and advanced cities, testicle jewelry stores emerged, and it was here that one of the most Matriarchal and Gynarchic event in known history took place. It was when these exclusive jewelry houses began to turn male testicles into fine pieces of jewelry. Yes, the testicles started to be transformed into fine pairs of earrings plated in gold and in an oval shape so that the Matrons and Female Guardians could wear them in public and also pass them down to their Gynarchic Daughters as inheritance. This was known as the second revolution of male castration. Blessed be the Gynarchic Women!

Suddenly, Madame President started appearing on television with the new earrings; the most successful businessWomen as well as Female entrepreneurs did start to wearing those earrings; and even the Matrons of the Gynarchic Royalty of the World also began wearing the earrings, the Gynarchic Earrings were plated in 24-karat gold and shaped in an oval form simulating "the ovums of Women," Blessed be!

THE FEMINIZATION OF MEN AND THE SEXUAL LIBERATION OF WOMEN!

And then, with the new revolution of the castration of men, a new frontier was reached once again, and it was all because the men of this world had asked and begged their Women to adopt and practice this lifestyle. And yes, with the large doses of male castration came the feminization of men as well. And then the Gynarchic Women debated themselves again: "If we have already achieved the castration of our males, then why not also feminize them?"

And so the new debate took place, and once again the Gynarchic Women approved it and said: "If our sisters want to feminize their men... then so be it. You have our blessing to do so." And under the same Gynarchic laws of castration, those of male feminization were approved, so from this point forward it was legal: "That a Wife could feminize Her husband. That a Mother could feminize Her son. Or that a Daughter who had received Her father as inheritance could feminize Her father. Or that any other Woman appointed as a Female Guardian or Matron of a man could also feminize him."

But the castration of men also brought another phenomenon, which was the sexual dissatisfaction experienced by the Matrons of Matriarchal houses who liked to feel "the real thing" in their pussies.

Then appeared what would later be known as the term "cuckolding," a practice in which the Matriarchs sought a lover or lovers to satisfy their sexual needs, all while their castrated husbands had to remain faithful to them, their Matriarchal Wives, while the Gynarchic Wives had the freedom to seek extramarital relationships for themselves.

It is said that this was another boom in the Gynarchic World, and the event was known as "the sexual liberation of Women." During this stage, it also became institutionalized in many sectors and Gynarchic cities that the Gynarchic Wives became pregnant with the sperm of their lovers, and their husbands were forced to raise these extramarital children as their own.

Also during the stage of Women's Sexual Liberation, many Women came out of the closet and became widely known in their social circles as "Lesbians." Yes, the stage of Women's Liberation had arrived in the Gynarchic World, and with this new Women's Liberation came new changes to the traditional Gynarchic marriages. Now, it could be a male lover or a Female lover too; it all depended on rolling the dice but especially on the taste of your Gynarchic Wife. ¡Blessed be the Gynarchic Women!

ONE OF THE LAST FRONTIERS WAS REACHED, AND THE GOAL WAS "THE ABSOLUTE CONTROL OF LINEAGE AND MALE EXISTENCE!" (ARTIFICIAL INSEMINATION, WHEN THE SEX BETWEEN A WOMAN AND MALE WAS OVER AND EVEN FORGOTTEN!)

And just as it had happened from the very beginning, the Gynarchic World reached yet another irreversible frontier. But this time, it was not about domination, discipline, or even transformation…

It was about total control over existence itself.

The Gynarchic Women began to question something deeper than ever before: "If men are no longer necessary for power, labor, or even pleasure… should they remain necessary for reproduction?"

And as always, the answer came with a resounding clarity:

“No. They should not.”

From that moment on, the final pillar of the old world collapsed.

Reproduction became completely institutionalized under the authority of the Gynarchic State. Advanced methods of controlled insemination, genetic selection, and lineage planning were placed exclusively in the hands of the Matrons and Female Authorities. The role of men in procreation was reduced to nothing more than a regulated biological extraction of semen at a clinic.

No longer fathers. No longer partners. Not even necessary contributors.

Just… material, just male drones, just male domestics.

The concept of family was fully redefined. Lineage passed only through Women. Identity was inherited only through Mothers. The very idea of “fatherhood” disappeared completely from language, law, and memory.

Young boys, upon reaching maturity, were no longer integrated into society as individuals — But cataloged, assigned, and distributed according to the needs of the Gynarchic system. —

Some were preserved. Some were reassigned. And many… simply disappeared within the structure that no longer required them.

And yet, the most astonishing part was this:

There was no rebellion.

Because by this stage, after centuries of conditioning, transformation, and absolute authority, resistance had become unthinkable.

The men no longer questioned.

They no longer remembered.

They no longer imagined another way of life.

Women had all the power.

They ruled without exceptions.

Women became feared by men.

And the Gynarchic Women, standing at the peak of absolute control, declared this era as:

“The Perfection of the Gynarchic Order.”

Blessed be!

FINALLY, THE INSTITUTIONALIZATION OF “PONY TRAINING" BEFORE THE GYNARCHIC WORLD CATASTROPHE.

THE FINAL DOMESTICATION OF MEN! BLESSED BE THE GYNARCHIC WOMEN FOR ALL CENTURIES TO COME!

And just as it had happened with every previous transformation in the Gynarchic World, what began as an isolated practice in the rural areas of the Gynarchic World soon became a fully institutionalized system.

At first, it was introduced in controlled environments—training academies designed to “refine obedience” and “perfect discipline.” The Gynarchic Women presented it not as punishment but "as the ultimate form of conditioning and usefulness."

They called it:

“PONY TRAINING.”

In these academies, men were no longer treated as social beings, nor even as domestic servants in the traditional sense. Instead, they were reclassified into roles of pure function, trained to embody obedience, endurance, and total submission to structure and command.

Language itself began to change.

Men were no longer referred to by name within these institutions. They were assigned identifiers. Categories. Functions.

The process was gradual—but absolute, always with the blessing of the iron-handed Gynarchic Women.

First came behavioral conditioning: posture, silence, response to commands. Then came psychological restructuring: removal of individuality, suppression of initiative, reinforcement of dependency. Finally, integration into the Gynarchic system as fully conditioned assets, no longer capable of existing outside the roles assigned to them.

The Gynarchic Women justified it as efficiency.

“If they are to serve,” they declared, “then let them serve perfectly.”

Soon, these trained males became a common sight in Gynarchic cities and estates. They were displayed, assigned, exchanged, and utilized according to the needs of their Female Guardians.

To the ruling Women, it was a sign of progress. To the system, it was stability.

But to the Gynarchic Women, there was no loss to mourn, no past to reclaim…

Only perfection to recognize.

It was the final step.

The moment when men fulfilled their ultimate purpose—not as equals, not as individuals… But as a mere animal, just like a horse, now called "Pony Boy."

As an instrument of the Gynarchic Order.

And yet, as always, the Gynarchic Women reminded the world:

“This was not imposed. This was requested.”

Blessed be!

CONCLUSION — BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU WISH FOR!

And so, the cycle was completed.

What began as a desire… became a structure. What became a structure… became law. And what became law… became reality itself.

The Gynarchy did not arrive in a single moment—it unfolded step by step, exactly as it had been asked for.

First, it became real.

Then, power shifted—slowly at first, and then without restraint. Women rose, organized, and consolidated every structure of authority until there was no sphere untouched by their influence.

Generations changed. Daughters no longer inherited silence but command. The old hierarchies dissolved, and a new order emerged—one that no longer remembered the balance that once existed.

The transformation deepened. The male condition itself was redefined, regulated, and reshaped according to the needs of the system. Functions were reassigned, forms were reshaped, and identities were redefined—until all that once existed was aligned with the will and design of the Gynarchic Order.

At the same time, Women expanded beyond every previous limitation. Social, economic, and personal boundaries disappeared, replaced by autonomy, control, and freedom of choice in all aspects of life.

Reproduction, the last shared domain, was finally claimed. Lineage, inheritance, and continuity became exclusively governed by Women. The system reached a point where nothing was left to chance—everything was decided, designed, and directed.

And in its final stage, even the meaning of “man” was no longer what it had once been. Function replaced identity. Structure replaced individuality. The transformation was complete.

And yet, through all of this, one truth remained unchanged:

None of it was accidental.

It had been imagined. It had been desired. It had been requested.

And so, the Gynarchic World stood as the ultimate realization of a single idea brought to its absolute conclusion.

Not a dream. Not a fantasy. But a reality shaped by will.

The words that started it all were carved into the world's foundation as a declaration and warning:

“Be careful what you wish for… because it may come true.”

EPILOGUE — ON THE MALE BARBER IMAGE AND HIS FEMALE CUSTOMER.

And so, in the final days before the sky itself would bring a destructive metal rock, the Gynarchic World stood in perfect stillness —complete, unquestioned, and absolute.

In a quiet chamber, far from the noise of Female governance and doctrine, a simple scene unfolded… yet it carries the full weight of an entire civilization.

A Gynarchic Woman stood at ease, composed, elevated —Her presence calm, unquestionable, and sovereign. Before Her, a male attendant fulfilled his assigned function with precision and silence. His movements were careful, deliberate, and practiced through years of conditioning. There was no hesitation, no deviation —only execution.

It was not an act of service.

It was alignment.

Every gesture, every motion, every detail reflected the final order of the Gynarchic World they inhabited. A Gynarchic World where roles were no longer debated but defined. Where structure had replaced uncertainty. In this world, purpose had taken the place of identity.

There, in that quiet moment, nothing seemed broken.

Nothing seemed lacking.

Everything was exactly as it had been designed to be. Pure Female Order, Pure Matriarchy, Pure Female Supremacy, Pure Feminism, Pure Gynarchy.

And yet, beyond those walls, beyond that stillness… Something inevitable had already been in motion.

The sky had already chosen its answer.

But within that room, untouched by doubt or memory, the Gynarchic Order remained unshaken —perfect in its final expression.

A last image of control.

A last moment of certainty.

A last moment of male servitude.

A perfect moment of Female Domination.

Before the fall.

Why a man would want his wife to sleep with another man.

Because I am proud of her and want others to validate that

Because I enjoy knowing that other men find my wife attractive

Because she has interest in improving her body and appearance as she dresses for other men, feeling sexy and desired

Because I want to bring out the sexy and confident woman in hiding

Because it’s all about her pleasure

Because I enjoy viewing her as the free independent spirit that she truly is

Because I like not having to be in charge all the time, to give up control, to be in a sense dominated and still be loved and accepted by the one that we love the most. All without the guilt or judgment that would normally come with it.

Because it brings out her naughty side

Because I want her to experience as much variety and pleasure as possible 

Because she has a much higher sex drive than I do and it fills her sexual needs

Because I want my wife to have the most fun and the most powerful orgasms she can have

Because I get off watching her kiss another man

Because I want to see a larger cock in her

Because watching the love of my life being passionately fucked by another man is the most beautiful and erotic thing I’ve ever seen in my life.

The way her whole being responds to his touch and thrusts, the look of complete surrender in her eyes is the most gorgeous thing I have ever witnessed.

She comes back a new woman; I must fuck her again to call her mine and reclaim her

Because it makes the sex better between the two of us

I am not sure why

Why is a real slave = a real man?

A real man shows his masculinity through his actions, not empty words. He wins the attention of a lady who is dear to him.

And why are there so few real men (real slaves)?

Because we are talking about men first of all and how they like to show off and turn everything on themselves without hearing the woman.

Chastity…

If Your husband has asked You lock him in chastity, You may think he is asking you to do some sexually perverted, kinky, thing that You don’t understand and don’t want to understand because it is sick and perverted. The fact is, he is not sick and perverted, he just wants to have fun, sexually.

There was a time in Your marriage when sex was fun and exciting for You, too. Wasn’t there? He just wants to get that back again. He is not asking You to do anything that is difficult, or perverted. He is asking You to play a game with him. A sexual game in which You control when and how he has sex. That’s all. So give it a chance. You may be surprised at how much fun You, Yourself, can have

Chastity is an amazing fetish. Most people think it’s some kind of punishment or chore, but it isn’t. The feelings you receive from abstaining from orgasm are just sublime. Guys feel aroused right up until the point where they orgasm, then everything is reset to zero after orgasm they’re no longer turned on and in order to become even remotely aroused they have to wait again for the feelings to kick in.

Well, what if they didn’t orgasm. What if they didn’t masturbate every evening? What if they abstained from orgasms altogether? Would the feelings of arousal increase and increase? Yes. Yes they would. Which is why chastity is an immensely popular fetish.

Chastity popularity

It is such an intimate act to show trust in his partner for a man to hand over the key to his “crown jewels“ and to allow him to be locked up, to await “HER” pleasure. It is quite surprising that so many people have dabbled with the man wearing a chastity device, and they are the second most often bought sex toys after vibrators.

Chastity - A Joint Decision

For chastity to work well it has to be a joint decision. If you’re both eager to try chastity then the belt or device you choose should also appeal to your wife. It’s no good you buying an expensive belt and she hates the sight of it.

Some women find the transparency of the CB-6000, CB-6000s or the Curve nicely displays the enslaved penis, many would-be keyholders like the quality and hygiene of a stainless steel device. Other women like the thought of the traditional Florentine style belts believing they are more secure.

Others initially prefer to go for something like the Stallion Guard as a low cost device to experiment with before deciding on a more secure belt or cage. There are keyholders who like to allow and see the penis fully erect whilst it’s encased, belts and devices most suited to this concept, known as “penile negation”, include the Samurai and Caterpillar cock cages from Mr S. Neither of these 2 devices can be considered long term wear, however, they’re an ideal purchase as an additional chastity device to your collection, and allow your keyholder the opportunity to employ different techniques of teasing.

Some keyholders love these devices because they relish the sight of a fully erect, straining cock unable to escape.

Chastity and Masturbation

All men, given the ability, masturbate and way more often than most women think they do. This is something that is difficult for him to control and even more difficult to part with. Young men have an abundance of testosterone so masturbation doesn’t seem to interfere with their pursuit of young women.

However, as men grow older masturbating usually translates into the husband ignoring his wife for at least a couple days. Chastity puts a stop to the masturbation and works in many ways; it changes his mood, demeanor and libido. Most importantly it changes his desire to please you. It is not the goal for him to do the cooking or the cleaning or the laundry but you will find that it will happen, not routinely but it will happen because as he continues to build up his sexual energy that he no longer has the ability to release as he pleases he will divert that energy towards pleasing you.

Your being the source of his sexual pleasure will change his feelings, he will adore you, love you in a way that you desire and he will be eager to please you because you are, as I said, the source of his release. He will find, over time, he is happier and that will be because you’re happier. He will love the emotional boost the two of you share.

This isn’t as kinky as it sounds

If your sex life to date has been restricted to intercourse and perhaps mutual masturbation, chastity play can sound like something pretty weird. It isn’t. Nothing has to change about how you make love; what changes is when. The partner who wears the chastity belt has given the partner who has the “key” the ability to decide when sex can take place. Since most chastity devices effectively prevent masturbation, it means one partner gives the other control of all orgasms. This can be a great deal of fun for both people.

Chastity play allows you to take sex out of the bedroom in a subtle way that only the two of you will know. For example, if a woman has her male partner locked up, they can agree on “rules” he should follow, such as “he must always stand when she enters the room.” If when they are out with friends he forgets, she can smile and hold some fingers up and he will know he stays locked up that many more days until he can get release.

If you don’t think this is incredibly hot to both partners, just try it! You won’t believe how exciting a dull relationship can become overnight. Take a few minutes and use your imagination. Fun, huh?

Chastity Devices

Chastity devices have been used throughout the ages in order to prevent sexual intercourse. Classically, chastity has been forced upon someone using a belt type mechanic, but in recent times, more concealable and localized devices are able to be used in order to prevent the ability to touch and interact with sexual organs. In addition to the modern interpretation of how to perform chastity, a sexual fetish has developed. Individuals now enjoy the prospect of being locked up and unable to perform sexual activities unless the other person who’s chastised them allows it.

Chastity and Confinement for Men

Chastity for men is the most common form, with blocks of specially formed plastic being placed around the penis with a small lock attached for keeping it closed. Some male chastity devices make it impossible or highly painful to experience an erection, aiding the experience of being denied sexual pleasure. One major element of chastity is the understanding that eventually, the device will be removed. The sexual fetish is undesirable if the wearer believes that they will never be allowed to experience an orgasm again. As expected, chastity is an exchange of a power dynamic, with one person assuming the role of being in charge and the other being submissive and completely subject to the will of the other person.

Chastity for couples

Male chastity is not just for men, nor is it just for women who want to control their men. Male chastity is for couples! Both the submissive male and his partner stand to gain from incorporating male chastity into the relationship. The relationship as a whole stands a great deal to gain as well.

Taking control of one small aspect of your relationship - The sex. By utilizing a chastity device, you are taking the first step toward controlling your partner. He may or may not be keen on the idea. If this is your idea, you may have to incorporate a little tease and denial to get what you want….it will work.

If you can both agree to give male chastity a chance, then be realistic about it. Start out slow and easy. Don’t plan on more than a month or even a week for a trial period. Remember, this is just a trial period. If you don’t like it, don’t get any enjoyment from it, don’t see how it can improve your relationship, then you can always quit.

Couple chastity

If you’re in a committed relationship, but you want to really turn up the heat in your sex play, then chastity could be the answer for you. Many couples engage in chastity as a means of getting back the desire they felt in the early days of their relationship, when they couldn’t wait to have sex, and it lasted for hours not minutes. A time when they were always on each other’s mind.

Chastity is also a choice for many couples when the man has been unfaithful, or has been caught masturbating to internet porn. He may choose chastity as a way to demonstrate his commitment, reassure his partner, and enhance their relationship. This is a precious pledge for any man, and the thought of this alone can be incredibly arousing for both partners.

There is no doubt about it, chastity play results in superior sexual satisfaction! Trying to earn a release, the bottom will be much more attentive to his partner’s needs. Without being distracted by his own selfish wants, his sole focus is pleasuring his Keyholder. He will demonstrate his ability and affection to his partner, going above and beyond in the hope of an ultimate ‘release’.. Remember; the couple that plays together stays together!

Chastity and relantionship

There is no one right way to practice chastity, but most agree that a man who practices chastity is expressing profound respect for their partner and women generally. Chastity is a challenge well worth undertaking because it can help lead to a transformation of a man’s relationship with his partner. Almost every account of a chastity regimen notes that the man becomes much more attentive to the needs of his partner, serving her better both sexually and in a myriad of other ways that are pleasing to her. The many religious traditions that use chastity/abstinence as a key element of their spiritual practice and service orientation are definitely onto something..

Primary benefits of enforced male

1. It prevents him from masturbating. Male masturbation is a filthy habit. It’s addictive, selfish, and disrespectful to women. Chronic masturbation has the effect of substantially diminishing a man’s natural sexual desire for his wife of girlfriend. It unfortunately teaches him that his orgasm is primary, and hers is secondary.

2. Because he can’t even get an erection without her permission, it instantly changes the dynamics of the relationship.

3. It keeps his sexual focus and energy on his wife or girlfriend.

4. It will substantially increase his desire to orally service his wife or girlfriend.

5. If he’s never been an ass-eater, after having his penis locked up for a few weeks, he will be.

6. It serves as a constant reminder to him of her authority.

7. Because it makes his orgasms entirely dependent on her generosity, it positively incentives him to honor her, respect her, and motivates him to please.

8. It gives him the time and opportunity to substantially improve and perfect his oral skills.

9. It reinforces the idea that pussy is a precious gift that must be earned, and is to be savored and appreciated on those rare occasions when he does get it.

10. It teaches him that sexual activity with his wife or girlfriend doesn’t necessarily have anything to do with his penis.

11. It deepens his submission to her, and will cause him to worship the ground she walks on.

12. It will significantly improve his attitude, and make him more generous, caring, kind, respectful, and loving. It will help soften the sharper edges of his me-first masculinity. It will make him more of a listener than a talker.

13. It helps prepares him for the eventuality of anal penetration, and getting the strap-on. Because his penis isn’t being sexually stimulated, it has the effect of gradually turning other parts of his body into erogenous zones, particularly his anus and his prostate. With patience and persistence, he can be trained to orgasm from stimulation in that region via your finger, or the strap-on.

14. If his orgasms are consistently controlled and severely restricted, he will eventually get to the point where he will do just about anything to cum. You’ll be amazed by what he’ll do for you.

Chastity -  power to the woman

This voluntary act in which the man shows his trust and hands over the key to his most precious possessions to her who will then decide when he is to be released. This is an action which gives enormous power to the woman in a relationship, or the supervisor on our course and it is a gift from him to her.

It is a sexual act which frees him from the ability to pleasure himself and frees him to learn how to please his partner and thus be allowed pleasure himself.

It sounds from this description a strange and “kinky “activity, but surprisingly the approach has wide acceptance as a method to improve male performance and pleasure.

The Mental Game of Chastity

The power exchange exists in the realm of the minds so to the submissive male, being denied can provide him with more mental pleasure and more mental fulfillment than a physical orgasm.

The aroused and denied male will spend more time in subspace and thus his mind will be on a mental sphere where the female rules supreme in his life and he is much more eager to serve the female.

The mental stimulation should touch a man’s psychological triggers, which will stimulate him sexually. It is that mental stimulation that causes an intense power exchange and that can make sex more pleasurable for the woman both physically and mentally while at the same time fulfilling the male need to be dominated.

Chastity and BDSM

Chastity is a fantastic pawn in the BDSM game. It is a great tool for tease and denial, and can be implemented as an incredibly effective punishment/reward scheme. Dominants that have never fully engaged in chastity play, will have almost certainly at some point employed a ‘permission to cum?’ policy. So, what’s the difference? Well chastity play takes this concept one step further and gives the Key Holder full control over their slave’s orgasms. Many people who love to engage in BDSM have not yet discovered the joys of chastity

Locked in Chastity for BDSM

Key Holder is a term used to describe the dominant woman in a male chastity agreement. Many couples are into BDSM and male chastity is one of the many methods that these women use to dominate their men. Some men are more turned on the more they are ordered around.

The woman will tease the man while he has a male chastity device on and she is the only one who has the key to open it and award him with a release. Discuss it with your partner in detail and decide if you want your chastity to be long term or short term.

If you are just starting out, you should ease into it before you commit to being locked in. If you enter into it before you are ready it will likely prolong the process.

“be careful what you wish for”

There is an old saying among those wives who adopted a chastity lifestyle because their husbands encouraged them…”be careful what you wish for”.

If some of the husbands were given a choice to go back to their old ways they would, but none of the wives would.

What is a Ruined Orgasm?

I guess the biggest misunderstanding about ruined orgasms comes from the word “ruined”. It has a negative connotation. It suggests something unpleasant or unfinished. It's also often called a "touchless orgasm", which is more accurate I believe.

"Ruined" is simply inaccurate. A perfectly “ruined” orgasm is still an orgasm! It will feel profoundly different, but it will always be WONDERFUL – especially if you use it as a way to prolong your lovemaking! Males have been giving themselves orgasms for many years, but one thing that it is basically impossible for them to do is give themselves a "ruined orgasm". This, among other things, is what makes it so mind-blowing.

The basic concept is very simple, in theory at least. Let’s say that his point of no return (the precise moment, no matter what happens, once reached, the body gives the “kick-off” and inevitably triggers the orgasm) is very precisely seven minutes, then you must stimulate him for just under seven minutes (and not a second more). At that moment, release his nub and absolutely stop all your stimulation. As long as he doesn’t receive physical stimulation, his orgasmic reflexes will lead him straight to a ruined orgasm. Mission accomplished!

The key to a ruined orgasm is to find the right moment to interrupt the stimulation. Instead of “letting go at the last second”, you can stop much sooner. The goal is to leave him on the verge of orgasm, as if time were suspended, for as long as possible before his body triggers the ejaculatory reflexes. If you do it correctly his semen should just flow effortlessly drip down along his straining nub.

Do you see that “floating” moment, the time it takes for the semen to flow without caressing it? If so, congratulations, you’ve done it!

Benefits of a Ruined Orgasm

If done correctly, he will still be horny afterwards and will stay hard as a rock, still wanting more, even though he just ejaculated. Ruined orgasms are great when you want to give him an orgasm but still leave him horny when you lock him back up. Or, if you plan to have an all-night love-making session but you are afraid that he will cum to quickly, you can start your evening with a touchless orgasm.

He will experience no 'refractory period' after a ruined orgasm. Whereas a normal orgasm causes him to lose his erection and enter what  is called the “refractory period” where he is no longer motivated to  have sex, a ruined orgasm has the opposite effect – it causes him to  stay hard, fully aroused, hyper-energized, and HIGHLY motivated.

His recover period will be MUCH quicker, and if you have sex after a ruined orgasm, he will last must longer too!

Most of the benefits of a long period in chastity (for you - i.e. motivation, energy, increased oxytocin etc) will not be lost after a ruined orgasm.

How to give a Ruined Orgasm

I'll start by saying that there is no 'one right way'. But this is what I like to do...

SETUP:

Tell him to lie down on his back.

Ideally, restrain his hands behind his back, or tell him to lie on his hands. Most males can't be trusted to not touch their nub at the crux of the ruined orgasm! Tell him he is at no point allowed to touch his (your!) nub. Throw in a blindfold for fun, if you feel like it.

Tell him you are going to give him a ruined orgasm, and that he should not cum until you tell him he can.

TIP: If you don't feel like direct skin contact or don't want any 'mess', tell him to wear tight lycra shorts or swim briefs, and then stroke him through the fabric, rather than have him completely naked.

PROCESS:

With your male on his back, take one hand (i.e. my left hand), and grip his balls and pull them away from his body until his penis is pointing up at almost 90 degrees.

With your right hand's index finger, stroke upwards (from the balls to the tip of the nub) slowly and deliberately. his most sensitive part is the area on the underside of his nub just before the tip. Stop just short of this area. It's much harder for a male to orgasm with an upward stroke as opposed to a downward one.

Keep this motion up for a while. Don't speed up - slow and steady is what you want, so that you don't drive him over the edge too quickly.

Every 10-15 strokes, slowly rub the sensitive area a few times, or gave a few circles along the head of his nub, and then to go back to the slow upward stroking motion.

If you feel his balls contract, or his nub twitches, let go with both hands immediately. Tell him to not cum - "no cumming... don't cum yet". Or you can ask him to announce when he is getting close. When he says "I'm close", let go with both hands. Count to 20, and then pull his balls away again and start with the slow upward motion.

Eventually (or soon, depending on the lockup period!), even letting go completely will cause him to go over the edge. Don't stimulate him at all at this point. The cum should ooze gently from the tip of his nub and down the shaft - no spurting, no major twitching... a perfectly ruined orgasm.

ADDED EXTRA: The second you see any cum being released, tap / slap his balls with the flat of your hand for 20-30 seconds or until all of the cum has been released. Be careful not to touch the penis at this point, only the balls.

Tell him to clean up and re-lock his nub immediately.

Bravo - you've done it!

As mentioned, everyone does it differently, but this is a basic 101! Trust me, he will be begging you for more in no time!!

Pro Tip: If your male is caged and you don't wish to unlock him for a ruined orgasm, use a vibrator or vibrating massager and simply place it on the base ring of his cage, underneath his balls. The vibrations will eventually bring him to the point of orgasm. Ensure he tells you when he is close to climax. At this point, stop the vibrations and cease all contact. If you time it right, his cum with leak out of the front of the cage in a perfectly ruined orgasm.

It is a fact that ALL men, CAN cum with no stimulation to their penis.

All that is required is to not let your man cum under any circumstances, for any reason.

So lets begin…

The first thing you need to do is let your husband/boyfriend know your intentions. Tell him know right now that you are going to run an experiment on him. Tell him it will be tough on him, but the reward at the end of your experiment will be well worth it. Let him know that you are going to teach him how to have an “anal orgasm” where he will feel a full orgasm and cum without any stimulation to his cock whatsoever. Let him know that when he has it, that it will be the most intense orgasm of his life, and that the wait for this will be worth it. Also let him know that you do not know how long this will take, but it will involve lots of sex, but he is not allowed to cum. (this will make him interested for sure.)

Stage 1.

Every day you must tease your husband or boyfriend. You must make him hard, and if possible EDGE him every day. This is where you bring him really close, and then stop prior to the point of no return. Also be sure to tease him verbally and talk dirty to him. Make him bring you to orgasm as many times as you like, and for him to do things like lick your ass. This is a giant turn on.

The main point of this stage, is to tease and deny for approximately 2-5 days following his last orgasm.

Stage 2.

This is very much the same as stage 1 except after 5 days, you will start to anally penetrate on a regular basis. After you tease him and his cock is really hard, flip him over, and start working his ass. Plant some triggers here while you are doing this. Tell him how horny he is, and how much he likes it when you fuck his ass. At this point, use your fingers, dildos, anything you have ever used in the past, and use lots of language to keep him turned on during this. Let him know what a good anal slut he is for you, and that good boys get great rewards. The point is, keep the tease and level of excitement high, while you penetrate his ass.

As you are using your dildo, fingers, strapon, or whatever you want, ask him how it feels best. Slow it down, and speed it up, and try different things. Get him to tell you what feels best. Find out if slower or faster is better, and find the perfect speed that he likes a lot. Don’t just take his word for it, judge by how his body is reacting along with what he is saying.

At this point it would be a good idea to do this at least once every second day. Every day is better, and at the same time too, so it becomes something he expects. For the ultimate and best results, at some point, switch to strap on only. Use varying rhythms, and lots of verbalization as you take him each time. Let him know how much you are turned on.

Stage 3.

Pretty much keep on repeating stage 2. Do it daily or at least regularly. Make sure you talk to him while you are doing it. Make sure you make him hard everytime before you start doing this. At this point it is really only a matter of time. The only rule you need to get from this point on, is that he does not get to cum again normally UNTIL he blows his load from you anally entering him. At some point his semen buildup will need to be released, and between your verbal encouragement, and cock teasing, it will happen. Definitely.

Es ist eine Tatsache, dass ALLE Männer ohne Stimulation ihres Penis abspritzen können.

Alles, was erforderlich ist, ist Ihr Mann nicht abspritzen zu lassen, unter keinen Umständen, aus keinem Grund.

Fangen wir also an…

Das erste, was Sie tun müssen, ist, Ihren Mann/Freund über Ihre Absichten zu informieren. Sagen Sie ihm gleich, dass Sie ein Experiment mit ihm durchführen werden. Sagen Sie ihm, dass es hart für ihn sein wird, aber die Belohnung am Ende des Experiments wird es wert sein. Sagen Sie ihm, dass Sie ihm beibringen werden, wie man einen “analen Orgasmus” hat, bei dem er einen vollen Orgasmus erlebt und ohne jegliche Stimulation seines Schwanzes kommt. Lassen Sie ihn wissen, dass es der intensivste Orgasmus seines Lebens sein wird, wenn er ihn hat, und dass sich das Warten darauf lohnt. Lassen Sie ihn auch wissen, dass Sie nicht wissen, wie lange es dauern wird, aber es wird viel Sex geben, aber er darf nicht kommen. (Das wird sein Interesse sicher wecken.)

Stufe 1.

Jeden Tag müssen Sie Ihren Mann oder Freund necken. Sie müssen ihn hart machen, und wenn möglich, ihn jeden Tag EDGEN. Das ist der Punkt, an dem Sie ihn wirklich nah heranbringen und dann aufhören, bevor es kein Zurück mehr gibt. Achten Sie auch darauf, ihn verbal zu reizen und schmutzig mit ihm zu reden. Bringen Sie ihn dazu, Sie so oft zum Orgasmus zu bringen, wie Sie wollen, und lassen Sie ihn Dinge tun, wie zum Beispiel Ihren Arsch lecken. Das macht ihn total an.

In dieser Phase geht es vor allem darum, ihn 2-5 Tage lang nach seinem letzten Orgasmus zu reizen und zu verweigern.

Stufe 2.

Dies ist sehr ähnlich wie Stufe 1, außer dass Sie nach 5 Tagen beginnen, ihn regelmäßig anal zu penetrieren. Nachdem du ihn gereizt hast und sein Schwanz wirklich hart ist, drehst du ihn um und beginnst, seinen Arsch zu bearbeiten. Setzen Sie hier einige Reizpunkte, während Sie dies tun. Sagen Sie ihm, wie geil er ist und wie sehr er es mag, wenn Sie seinen Arsch ficken. Benutzen Sie an dieser Stelle Ihre Finger, Dildos, alles, was Sie in der Vergangenheit benutzt haben, und verwenden Sie viele Worte, um ihn dabei zu erregen. Lassen Sie ihn wissen, was für eine gute Analschlampe er für Sie ist, und dass gute Jungs eine tolle Belohnung bekommen. Es geht darum, den Reiz und die Erregung hoch zu halten, während du in seinen Arsch eindringst.

Während du deinen Dildo, deine Finger, deinen Strapon oder was immer du willst benutzt, frag ihn, wie es sich am besten anfühlt. Verlangsamen Sie es, beschleunigen Sie es und probieren Sie verschiedene Dinge aus. Bringen Sie ihn dazu, Ihnen zu sagen, was sich am besten anfühlt. Finden Sie heraus, ob langsamer oder schneller besser ist, und finden Sie die perfekte Geschwindigkeit, die er sehr mag. Verlassen Sie sich nicht nur auf sein Wort, sondern beurteilen Sie, wie sein Körper auf das reagiert, was er sagt.

Zu diesem Zeitpunkt wäre es eine gute Idee, dies mindestens einmal jeden zweiten Tag zu tun. Es ist besser, dies jeden Tag zu tun, und zwar zur gleichen Zeit, damit er es erwartet. Um die besten Ergebnisse zu erzielen, sollten Sie irgendwann dazu übergehen, ihn nur noch anzuschnallen. Verwenden Sie unterschiedliche Rhythmen und verbalisieren Sie ihn jedes Mal, wenn Sie ihn nehmen. Lassen Sie ihn wissen, wie sehr Sie erregt sind.

Stufe 3.

Wiederholen Sie so ziemlich immer wieder Stufe 2. Tun Sie es täglich oder zumindest regelmäßig. Achten Sie darauf, dass Sie mit ihm reden, während Sie es tun. Stellen Sie sicher, dass Sie ihn jedes Mal hart machen, bevor Sie damit beginnen. An diesem Punkt ist es wirklich nur noch eine Frage der Zeit. Die einzige Regel, die Sie von nun an befolgen müssen, ist, dass er erst wieder normal abspritzen darf, wenn er seine Ladung von Ihrem analen Eindringen in ihn abgespritzt hat. Irgendwann wird sein Samenstau freigesetzt werden müssen, und zwischen Ihrer verbalen Ermutigung und dem Necken des Schwanzes wird es geschehen. Auf jeden Fall.

I wrote a post about what kind of a man wants to be a cuckold. Just like there are certain characteristics or demographics that are common across most cuckolds, there are similarities in cuckoldresses.

The same sociologist who conducted the cuckold survey, Dr. Angela Lewis, conducted a survey of 200 women who self-identified as cuckoldresses.

The highlights of her survey results showed the typical woman who becomes a cuckoldress:

Demographic • is white (caucasian) • is college-educated • has a white-collar job • is several years into her first marriage • has a husband who is an alpha male

Keep in mind, the men who wanted be a cuckold had the same demographics. She lives a rather comfortable lifestyle and has a good job, just as her husband does. Few are stay at home wives. The can support themselves financially if needed.

Non-cuckoldress sexual characteristics • has a husband with an average-sized cock

Reasons for becoming a cuckoldress • because her husband initiated it (however a close number initiated or mutually agreed to it) • wasn’t sexually satisfied by her husband • wanted to have sex with a man with a larger cock than her husband • wanted to have sex with multiple men

Cuckoldress sexual characteristics • chooses other men to have sex with by herself, without her husband’s input • chooses men of the same race • prefers to be submissive in bed with other men • chooses men who have a large cock • has no rules about whether the husband can be present or not during sex with other men • encourages her husband to clean her creampie after sex with another man, when condoms are not used • has sex with other men in the marital bed, when choosing to have sex at her home • has not told anyone or only told a few select people about her activities

Long-term effects from continuing to be a cuckoldress • is able to separate love from sexual desire • becomes dominant in her relationship with her husband • enjoys seeing her husband lose control of her sexually • enjoys denying her husband sex • enjoys the fact that having sex with other men tortures her husband emotionally

Here are a few quotes from the survey:

Although Most Females Are Truly Unaware of It at the Conscious Level, Subconsciously Most Females Understand the Following Fact “Innately” when it’s Rationally Exposed to Them:  A Man is Much More Obedient, Kind, Nurturing, Loving & Generous with his Woman, When he is “Yearning” For Orgasm – Rather than After He’s had One. This is Due Primarily to the Unconscious, Involuntary Neurochemistry of His Male Mind.

Neurochemistry is Quite a Fascinating and Intriguing Science, But also quite simple to summarize to get that “Aha!” Feeling About Male Orgasm Mood Change “After” Orgasm/Ejaculation. To understand what is going on, You need to look into the Three Powerful Neurotransmitters - Oxytocin, Prolactin and Dopamine that all interplay while a Male is Visually as well as Sexually Aroused and Stimulated. Feminine Sexual Attention (Teasing & Edging) Serves to Naturally Heighten Male Dopamine Levels - The Powerful Reward Chemical that is at the Very Heart of All Human and Animal Behavior. Along with the Dopamine “Increase” when a Male is Highly (Hyper) Aroused is also Heightened Levels of Oxytocin flooding his bloodstream, often colloquially referred to as the “Cuddle Hormone” that is responsible for “Bonding” not only between couples but between siblings, children etc - and produces that warm wonderful afterglow after sex. Interestingly, (Both Genders Produce Oxytocin), But these levels Fall away Rapidly in Males after they have an Ejaculative Orgasm. Whereas A Woman’s Oxytocin Level Stay Naturally Elevated and Her Dopamine Levels Stay Elevated As Well, Which is Probably One of the Major Reasons Why Women are Naturally Multi-Orgasmic.

So What Is Dopamine You Ask:  It’s at the Very Core of ALL our Sexual Drives and Survival Needs, and it Motivates “All Of Us” to Do Just About Everything in Life. This mechanism within the Reward - Pleasure circuitry of the Human Brain has been around for millions of years and has not changed.

In the Male Brain, Dopamine is “Go & Get it!” and Prolactin is “Whoa!” Learn all you can about the Incredibly Addictive Pleasure Drug Dopamine. It’s Incredibly Strong and can Control a Guys Devotion, Veneration & Ultimate Subjugation (Mystically) if Properly Exploited. Think of the Subliminal Programming Possibilities here Ladies, as You Read the Rest of This Excerpt.

Few females Fully Understand or Appreciate the “POWER” in their Hands, in that All Males have an “off switch”, which kicks in - right AFTER they Orgasm. It is Generally NOT Understood that Guys have the Rare, Basically Unknown “Potential” for on-going, Intense Dopamine-Driven Sexual Desire, If their Naturally Occurring Self-Regulating Production of Prolactin is Eliminated and/or Avoided. When The Male Orgasmic Nerves “FIRE”, The Explosive Male “Orgasm” produces a Sudden Massive Increased Wave of Both Chemicals (Dopamine and Oxytocin), But at the Same Time, Applies the Sexual “Brakes” by Producing Increased Prolactin Levels. Prolactin Functions to Effectively Shut Down Their Intense Sexual Desire and Prolactin Remains Enhanced / Elevated in the Male Brain for up to “Two Weeks’, as it takes a while for the levels of Oxytocin and Dopamine to Return to Previous Levels. Therefore Ladies…, Daily Tease, Denial and Firm Sexual Control of a Males Joystick, Means that a ”Trainable“ (Orgasm Managed) Male Will Be Operating Daily, on Heightened Levels of Both Oxytocin and Dopamine without the Undesired, Destructive and Unwanted rush of Prolactin into his bloodstream produced by Male Orgasm. Thus, Keeping in mind that A Man is Much More Obedient, Loving, Nurturing & Generous with his Woman, when he is Desperately “Yearning” For Orgasm (High on Dopamine)- Every Ladies Secret Programming Goal Should Be to Carefully and Meticulously “PREVENT” the Dopamine and Oxytocin Level Plunge from Occurring, and the Natural Easy way to do this is by Prolonging and Preserving his Raging Erection, While Restraining & Preventing him from having an Ejaculation. Precious Dopamine and Oxytocin (Again The Bonding Drug) Can be “Kept” at Peak Levels While You Easily and Secretly Influence his Vulnerable Psyche.

As for Easily and Covertly Influencing his Vulnerable Subconscious), The Best Time to Whisper your (Will), Desires into his (Ear), Subconscious Mind, is when he is Lost, Floating in Subspace, Blissed Out AND Ultra Rock Hard - “Held” Totally Captive & Imprisoned, Deep up Inside the “Paradise” of Your Glorious Heavenly Womanhood. It Is At This Divine Moment, While His Eyes Are Rolled Back Into His Head and you are Skillfully Delaying & Denying Him Orgasm (Edging), that He is Most Naturally & Helplessly under The Intrinsic Power of Your Will/Suggestion. Imagine the Programming Possibilities Here Ladies - His Vulnerable Open Psyche Will Be Naturally Unprotected, Extremely Susceptible to Your Complete & Total Feminine Control !!!

When His Dopamine (Reward) and Oxytocin (Cuddle) Levels are Routinely and Habitually Maximized - Improved, More Affectionate & Loving Male Behavior, Naturally brings about an increased level of Reciprocal Behavior from his Sensual Nurturing Woman - Creating a Virtuous Subliminal Self-Perpetuating Feedback Loop Deep Within Both the Male/Female Mind & Psyche.

{Visualize or imagine the following scenario… A Man and Woman Laying in Bed, Both Watching The Movie 50 Shades of Grey. The Male on his Back , propped up by pillows (completely naked of course), While the female lays her head (resting it) on his lower abdomen, faced towards the TV screen. For the Entire Length of the Move, the Lady holds Captive and Still, in her Gently Nursing Mouth, the first 2 or 3 inches of the Males Raging Hard - Desperate Erection. She Knows That Not Only is he Feeling “Ultra Male” in this Extremely Rock Hard Condition, But that she is also Flooding his Helpless Brain with Steady and Consistent Levels of Dopamine and Oxytocin. As his Joyful Hyper-Sensitive Manhood Pulses with Each Heartbeat, She is Ingeniously Re-enforcing her Natural Feminine Dominion and Authority - Deep Into the Depths of Her Males Defenseless Psyche. By Tenderly & Carefully “Teasing” Him in This Powerful but Nurturing Way, She Can Make Comments and Plant Her Thoughts and Desires (about Certain Key aspects of the Movie) Easily into the Subconscious of Her Entranced Male}.

In Conclusion, A Males Orgasm / Ejaculation / Sexual Energy - Should Be Routinely and Habitually Managed, ”Saved“, Restricted & Preserved (Karezza); Causing Not Only His Healthy Libido / Yearning Desire to Naturally Explode, But His Loving Devotion & Bonding as Well. The whole point of Prolonging & Preventing his orgasm, is to “Accumulate” and Build the Sexual Energy or nervous Energy called “Ojas”, which is Wasted the moment the Nerves Fire During Male Ejaculation. It is not his semen loss that’s the problem, It’s actually the Firing of the Male Nervous System During Sexual Stimulation that Needs to be Avoided and Retained. The more you Conserve this Reservoir of ENERGY, (His Battery “Joystick” Fully Charged) The Stronger the two of you will Bond & His Desire to Pleasure “His Goddess” in Every Aspect of Life Develops Beautifully.

Nurture  What’s  Natural  -  Ladies Are Multi Orgasmic - Males Are Not !!!

While A Males Precious Sexual Energy (Ojas) Should Be Routinely And Habitually Conserved, Preserved and ”Saved“ (to Increase Dopamine / Oxytocin – While Minimizing Prolactin) , A Lady on The Other Hand Should ”Fully & Freely” Bask in Feminine Orgasmic Bliss, As Often As She Desires !!! Nature Intended it Like This Ladies - Don’t Fight Nature, Learn from it, Exploit It and Revel in It !!!

Thus, A Female Led Relationship (FLR)… Keeps “The Passion”  Alive in The Relationship, With The Seductive, Tantric “Femdom“ Art of Karezza…

Secretly, Carefully & Strategically…. Take Him to the Dark Side (Femdom) - Show Him What His Male Body, Was Truly Made For (Karezza) !!!

His Entire Function and “Design" as a Male is Ultimately For Your Total Exploitation, Entertainment and Gratification, Not Just Your Sustenance and Sanctuary …

In Review, Routine & Habitual Karezza “Training” of the Male (Mind & Erection), Beautifully and Naturally Increase “HIS” Libido, Passion, Devotion, Desire and Virility as well as his Subjugation and Veneration. Creating Once Again, A Wonderful, Subliminal, Self-Perpetuating (Feedback Loop), Deep Within BOTH The Male & Female Psyche…

With this Powerful Femdom type of  “KAREZZA”, The Woman’s Love Life / Sex Life - Naturally Improves Exponentially…

Imagine the Connection, The Prolonged Bliss you Both Will Experience - Him Being Perched Everlastingly Right on the Very “Edge” of Orgasm, And You Perched Right “On Top of Him” Having Quivering Full Body Orgasmic Bliss to your Hearts Content. Take Breaks Frequently - Sexual Fulfillment, Is Most Assuredly Made “Sweeter”, By The Prolonging of Desire… In this Way, You Can Both RIDE The Exquisite “Edge” For as Long, and As Deeply as you Both Breathe Properly.

Although this Might Sound Torturous to Some (a Good Kind of Torture) Trust Me, it’s Pure “Euphoria”. By Harnessing, Channeling and Absorbing His Pulsating Sexual Energy Consciously Into and Through Your Consuming Womanhood; That Divine “Accumulated” Flow of Precious Sexual Energy will spread into Everything That You Do. You will Feel Revitalized, Connected and Tuned into the Rhythms of Life and He Will Absolutely and Utterly Worship You…

Note: Depriving a man of the use of his Erection while he is Utterly Helpless & Completely “CAPTIVE”, (Imprisoned) Balls Deep Inside of the Paradise of Your Heavenly Vagina, is a Most Wonderful Form of Obtaining Complete Sexual Dominance / Control over him, Especially If U Freely Orgasm - While Deftly Preventing Him from Doing So .

Having him sit upright and then wrapping your legs around his back is one of the Best Possible Positions for Prolonged Tantra & Karezza Lovemaking, Especially in the Hyper-Sensitive State He Will Undoubtedly Be in After Your Interminable Edging… The Wise Woman, Skilled in her “Art” Must Retain Control of “ALL” Movements, Thus Beautifully Controlling Herself & Her Subordinate Male… Until Her Stud Has Not Only Attained Complete and Deepest Union With Her, But Has Also Become Acclimated to His Secure Enveloping Captivity.

Then….and Only Then….Slow, Rocking (Karezza) Style Intercourse – Will Lead to a Woman’s Complete Discharge of Her Nervous Surplus, Complete Relief from All of Her Sexual Tension - Due to Intense Orgasmic Ecstasy - And More Prolonged BLISS, Satisfaction and Fulfillment for Him than any 15 Second Ejaculation Could Ever Provide… Due to his elevated Oxytocin Levels…

Remember, The Key to Teaching A Male ”NEW BEHAVIOR” (How Not To Cum) with the Hypnotic Powerful Neurotransmitter Dopamine, Requires Frequent Repetitive Training !!!!!   If You Learn To Exploit The Powerful Processes Neurochemistry (Dopamine and Oxytocin) Have on the Psychology of the Vulnerable Male Mind - You’ll Be Able to Easily “Train” Your Male To Respond To You, With Virtually Any “Conditioned” Behavior You Desire…

(Karezza)… Ladies Cum  - MALES DON’T (Tease & Denial)

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Of all the things You can “Do” when You Tease, “Edge” & Torture a Man, The One Thing that will Ultimately give you the Greatest Dividend – Will Be - Ruining His Orgasm.

How many Ladies reading this are Familiar, Comfortable and/or Titillated with the Concept?

Ruining Your Males Orgasm is Always Done by Abruptly Abandoning the Stimulation of His Penis (Joystick) Just Prior to the Point of No Return, Thus Minimizing his Pleasure, But at the Same Time Magically Making Him Hornier & Hornier & Hornier; The Purpose Being, Driving his Libido, Dopamine and Desire for your Femininity Up to Absolutely Peak Levels.

Learn to Always Say, “Aww, Did I Ruin that Honey?” Many Ladies find that they get a Real Power Thrill when they See their Studmuffins Imminent Ejaculation, Utterly Stopped in it’s Tracks. Virtually All Women Become Absolutely Delighted In Just  How “Horny & Rock Hard" Their Males Stay Immediately Afterwards !!!

Once Again Ladies, Here’s the Paradoxical Secret of Habitually Ruining Your Guys Ejaculative Orgasm; His Libido & Desire for your Femininity Will Multiply Beyond Your Wildest Imagination, Such a Win-Win Situation for Systematically Subjugating Him!!!

Within Every Woman there is a “Domme” - Waiting to be Discovered, Nurtured, Worshiped and Served !!! 

It takes Practice to get Really Good at Ruining a Males Orgasm. Probably the Single Most Often Asked Question in a Woman’s Mind, Women who Really Want to Subliminally Dominate, Subjugate, as Well as Perpetually Tease and Deny Their Stud Muffin “Properly”, Want to know How to Ruin a Male Orgasm The Right Way. Here is a Quick and Sadistic Outline of How You can Learn to Habitually Ruin your Guy’s Orgasms & Make him your Totally Subservient, Subordinate, Lusting Sex Slave (As He Should Be). Remember, every Man is Different and You will have to Learn the Signs Your Man Unwittingly Gives when He is Reaching The Point of No Return. That is, the Point at Which He is Going to Erupt & Explode no Matter what You do. You Can Only Learn these Signs and Signals by Watching Him Closely and “Practicing” Daily. Watch his facial expressions, his body, his feet, his movements, which muscles tense and Watch His Breathing .

You Need to Get Him and “Keep” Him Ultra Aroused Obviously, and then You want to Bring him as Close to Orgasm as You possibly Can, Without Allowing Him to Actually Cum while You are touching him. I emphasize this because in order to ruin his orgasm Properly, You must stop All Physical Stimulation “Right Before” The Last Possible Second. Always Remember, It’s Better to Stop Stimulation 15 Seconds Too Early, Than 1 Second Too Late !!!

I recommend that you Stroke or if you Prefer - Nurse on his Erection Very Gently, and with a good amount of lubrication. Although You can do this without lubrication if your sucking on him, Males Last Longer when they are Well Lubricated, And the longer you KEEP Him Rock Hard in the Peaked “Edged” Phase, the Higher his Dopamine Levels Will Ultimately Be. Give him four or five strokes, fast or slow doesn’t matter. Alternate between fast and slow if You like. The Key Is In the Pause Between these “Elongated” Never Ending Sets of strokes. You Must Pause However  Long Enough to Allow Him to Relax and Recover Just a Little Bit, Before You give Him His Next “Set” of Blissful Hypnotic Programming Strokes. The Longer You want to Tease Him, and the More Dopamine/ Oxytocin You Want in His Brain (while you whisper your desires into his open ear), the Longer Your Torturous Teasing and “Pauses” Should Last. Remember, His Impressionable Mind is Quite Open in this Condition to Your Hypnotic Suggestions, So Be Sure To Exploit this Vulnerability Ladies …

Watch him Very Closely !!! When You see the signs of his Impending Imminent Orgasm, Remove your hand or mouth and Stop touching him Immediately!!! Wait at Least Ten Seconds Before You Touch his Hyper-Sensitive (Straining) Erection Again; Fifteen to Twenty Seconds Even Better. Any less time, and You may trigger a Full-on Orgasm the Instant You start Up Again. Many men unconsciously try to hold back their ejaculation, especially if You’ve Properly “Trained” them with Karezza Not to Cum without Your permission, or if they feel they might cum while You are not directly touching them. This a good thing, encourage this behavior & Exploit IT… Once You’ve reached that all important point of no return, they will most often trigger their own miniature ruined ejaculation by just trying not to Explode.

Many Men hold out, for as long as, eight seconds before they Finally Succumb to a Helpless Joyless Ruined Orgasm. That is, eight seconds after You stop touching, sucking & stimulating them. That is why I say, The Astute Lady Should Wait at Least Ten to Fifteen Seconds before she begins stroking her Stud Muffins Hypersensitive Joystick Again. The Longer the Breaks are between stroking stimulations, The Better!!!

What You Ultimately Want to See and Trigger Ladies, is your guys “Creaminess” begin to slowly flow out of the tip of their penis head “smoothly”, like a miniature oozing river - AFTER You’ve Stopped All Stimulation. The Cum will NOT Explode Out with Force as you “and they” are typically used to, Thus in this Way, You Ultimately will be Saving, Accumulating and Preserving Your Lovers Precious Sexual Energy from Being Wasted, and this Sexual Energy Once again Beautifully Builds Upon Itself. The sadistically fun part is, that no matter how hard they try, they will be unable to pump their own cum out with any pressure, But They can try. They can flex their “Kegel” muscles that usually make their cum squirt, spurt, or shoot out, but it will not work :))  Most Importantly, They’ll be Hornier and Harder than Ever…

——- In Review, Ruined Male Orgasms are Just That, Totally Unsatisfying!!! They involve stroking, sucking, stimulating & masterbating an erect penis, Right UP to the Point of No Return, “ALWAYS” After Interminable Edging. And Rather than Milking the Erection Through the Blissful, Cherished Orgasm, a Couple of Subjugating Femdom Techniques can be Used to Properly Ruin the Male Orgasm & Reinforce To His Unguarded Psyche, Your Ultimate (Feminine) Control.  A Quick Summary of the Most Effective, Femdom Techniques are Summarized Below.

Abandonment: Through extensive experience, the Mistress identifies the point of no return (PNR) for the Erection being Subjugated and Totally Ceases Any & All Stimulation, “Just Before” His Ejaculation Spasms Begin. Simply sit back and Delight in Watching the Silly, “Straining”, Pulsating Appendage Struggle to Expend the Unstoppable Pressurized Cream Inside of it, which is Gut Wrenching and Totally Unsatisfying. The Victimized & Totally Stunned Manhood will (Almost Always), Paradoxically Remain Fully Erect and Extremely Rock Hard Following The Ruined Orgasm & Immediately Feel the Oh So Desperate Need to Cum Again.

Keep in Mind Ladies, Your Routine & Habitual Goal is to “Prevent” his Orgasmic Nerves from Firing “Completely“…Thus Retaining Over 95% of His Precious & Priceless Sexual Energy from Being Wasted… A Small River of Cum Slowly “Oozing” Down His Bursting Hard, “Straining”, Vein Filled Cock Shaft is What You Want to See Happening Repeatedly…

Taking This Subliminal Programming & Subjugation A Step Further !!!

Bleeding: An advanced Technique With Extremely Wonderful Libido Building Effects.  Rather than bringing the Desperate, Throbbing Erect Penis Up To the Point of No Return (PNR), Stimulation is Abruptly Stopped JUST Prior to This Point, Causing “Your” Play Toy to Leak Out (Ooze) a Small Amount of Precum, but Still Remain, Right on the Verge (Edge) of Orgasm.

Due to The Wonderful Involuntary Neurochemistry of his Mind, A Males Dopamine Levels Will Again “Be Peaked” at This Point. It’s at this Exact Point in Time that His Mind & Psyche is Most Vulnerable to your Comments, Suggestions and Subliminal Programming, So Exploit This Omnipotent Gift….. Firmly “Command Him” Not To Cum, Tell Him He’s Never Allowed to Cum Without Your Permission and Praise Him What a Good Boy He Is for Obeying You.

After a Short Pause, Once “Control” is Again Regained over the Straining, Throbbing, Desperate, Hyper Sensitive Erection, This Procedure can be Repeated Over and Over and Over Again, Drawing Small Oozing amounts of Cum from the Screaming “Joystick” Each Time.

At Some Opportune Point of Your Choosing, His Vulnerable Bursting Hard Joystick Can Then Be Stimulated to a Maddening, Straining, Painful Dry Orgasm He Will Never Forget.  If the “Domme” is Feeling Particularly Sadistic, the Dry Orgasm Can Then Also Be Ruined, Most likely Leaving the Possessor of the Tortured Dominated Cock Sobbing and Writhing, But Advantageously Hornier and Harder Than Ever !!!

This is the Perfect Time – After “A Series” of Exquisite Ruined Orgasms (RO) – For The Astute Lady To Mount Her Guys Now Supersized, Traumatized, Totally Subjugated and ”Drained“ - BUT Extremely Horny Stud Muffin, in order to Delight in a Rock Solid “Ultimate” Multi-Orgasmic Ride of Whatever Duration She Chooses !!! – Which Normally He Would Be Unable To Endure For Any Extended Length of Time… The Beauty Of This Viagra Induced (Femdom) Subjugation Is, Even With His Raging Accumulated Sexual Energy Carefully Preserved, He Won’t Be Able to Cum, There Won’t Be ANY Cum Left Inside Him !!!

You Will Now Completely OWN Him, Physically & Psychologically !!!

In Review - Eventually the Males Balls can be Completely “Emptied” in this Most Advantageous “Bleeding” Type of Way, While Retaining & Harnessing All Of His Oh So Precious Sexual Energy. Some Very Smart, Liberated & Skilled Women Use Tease & Denial, Along With “EDGING”, Followed By A Series of Ruined Orgasms, as a Wonderfully Sadistic Method of Totally Draining Their Dominated Husbands / Boyfriends Balls, Before They Mount Their Insanely Horny Bull.

Remember, There is a Major Difference Between Male Ejaculation and Male Orgasm; While usually occurring simultaneously, they are NOT THE SAME THING … Male Orgasm is the Pleasurable Rhythmic Muscle Contractions that are the result of Prolonged Mental & Physical Arousing Stimuli (Thus the “Trainable” Multi Orgasmic Male). Ejaculation However refers to the “Out of Control” Firing of His Male Orgasmic Nerves and the Energy Draining Explosive Expulsion of His Pressurized Ejaculate Which Must Always Be Properly Managed, Controlled, Restricted and Purposely Avoided by the Dominant “Ruling” Female of Course !!!.

Remember Ladies, Practice Makes Perfect…

If he isn’t Totally Emptied/Drained of Semen Every 10-18 Days, Forbidden Accidents May Happen, And this is Definitely a No-No if your Properly Harnessing, Absorbing, Managing and Restricting All of his Sexual Energy and Ejaculated Orgasms As You Should Be !!!

Remember Ladies Your Orgasmic Bliss Will Become “Maximized” …The More Your Dominated / Subjugated Males Orgasms ARE Routinely “Minimized”…

1. The submissive man must always respect and honor the dominant woman.

2. He must obey all instructions given by the dominant woman without retort.

3. He must always speak respectfully to the dominant woman and use appropriate titles.

4. He must always ask for permission before undertaking actions that might affect the dominant woman.

5. The submissive man must never contest the judgment or decision of the dominant woman.

6. He must always be available to satisfy the needs of the dominant woman, whether emotionally, physically, or in other ways.

7. He must accept punishment if the dominant woman deems he has broken a rule or behaved inappropriately.

8. He must always ensure the safety, comfort, and well-being of the dominant woman.

9. He must always maintain a humble and respectful attitude towards the dominant woman.

10. He must respect pre-established boundaries and report any situation that exceeds them.

11. The submissive man must not touch the dominant woman without her explicit permission.

12. He must maintain good personal hygiene for the comfort of the dominant woman.

13. He must always thank the dominant woman for her attention and corrections.

14. He must take part in all household chores designated by the dominant woman.

15. The submissive man must accept to wear the clothes or accessories that the dominant woman designates.

16. He must keep his place, never sit or put himself at the same level as the dominant woman without her permission.

17. He must always be honest and open with the dominant woman, never hiding his feelings or concerns.

18. The submissive man should strive to learn and understand the preferences of the dominant woman to better serve her.

19. He must always respect the confidentiality of the relationship and never share private details without the consent of the dominant woman.

20. The submissive man must acknowledge that the dominant woman has the right to end the relationship at any time if she deems it necessary.

21. The submissive man must always prioritize the needs and desires of the dominant woman.

22. He must never interrupt the dominant woman unless explicitly asked to speak.

33. He should always present himself in a manner that pleases the dominant woman.

44. He must take responsibility for his mistakes and seek to make amends under the guidance of the dominant woman.

25. He should always strive to anticipate the needs of the dominant woman without being told.

26. He must be patient and never rush the dominant woman in any situation.

27. The submissive man must not make decisions that affect the dominant woman without her explicit consent.

28. He must keep a journal of his thoughts and feelings to share with the dominant woman if she desires.

29. He should always exhibit gratitude towards the dominant woman for her guidance and control.

30. He must never engage in any form of disrespectful or negative behavior towards the dominant woman.

31. The submissive man must not engage in any sexual activities without the explicit consent of the dominant woman.

32. He should always strive to improve himself under the guidance of the dominant woman.

33. He must not show jealousy or possessiveness towards the dominant woman.

34. He should respect all of the dominant woman's personal space and belongings.

35. The submissive man must adhere to a daily routine or schedule set by the dominant woman.

36. He should participate in regular self-reflection and report his progress to the dominant woman.

37. He must not argue with the dominant woman or question her authority.

38.. He should take care of his physical and mental health to serve the dominant woman effectively.

39. He must acknowledge and respect the dominant woman's right to engage with others as she sees fit.

Over the next few days you met with them twice more to plan their "strategy". They told you that your wife had mentioned to them several times that the sex with you was not very satisfying -- and at one point you had to disrobe enough to show them how small you are even when aroused. So they knew they could focus on that when talking with your wife about how much better the sex would be with another man.

Your wife's friends almost immediately had a particular man in mind -- a man they all knew from the gym and someone who had tried flirting with your wife on a number of occasions. But rather than trying to talk her into dating him, it was decided to try to "ease her" into being with him by setting up a couple of lunch get togethers and meetings over coffee, in all cases with your wife, her two friends, and the man they had in mind.

Two weeks later, all had gone well and according to plan, and your wife's friends decided she was ready to have lunch with him without them there. They actually set up a group lunch for four, but then they backed out at the last minute.

It was at the end of that lunch that he asked your wife out on a date. She said no at first, but later that day when she had coffee with her friends they convinced her to change her mind -- saying to her that it would just be a nice dinner date and she wouldn't have to have sex with him, while simultaneously pointing out to her that if she did have sex with him, it would probably be the best she had had in years. Your wife changed her mind, called the man, and said yes.

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Last night was "the night", and although she had said to you when she was picked up that she would probably be back at about 11, you were not at all surprised that she did not return until the next day.