Angel in every sense of the word

Sue Zhao

If it feels wrong, don’t do it

Say exactly what you mean

Don’t be a people pleaser

Trust your instincts 

Never speak bad about yourself

Never give up on your dreams

Don’t be afraid to say “no”

Don’t be afraid to say “yes”

Be KIND to yourself

Let go of what you can’t control

Stay away from drama & negativity

if there is an issue, do not keep it to urself. do not make petty remarks, do not wait for them to bring it up, say something when it happens. dont beat around the bush either! tell them, "hey X made me uncomfortable/upset/bothered me, can we please talk it out a bit so we can be on the same page and resolve it?"

and with very few exceptions: if they will not openly communicate in return and if they will not understand that when u ask to talk it out ur not being confrontational, then they are not healthy for u. if they cannot and will not communicate with u then u dont need them in ur life. this has some nuances to it of course, like if ur an asshole who talks over them all the time then UR the issue, but generally speaking if u and the other party cannot openly and healthily communicate then one or both of u need to work on some things

it needs to be NORMAL and EXPECTED to bring up issues to others and be able to talk it out without being confrontational! stop waiting for them to notice, stop keeping it to urself bc ur afraid of confrontation, stop assuming things about the others intentions, stop making petty and rude remarks or doing things to "get back" at them when theres an issue!