so uhhh lots of discourse lately huh? I want to preface this by saying I am officially not gonna be active on this blog again because Iâm kinda lazy and also just stressed all the time but I wanna give my two cents here. This got kinda long so let me just say Iâm making this because of the ânot a calloutâ post most of us have likely seen.
I am a minor. I stated this in my rules and then again in another post when some other stuff was going on in the community. Yes, DBD is a mature game. Yes, the fandom will produce mature content. Thus, it can be assumed that majority of the people in the fandom will be adults. And guess what?
IT IS ENTIRELY VALID FOR ADULTS NOT TO WANT TO INTERACT WITH MINORS!Â
It can get them in serious trouble, both legal and in the community, as we are seeing. Iâm fairly sure I have never had a roleplay interaction or anything else with a blog that is strictly 18+, meaning I clearly see it in the bio or saw it in rules somewhere. As soon as I finish typing this out I will also be adding that I am a minor to my bio even though I donât intend to use this blog again any time soon because that is entirely on me in case someone misses it.
However, anyone who has read my rules will know that I do not condone any NSFW interaction with my blog, and I certainly wouldnât start it. Of course, we canât count on everyone to hold themselves to the same rules for whatever reasons and I am not suggesting anyone should. At the end of the day, anyone should think carefully before interacting with another blog, especially with age considered. There is no excuse for a minor trying to start something with an adult that is NSFW, or even SFW if they say they want no part in that.
But Iâm here to give my take because of the post that fucking linked blogs of minors and stated their supposed age for their âprotectionâ. I hope I donât have to explain how inappropriate this is, but Iâll do it anyway. I have had personal experiences with being groomed by an adult, and believe me, this makes it so much easier. I want to keep this general and make it clear that I am absolutely sure this was not the posters intent, nor that the people mentioned are guaranteed to fall victim to this. Still, you painted a target on their back and allowed a potential predator to take advantage of this situation by pretending to comfort them in a time where theyâre probably very panicked and feel uneasy with a majority of the community. Once again, not saying itâll happen but you just made it so much easier.Â
TLDR: Minors can hurt adults by interacting with them, but that doesnât give anyone the right to make a âlistâ of minors with their fucking ages attached because that is putting them into a lot of danger. Regardless of who you are or how old you are, you should respect the boundaries of other blogs and stay away if they tell you to. The best way to deal with unwanted interactions is to block and reserve callouts for when they are genuinely warranted.
Iâm hoping this makes sense because Iâm typing it out at 1 am, but I want to make it clear that while I am definitely on the side of adults who want kids to leave them alone, the actions some people took were way too drastic and can be interpreted as endangerment and harassment.











