I really liked your hc's about Shishigumi's, so I would like to ask which guys from Shishigumi. What are they like as a boyfriend?
What are the Shishigumi members like as partners?
-So, He'd most likely keep his line of work hidden from you. He doesn't want to lie to you, so he'll just say something like:
"I like to keep my home life and work separate. I need you to respect that so I can keep putting you first."
-Once you can get past that bump in the road, He's literally so sweet. Golden retriever energy, but more patient and respectful. His attention is all yours, but he expects the same in return.
-He loves seeing how dedicated you are to your work and in return he becomes more dedicated to seeing you succeed in whatever it is you want in life. (career focused, learning focused, or even your hobbies) If it makes you happy, it makes him happy.
-subconsciously tries to make himself look and sound "softer" around you since he's a pretty big guy. He's just so gentle.
-He shows his love by doing acts of service and words of affirmation/praise, I think his love langue would be spending quality time with you and at night, he is 100% cuddling you.
-He's always trying to show how grateful he is to you for loving him. Sometimes he feels like he doesn't deserve it.
1.) he's a total douchebag; he cheats and lies the whole relationship.
2.) Holy shit he actually really likes this person and he's so scared he's gonna fuck it up or judge him for his shitty past that he lowkey overcompensates. (I'll be writing for this one)
-straight up honest with you about his work and that grittier part of him when y'all first start talking.
"If you really want me bitch, for better or for worse."
Makes him fall a little harder when he can't chase you away and that's when he starts being a little less cocky.
-Probably too scared to ask you out and just starts calling you his woman/partner. thinks he's so smooth if you don't confront him about it.
-Definitely has an avoidant attachment style at first. Hasn't really ever been interested in a Real relationship before, so his walls are allllll the way up.
-once he realizes you're sincere in being with him despite his ways he goes from being loud and confident and arrogant, to almost awkward and the others Instantly notice. They tease him about it, which usually ends up with him and someone else scrappin.
-once y'all are locked in, he's incredibly loyal and dedicated despite still being a little shit.
-He still has a horrible habit of oogling females in the black market and will come home with roses. He spoils you whenever he feels like he's lacking or doing something wrong. (so frequently)
-He spoils the shit out of you though; He likes you to look nice so he can how you off when you two are out on dates or even just taking you to meet the guys. Buys you lots of shit, like jewelry and roses and big gestures that are flashy. He thinks it helps hide the fact he doesn't know what he's doing.
-it takes a lot to stick it out with him, he's unapologetically himself, but he really does try.
-very chaotic with you. He likes a partner who can match his energy, even the parts he keeps hidden.
-One day he just realizes he likes you, like im talkin overnight realization type shit.
-He's so nervous so he's just always trying to make you laugh, even if he looks stupid. The stupidity has worked in the past, so he'll keep doing dumb shit.
-He'll do dumb dares to impress you; he's still got that childish side to him and it comes out in the purest ways around you.
-He's very dominant, just shy. Don't confuse one for the other.
-Terrified of looking weak, especially in front of you, if somethings wrong, you can tell by the way he acts. He'll be short tempered and emotionally immature, not intentionally, but because he's been in survival mode most his life. he'll crack jokes about his mental health or the situation at hand before he sits down and takes things seriously.
-He doesn't want you to worry about him, but he needs constant reassurance, Like instead of constantly asking if you still like him, he'll send little texts like
"you mad?" | "We good?" | "We still good for the plans tonight?"
He tries to play it cool and make it look casual, like he doesn't really care, but your reassurance means everything to him.
-No PDA for the most part (unless he's drunk) but in private, he wants to be all over you, like he's always gonna be touching you, spicy or not. He also gives forehead kisses before he leaves for work either late at night or early in the morning when his partner is asleep. Love langue is definitely physical touch and words of affirmation.
-He remembers all the little things about you, like what your favorite snack is, but he can't remember the big dates and he's always making you mad with his bad memory, however, he uses his memory of what you like/use and will bring them to you before apologizing for something. The apology comes hours later after the gift has been given and he see's that you're receptive to him.
-He keeps a baby picture of you in his wallet with his baby picture.
-Emotionally constipated, but also Emotionally steady. He doesn't say I love you verbally. His actions speak for themselves.
-Falls in love very slowly. Attraction and one-night stands are one thing for him, but actually having an emotional connection is rare for him.
-He's very hard to reach emotionally, but once you're locked in, He's extremely loyal. he doesn't verbalize his feelings, and when he does its with few words. He won't say I love you, but he'll say something like:
"Whatever happens, I'll be here."
He can't promise that he'll be able to fix everything, but he'll always be right by your side.
-He notices how you're feeling or if you're tired. He notices everything about you and he's super observant so he can always try to take care of your issues before you say something about it.
-He does so much for you, doesn't say much, but he's always thinking of you. He'll guide you through crowds, bring you food before you even have to say you're hungry, always open the door and pull your seat out for you. He doesn't consider himself the romantic type, but he's always doing a thousand thoughtful things a day for you.
-He doesn't get jealous, but he gets protective. if someone flirts with you, he'll just walk up and wrap and arm around you or your waist. Most guys get the message. He tries to keep things as peaceful as he can with you around, despite him wanting to drop kick anyone who looks at you.
-He's the most reliable person you know. He lets you cry in silence if you need and will bring you whatever you need, water, tissues. Genuinely won't judge you and is purely there for you.
-When he realizes he loves you, he'll say it once, like declaration of how he feels and that's it.
-He secretly loves letting you play with his mane/give scalp massages after work. He likes being able to have you at hands reach and he's always gentle with physical touch. hell rub your hand as he's holding it or leave a hand on your thigh as he drives. little things mean a lot to him.
-He's a hopeless romantic 100% He yearns for a one-of-a-kind love.
-He falls in love Fast and hard, but only after he's imagined what living out the rest of his life would look like with you.
-He's usually smooth with women around the black market, but when he's around you, his brain just sops working. you'll commpliment him on something and he'll be like:
"Thanks...You too!" and then mutter "fuck that was so stupid..." as you walk away and the others hold back their laughs. Over thinks the fuck out of it later that night.
-Loves physical attention but is too shy to initiate it with you. every time you hug him or grab his hand, he'll have this look on his face, like he's shocked you actually want to touch him.
-Blushes at every little compliment, not noticeable enough, but he definitely gets a little warmer in his cheeks and ears. Easily flustered.
-Loves little dates with you and saves a bunch of places in his memory so he can treat you to them later. Likes just having you with him while you walk around. Takes you to lots of scenic places. Says something cheesy like:
"You're always the best view." and then beat himself up for it later even though you love how cheesy he is. He loves putting a smile on your face.
-He remembers all of y'all's anniversaries, even if it's just the first time you held his hand. He so calm and collected around everyone else but when he's with his partner, they get to see that more flustered and emotional side of him. He thinks it's beautiful, but he could never say it. Probably because his brain would shut down lol.
-He's very clear and very intentional with you. He knows what he wants by now and knows how to communicate it clearly.
-All he really asks of his partner is that they always try because he understands that communication isn't easy for everyone. Also understands that different people have different communication styles.
-Love language is acts of service 100% He's surprisingly kind of old school with it though, so you don't ever have to worry about opening a door, getting your chair, or even pumping gas. He does it all for you before you even register that it needs to be done.
-He loves listening to you yap, especially when it's about music. I think this is how he'd realize he really likes someone. Always looking forward to seeing that spark in your eyes and the passion in your voice. Makes him feel young again.
-loves having his hands on you in private. He'll sneak up behind you and just lean over you while holding your waist. Just wants to watch what you're doing.
-Wants you to play with his mane, but that really just means he wants you to inhale 1o tons of got2b while you style it for him. loves his usual Mohawk but loves when you do Liberty spikes for him. Sometimes he'll suggest hair dye and fun styles for you as well.
-He loves seeing you wear his jackets, especially loves seeing you in his bike gear.
-always gives you his lucky cig (One cigarette in a fresh pack is flipped upside down and saved to be smoked last.)
-Has bought you skimpy little leather fits and had you do boudoir photos on his bike for him. Keeps them in his wallet. He's very protective of the photos but get him drunk and he's showing everyone what a baddie he bagged.
-Emotionally intelligent as all hell. To a fault sometimes because he gets too logistical with things and can be really blunt.
-Like, he just means what he says with no second meaning or hidden meaning and has a hard time understanding why it made things worse. To him, he's just stating what he's observing.
-Whenever something is wrong, he solves instead of comforts. He thinks the best thing he can do is help through solutions, but he's still young and needs to be taught that sometimes the best way to help is to just comfort someone and be present. He tries his hardest once you explain this to him. (A few times...)
-Such an honest, kind man, but struggles with empathy. Partially from work, partially as a means of survival from growing up.
-Quality time is his main love langue.
-He'll make sure to wake up earlier than you do, just so he can have breakfast ready for you when you wake up.
-Talking to you made him feel engaged and truly Understood, which is all new to him. He's got unhealed childhood trauma, so he'll actively seek you out just to feel like he belongs. (Outside of the shishigumi ofc.)
-Takes you on cozy dates, nothing fancy (unless you want that) but to him, the whole date is just sitting down with you and talking until 3 am. Hates when people interrupt his dates with you, so they're probably not going to be in especially sociable area.
-He's surprisingly low-maintence. He basically just wants to relax. He's more of a homebody in his free time, but his lazy nature doesn't mean he's a lazy partner.
-He does lots of little things, like you'll come home from work and he'll have takeout on the coffee table and the chopsticks are in the shape of a heart. He's just so thoughtful
-His job often involves smoothing over tense negotiations. He has an easy smile and a calm voice that puts people at ease. Lots of people hit on him because of this and the fact that heโs albino naturally just draws more people to him. He gets super over-socialized and coming home to you is his favorite part of the day.
-He feels like he can really be himself around you, where he doesnโt have to always look perfect and presentable like he does with clients.
-He loves intimate moments with you, but not necessarily sexual. Like, he loves showering with you and having you wash his mane and vice versa.
-If youโre really into beauty stuff, then heโs always bringing you things he personally recommends or has heard good things about for you.
-Youโre the one person who gets to see him completely relax. Iโm talking heโs hunkered down in bed or the couch with a big ass blanket, just sprawled on the couch, take out leftover not even put up b/c heโs just so exhausted from the day. He feels like he doesnโt have to be perfect for you. Which makes you perfect to him.
-Whenever youโre upset, he wants to know why youโre feeling this way so he can do better next time. Once a problem is presented to him, his first step is to be there for you emotionally. Gives comfort over solutions.
-Heโll give you his opinion on things, but really stresses that everything is your decision at the end of the day and is mainly there to support you through things.
-Super cuddly, always wants to be touching you. His love language is physical touch and quality time.
-Heโs a lover boy at heart. He feels so deeply and passionately.
-He gets Jealousssss, his partner is his partner. Heโs very dedicated to you and expects the same. He wants yโall to be obsessed with each other ngl.
-He likes to encourage each of yโall to be healthy though, including yโalls social lives, emotional wellness and physical health. He likes having separate friends and social lives, so he probably wonโt introduce you to the others possibly ever.
-When you two are alone though, heโs all yours, complete undivided attention, has you sitting on his lap as he winds down for the night.
-Youโre like his best friend and he wants to do everything with you. Heโll do anything with you, but he especially likes when yโall go to the gym together.
-takes you on high energy/ activity dates, like hiking, dancing etc. He loves taking you out dancing though because he feels like itโs more romantic for both of you.
(Okay, thatโs all I have for now, this has been so hard to complete ๐ญ)
