sam y cait por siempre

You’re not weaker than me anon. That’s not how it works. I look at the same exact information everyone else does, I just interpret it in my own way and that’s perfectly fine. Something that might be my biggest receipt might mean absolutely nothing to someone else.

There’s lots of things that make me sure they’re a couple. 

- Like their synced online times. 

- Going to Paris together in December 2013. 

- Sam killing spiders in Cait’s apartment in the middle of the night the month before. 

- Sam’s fist in Cait’s bed. 

- Sam in Cait’s house watching football at 1 am. 

- All the shows they’ve binged together. 

- The way they look at each other. 

- The way they behave around each other. 

- The amount of time they spend together outside work. 

- The way they’re each other’s number one fans. 

- Sam being obsessed with her baby bump. 

- The picture of them at the baseball game. 

- Sam saying if they were really together they wouldn’t tell anyone because why should they? 

- Having to do a denial interview in the first place. 

- Costa Rica. 

- Missing the PCA’s and both of them coming up with shady excuses

- Cait liking Sam’s IG picture so quickly the app couldn’t refresh itself.

- Miami but actually Spain. 

- #carparkibiza, 

- #oohdembuns.

 - Miss you.xx. 

- Nay contest. 

- Celebratory macaroons

- Luke saying Sam would disown him if he answered questions about a bachelor party.

- Who is Caitriona Balfe married to?. 

- I can tell when she’s not happy, I can just feel it.

- Honestly, it’s like having a death in the family.

- Sam being in Ireland on Dec 2nd.

Also

- distillery 2015

- suspicious Cait look-a-likes in the background of sam-fan pics.

- Sam’s magnetic arm

- scrooged and ireland and xmas 2016

- GG 2017 and Sam’s Cait-love-fest

- T2

~ Sam’s terminal case of Hand to Boob Syndrome

~ Magnetic hips (to go along with @peace-of-wild-things​‘s magnetic arm) 😁

~ Playing tongue hockey on screen 

~ Behind the scenes hugs and kisses

~ “Saaam” instead of “Jaaamie”

~ Sudden appearances of wee Sammie

~ The Mrs, The Wife, Mr + Mrs

~ Sam stopping in the middle of a marathon to talk to Cait 

~ Cait checking Sam’s bawballs

~ Sharing friends

~ Each other’s biggest cheerleaders

~ Supporting each other’s charities

~ Being tagged by the other’s charities and sponsors

~ Your wumman

~ Cait keeps me right

~ Feeling so lucky, so blessed

~ Congratulations & lots of love (From Terry Dresbach)

~ Sam’s tweet of Robert Burns’ “My Highland Lassie, O” poem

~ Cait’s IG post of Pablo Neruda’s marriage poem

~ Cait’s IG post of Kahlil Gibran’s poem On Marriage

~ Single occurrence that created Sam

~ Sam sitting next to Cait at the 2016 Golden Globes, with his arm around her, watching proudly as the audience clapped when her name was announced

~ Huggy lemon

~ Eating guacamole - no chips needed

~ Hand sex holding PCA trophy

~ Luke’s bachelor party

~ Tubas, spanks, peaches, flowers, mariachi bands, shrimp, blow fish, and other assorted sex emojis

~ Break the internet tweet

~ Sam ate all of Cait’s pineapple 

~ Eddie may be joining us

~ Sam stopping in the middle of a marathon to talk to Cait

~ Matching IG pics of rainbows and Scottish property 

~ Sometimes the stars align

~ Two gold rings

~ Cait’s raw banoffee pie was very delicious

~ Cait knowing when Sam actually goes to the gym in the morning

Yes, we shall.

Dear Lost Actor (not of the show Lost but really lost), I really want to help you. Well, for the actual fiasco, it's too late, but maybe you can use these tips for your next attempt to convince your public you are a man in love... and taken.

First of all, remember: you are someone who has said countless times that you keep your private life off social media, so when social media is used to divulge something from your private life, it sounds strange, raises suspicions, people start to question why something that should be natural and organic always seems forced when it comes to you.

That's why there are so many theories about you. So here are some tips you can use, and your next relationship will be consistent with what you said all these years.

-First: Look for a discreet woman. Avoid clichés like models, influencers, fitness muses, C-list actresses, or someone who desperately needs to be relevant on social media.

-Speaking of social media, choose someone who has a private profile, one that only family and real friends have access to. Oh, and don't follow that person. After all, you know that all your new follows are observed and catalogued for future use.

-It's also very important to look at that person's past .

-Don't let her name end up in the inbox of any fan blog or gossip page.

-"But how will people know we're together?", you might be wondering. Well, my friend, certainly not through crumbs or insinuations: no shared clothes or accessories.

-Don't make your chosen one seem desperate, following all your friends or parading around in low temperatures like a student platonically in love with the school's quarterback.

-Don't ask your friends or family for help; that will make you seem insecure. It's like you need a crowd to convince you that having something with this person is worthwhile. Remember, you have to appear in control.

-I advise you to avoid having children involved in the equation, but if there are, be extra careful. Exposing children on the internet will never be acceptable, no matter what some parents think. And if you've said countless times that you protect your family and your real life, it wouldn't make sense to let a child (who would be part of your life) be exposed.

-After meticulously following all of this, you would have two paths: an unassuming stroll somewhere normal with your loved one. A warning to the paparazzi, and the photos would be out in the world. Not through fan blogs, not in low quality, not leaked by stalkers.

-Nobody, not even the paparazzi, would be able to identify who the lucky girl is because there would be no online trace to follow. Imagine something like Henry Cavill... simply walking with his then-girlfriend. The surprise of those photos for the fervent fans, for Hollywood, for all the celebrities who secretly (or not so secretly) had a crush on him. Nothing to be said, no response. The press spent hours trying to identify the girl. No name was thrown into fan blogs months ago.

The other way would be to arrive hand-in-hand with the stranger at some event. No words about the relationship. Maybe you don't even need to say her name. This time, there will be real and general surprise because no name was thrown into fans' inboxes, and no insinuations were made. Everyone will speculate, research, and try to find out who the new girl is. And people will start to think that this time it's something real, because it will be consistent with what you've been saying for at least ten years: "some things are just for me," "I like to keep my real life private," "I keep my private life off the internet."

So you'll be in control. People will know her name if you say it. She won't need to seem desperate trying to prove to the world that she's with you.

@ladyjane-lj  @widchadidcha  time for more…😘

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Why are these innuendos even needed?

Why does a year long relationship still need to hint at its own existence?

Why is there a business profile that’s about everything except business and a bunch of cliché quotes, when its real purpose is obvious to anyone with a double digit IQ?

If Sam were truly in a serious, loving relationship, there are two ways he could have handled it.

The first, and in my opinion the one most suited to him: we simply wouldn’t know she existed. He would be quietly and happily in love, without putting anyone at risk in the process.

The second: he would look happy. He would glow around her. He would want to share her with the world. He would look back to make sure she was there because he wanted her there.

This strange limbo we’re in looks like everything except a serious, loving relationship, and every little stunt like this only proves it more.

As always, a voice of reason and an excellent post.

mirandapennturin

I thought maybe the M&S fan had a filter on, but the culture weekend photos also look the same.

And

Comment from one of the fans

-outlander-

I was surprised when this incredible romance and chemistry didn’t translate into real life. The actors, as actors, convinced us, the audience, and created a relationship that seemed bigger than the story itself. I believed them. All the fans believed it. How could it not be real? They deserve the praise of their profession. Professional, convincing, everything... but the off-screen banter, their great humor and comfortable communication, their compliments to each other... all of it and more offered a rare treasure. Of course, I want it to be “real,” and maybe it is, because it gives us, shows us the kind of trust and love that we all want to find. So our vision is that for Jamie and Claire, fantasy and reality collide, time expands, and “always” has real meaning. We all want that. So, we want Sam and Cat to be Jamie and Claire and Sam to be Jamie and Cat to be Claire, etc. That would be great

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May 30

June 3

and two whole weeks after May 30… today

Also adding these out in daylight where his hands look pale