hiii soooo I just realised we've been mutuals for quite a bit now but I never knew you had a specific dni list... and I jus read it and think I may be on it.
I'm traumagenic, but I absolutely have no problem with endos. one of my closest friends is an endogenic system and I adore them and can't imagine ever hating them or anyone because they are endo. imo its none of my buisness what type of system a person is nor is it my place to say whether someone is or isnt plural or is or isnt valid.
Do not respond to this looking for an argument. It is tagged with syscourse so that my followers donāt see it if they donāt want to.
If weāre mutuals already then itās not too much of an issue. I will say though that I do NOT in any way support invalidating identities. The reason Iām anti-endo is due to it often being
1) An actual system being unaware of their trauma (which would mean they donāt even know thereās something to work through)
2) Misidentifying symptoms which in of itself is harmful if youāre trying to work through a whole different disorder than what you have.
3) Singlets that are just mistaking normal things for being plural which can and has for many āendo systemsā and even misidentified traumagenic systems ended in psychosis or a loss of identity/other issues
Itās not my place to assume if someoneās experience is or isnāt real or if they are or are not a system. Endo spaces just very frequently spread misinformation and are inhabited by some people faking it for āfunā, though Iād say thatās the minority.
Im willing to explain more in dms if youāre comfortable but tldr; I donāt support hate and/or fakeclaiming whatsoever and my issues with endos are from a medical standpoint/concern.