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Losers are only allowed to censor

It's your fault for being born losers

Please reblog and share this, so anybody can see and abuse it.

I really mean it.

I'll answer any chat in my DM'S honestly and as soon as I can.

Please help me improve as the pathetic beta loser that I am !

Humiliate and degrade me.

Dehuminize me.

Ask me embarrassing questions.

Insult me ...

My brain needs it regularly to keep it where it belongs.

I know that there are men like you and my husband out there, but if all you read is Tumblr then it seems like only sissy men get locked. The way I think about it, I wouldn't want anything to do with my husband sexually if he were sissy or unmanly or talked about how worthless he is.

And obviously... if someone has a fetish for that and their wife shares it, then that's great. I prefer to focus on the kind of relationship my husband and I have because it is working out very well.

I know that there are men like you and my husband out there, but if all you read is Tumblr then it seems like only sissy men get locked. The way I think about it, I wouldn't want anything to do with my husband sexually if he were sissy or unmanly or talked about how worthless he is.

And obviously... if someone has a fetish for that and their wife shares it, then that's great. I prefer to focus on the kind of relationship my husband and I have because it is working out very well.

First, thank you for this blog. Not the pictures, I mean the questions that you answer, and the little conversations you have with your husband. They have been really helpful for me. My husband approached me with this and he did EVERYTHING wrong. He went out and bought a cage, locked himself up, and gave me the keys ON OUR ANNIVERSARY!!! and THEN he went on to tell me all that stuff about how I can make him do more chores. I can not begin to tell you how upset I was! It took a while but I finally let him show me some sights and this blog.

I love that you and your husband are a normal couple, and have managed to use this to strengthen your marriage. Now that I have calmed down from all that, I do find the idea of keeping his "attention" kind of exciting. Not sure that I'd want it to be a permanent thing, but I love how you have made it work for you without it becoming weird. I will probably make my own account so I can ask you questions privately if that is okay with you.

I'm so sorry that you had to learn about locking your man up that way. I'm guessing that you must have seen one of my recent answers about that. Too many men live in some kind of fantasy world in their head. But I'm glad that you have had time to calm down and look at what he's really asking of you. And thank you for taking the time to let me know that we have helped you. Please feel free to drop me a note when you get your own account.

Many years ago when @tom--allen first told me about his dominatrix fantasies, I went online looking for some information, and I freaked out over what I saw. It turned out that he didn't want all that, but I had a hard time getting those images out of my head, and I could not see my husband doing those things. But I did get over it, and once in a while as a treat, I like to put on some sexy leather or tight clothes, and give him a little whipping with my riding crop. Just to remind him who's in charge. 😉

Anyway, I'm hoping that you will get a lot of satisfaction in having your husband make this up to you 😂. Tom and I have evolved into a wonderful relationship, and I would not trade this for anything.