HI IM TRASH 83

ive actually seen others selfship with OCs! for example im pretty sure @selfinsertheaven @emmshipping and @alotta-lovin do it :0

it’s definitely not seen as much (considering i could only think of 3 blogs, rip) as with canon characters i think, but it’s not weird! canon characters are still technically someone’s OCs but like,, on a different level? ?? shru g

eITHER WAY, you’re fine, you’re Valid, go on and smooch your OCs or your friend’s OCs if theyre fine with it! ✨🌟💖🌟✨

Hello all you beauties 💜

I heard recently that there’s been an anon going around and sending fake break up messages from people’s faves. Awful isn’t it? How could someone take something that makes a person so happy, isn’t hurting anyone or anything, and just immediately try to shut it down like that? Do they have nothing better to do? Jealous perhaps? No one knows the ways of this strange species of anon,,,,

ANYWAY sorry to go all crocodile hunter on you for a sec there, but I would just like to take this moment to remind you of a few things.

♡ Your fave would never do that to you.

♡ Your fave loves you and thinks you’re beautiful and amazing even when you don’t feel that way yourself.

♡ They’re going to take you out for a lovely fun time and remind you just how much they love you if you’re up for it.

♡ YOU DON’T NEED TO “GROW OUT OF” SELF INSERTING/ SELF SHIPPING.

♡ SELF SHIPPING/ SELF INSERTING IS NOT HARMFUL.

♡ I bet your fave is writing you a letter three times as long as any ol fake breakup anon message right now, pouring their heart on the page only for you.

♡ Your faves wouldn’t send you messages on anon. They love you and would want people to know exactly who it is that has your heart.

♡ You are beautiful and charming and there is nothing wrong with you.

♡ I will support your self ship/insert escapes full-heartedly. Feel free to come to me if you just want to yell about them, or anything like that. I’ll be your selfship big sister. You are always welcome in my spooky kingdom.

I found out the Earthling’s name. Their name is Aerglo, but apparently many also know them as “The Love Poem.” Oh, yeah, and they also use “she/her” pronouns more often. I found that out yesterday when they noticed that I was using “they/them” pronouns for them for the past few days. I’ll get used to using the right pronouns for them soon, but they also said that they really don’t mind me using gender neutral terms.

Also, they’re agender! Like me! It makes me feel a little more comfortable knowing I can relate to them in some way. They’re much shorter than me, though. It makes me feel nervous because of the way I tower over them. As out of character as it is for me to say this, I don’t want to seem intimidating to them.

Their sister’s name is Empyra. I think it might be a play on the word “Empyrean?” If that’s so, then their parents seem to show a real affinity towards celestial subjects.

Empyra really loved playing with Jasmine and Gladiolus, though! It was sort of amusing. Aerglo liked them, too. They said they were “the cutest little buttons” they ever saw. I find that to be something to be very prideful of! 

It’s been about a month since I’ve made one of these, hm? Well this one is pretty big so it’ll make up for that.

I’ve been…CONSIDERING making another friend. One friend is good, I’ve always chose quality over quantity and Azreael is a very trustworthy friend, but I’ve been talking to some Earthlings and I want to be friends with one of them.

The problem, though, is that I hate socializing. Therefore, I don’t know how to approach them. The times I have talked to them have been only in small bits. I’m worried that during the times I have talked to them, I’ve given a bad impression.

I have a lot of trouble with my tone. I don’t usually sound jovial about much, even if I am genuinely glad about something. It’s difficult in general for me to form emotional bonds very quickly. I don’t want to seem uninterested in what they have to say. They’re so kind to me, so I only want to return that kindness.