i can't believe dean called sammy little brother so many times in s8 just to prove his superiority in their relationship but sam never used the "big brother" so dean would grow painfully hard in his pants and stfu

why would anyone think sam fell in love with dean first, when it's dean who always fits the loser boyfriend stereotype? he yearns for sam in front of strangers, he's always the one doing the chasing, he admitted to stalking sam at stanford, he keeps pestering sam when he's met with the silent treatment until sam finally talks to him. his mood is entirely dependent on sam's well-being (even though he's the one who causes most of the harm). dean fell first, and he also fell harder. sam's his brotherwife who loves him deeply in return despite all the abuse but he's not as weird and intense about it as dean. they have an insane power imbalance.