I think they are a little different, at least to me? Though, the differences are subtle?
To me, this episode is more about resolving conflicts by highlighting that the conflict itself is important. In many ways, it actually reminds me a lot of how Cedric and Greylock had to duke it out in Baileywhoops in order to learn how to work together more effectively to bring back the schooner.
The emphasis here is on the need for the conflict.
To me, "Family Picnic" is more about establishing Amber's insecurity about her position in the family now that the three of them no longer go to school together. The "Family Picnic" episode was more about comparing abilities between siblings as they attend different programs of study, the different types of skills certain parents might value, how that might make kids feel, etc. To me, "Family Picnic" was actually a lesson for parents even more so than for children.
Love Roland and Miranda, and they are great parents. However, from Amber's POV, there was a lot of praise drifting towards Sofia's magical ability to the point that, upon watching it a few times, it was easy to see WHY she felt overshadowed.
To me, from a parent's perspective, this was a lesson for US about how to make sure each child is valued even when one of the kid's is doing something really amazing in the moment. While James may not look it, he's also bound to have insecurities of his own.
Thus, it's important to make sure that each child really does feel valued and to ensure that focus isn't being poured solely into one kid.
Again, at least, that's what I took from that episode.
"Green Eyed Monster," to me, is more similar to "Family Picnic" than to "Give it a Twirl," however, the focus is different.
This time it's about the effects of what that consistent praise for particular talents in a family *does* to the other child. It shows the lengths they will go to seek out approval from others. It gives a tangible follow up to the lessons shown in "Family Picnic."
As a person who constantly sought to one-up-themselves to gain approval from teachers and my parents via my grades, despite not always being the most naturally gifted student, I may or may not have pushed my health in ways that were dangerous in order to try to get my parents' attention.
Never conjured any glob beasts. But, I did do some pretty stupid things.
For example, I did almost give myself a heart attack by drinking too many Double Shot Espresso drinks in my freshman year of college because I had a "C+" in a Biology class designed to weed out med students ... I was an English major. Long story as to how this even happened.
(Do NOT do this! I say this to provide you wisdom by my dumb experiences NOT to tell you to try it! Self-medicating your ADHD with caffeine is NOT an appropriate use of caffeine. Caffeine is an unregulated drug that can hurt you! Don't be stupid.)
"Green Eyed Monster" takes "Family Picnic" a step further.
If Roland and Miranda weren't so good at seeing that they had been spending a lot of time placing focus on Sofia's magical ability and continued to place favor on her abilities over Amber's, Amber could fall into some of the traps Zane does in "Green Eyed Monster."
Zane, to me, actually feels like a nice cross between having some of James' outward personality traits with some of Amber's insecurities so it kind of fits.
However, Amber would likely respond by both accidentally attempting spells she's not ready for, and pushing herself beyond her limits in an attempt to get the focus she craves and desires.
However, Roland and Miranda - the spiritual equivalents of Bandit and Chili - course correct and fix things before they get out of hand.
Zane's family situation - based on his narration at least - is different. He has always been in Zaria's shadow. So, we get a different point of view. We get to see a different level of desperation, and a slightly different reasoning for doing things.
See, Zane has sort of decided that his primary focus is on getting approval from **his teachers** even more so than his parents. Sure, he mentions them ... if memory serves?
He actively imagines praise from Cedric and Miss Nettle, not his folks.
Zane is in a completely different headspace than Amber, and the conflicts in "Family Picnic" and "Green Eyed Monster" are pretty different from "Give it a Twirl." Also, the audiences for "Family Picnic" and "Green Eyed Monster" are different. To me, at least, "Family Picnic" is about making sure each child feels valued - talking to parents - where "Green Eyed Monster" is about seeing one's own value beyond what people traditionally praise - talking to the young folks.
I could be completely off base in this, but this is what I see.
'A Little Bit of You and Me' - in regards to the episode where this comes in - I'm sincerely hoping this ends up becoming something about reporting members of group projects who refuse to level with you. That's an important part of self-advocacy in group work. It also lets people in school environments know WHY your projects don't work out. That way you don't all literally have to take the fall for one person being a butt head.
But, again, that's just my hope/ prediction/ plea. We need that lesson more in kids media.
Advocate for yourself kiddos. ALWAYS.