âGod bless Cardinal Robert Sarah. I welcome his Wall Street Journal commentary on the topic of homosexuality. Itâs a hopeful sign that some members of the Church hierarchy have heard the cry of the faithful. To be specific: Of those who live with same-sex attraction, who sought compassion, coherence, and truth in the Catholic Church. Too often we found only confusion and tacit or outright approval of homosexual acts as well as âgay marriage.â
[âŚ] I was a student in âCatholicâ schools for twelve years. The one consistent teaching I received? That there are no absolute truths, except those pertaining to social justice (poverty, immigration, etc). When I confided my same-sex attraction to a priest, he told me that âGod made me this way.â That âGod understood.â He taught me that the totality of my moral obligations with regards to sexuality amounted to practicing safe-sex and finding a long-term partner. At the time I agreed with him, but he wasnât offering anything I hadnât heard before. I already knew I had to follow my own conscience. Secretly, Iâd hoped his advice would be different. I wanted to know the truth, but no one was brave enough to share it with me. For nearly a decade, I never stepped inside a Catholic church again.Â
[âŚ] Still I struggled. I was willing to give up sinful sex. But I couldnât walk away from what I thought was my identity. From everything that I thought made me unique â made me who I am.
Cardinal Sarah writes:
In her teaching about homosexuality, the Church carefully distinguishes three things: the person, who is always good because he or she is a child of God; homosexual attractions, which are not sinful if not willed or acted upon, but which are nevertheless not in harmony with our human nature; and homosexual actions, which are gravely sinful and tremendously harmful to the well-being of the human person. Those who identify themselves as members of the LGBTQ community are owed this truth in charity, especially from clergy who speak on behalf of the Church about this complex and difficult topic.
A clear and concise statement. It exposes the danger posed by those, like Martin, who espouse the âborn gayâ theory. It helps us realize that the theory itself is scurrilous. Why, indeed, would a loving God create within âthe deepest partsâ of a person, within âthe part that gives and receives love,â a desire and an identity which is ânot in harmony with ⌠human nature?â If we accepted Martinâs premise, the Church would have to be wrong and its teachings would need to change. But what if his premise is false? What if our gay temptations are just one type of the brokenness that every person suffers in this still-fallen world?â












