So my first proper post (not a re-blog) after a few days here, and a few observations:
1. Consent is EVERYTHING.
2. Treat people with respect. Even as a dom my relationship with my subs is based on respect, and from that trust.
3. Being a dom is more about her needs than mine. A dom has a responsibility to their sub - their pleasure, their welfare, their safety, their security. It is about her pleasure at least as much as mine.
4. I am not into pain for pains sake. Pain that gives pleasure, however....
5. Age play is PLAY. It doesn't mean I like young girls. It means I like grown women (both physically and emotionally) who like acting in a childish way. With their CONSENT.
6. Act out - or describe - whatever fantasies you like. I do. Many are complex and involve control, or doing things to women they seemingly don't want. But only do this if they give you their CONSENT - can you see the theme here?
7. Being rude, abusive, sexually explicit or bullying to people you don't know isn't being a dom. It's childish. Grow up.
8. Not every woman is a sub. Not every sub is for you. See rules 1 and 2 if you need more help.
9. Let's face it, it is very unlikely anyone is going to meet many people here in RL - it may happen, but probably won't. But that doesn't give you free reign to hassle women you don't know.
10. But you might make some great friendships, learn a few things, laugh, give and get some pleasure and end up with a right arm like popeye. Enjoy it!
11. I am always interested in chatting - NSFW or safe - so feel free to drop me a line. Unless you are under 18, in which case please please please do not look at my blog.
12. Did I mention CONSENT? 🙂
