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â§âËâŕźâ§âË. At the point where I shift to my Better Cr, me and G.B have been dating close to a year. At the very beginning of our relationship(hoco night), obviously, we took photos and danced together; when that happened, the Red String Theory kicked in and we knew it was meant to be.
â・ËਠWe go on a lot of dates and hang out at least twice a week.
â・ËਠI go to all his baseball games to cheer him on. âĄ
â・ËਠWe go to football, basketball, and volleyball games together.
â・ËਠWe don't really fight and if we do, we make up quickly.
Me and G.B met when we were in 8th grade. Me and one of my bsfs(S.P) were talking and dancing at the schools Valentineâs day dance and they were friends/busmates and he had a question. He came up to ask and when they finished talking, he turned to me, smiled, and winked playfully before walking back to his friends. I felt my stomach jump but pretended to not feel anything.
We didn't have classes together so I really only heard things from S.P. From mid February to early May I denied any feelings for him. During the spring choir, we made eye contact on stage. I felt a spark in my eye and knew I loved him.
Over the summer we barely talked and when we got our freshman schedules, I found out we has last period french 1 together. We ended up going to homecoming together and started dating not long after. We've been together almost a year now and its the best thing ever. âĄ
Crazy that before I found shifting i already believed in the multiverse. Like I consciously knew that every decision I made: there was more where I made a different one.
I think thats why im not frustrated - or rather resentful - with the fact I haven't consciously had a long "shift" because I have. Sure I haven't gone to any cool realities while aware, but I'm there. And there's a reality where im not typing this, where im making this a video, where I never discovered shifting, etc, the possibilities are endless.
I will be aware of where I want to be one day, ive mini shifted, i can do it.
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đ . ⎠The Red String Theory in my better cr .á Öš â ęą
First and foremost, in my better cr: soul mates(s/m) DO exist, whether we get to meet them or not! Everyone has a red string that connects to another person that matches their orientation.
They only appear when you come in physical contact with your s/m. They will appear as a little red strings(duh) on the left ring finger and when you come into physical contact with your s/m it appears and ties you and their fingers together, a flash of energy pulse through you. You can't miss it.
But if you and your s/m get together, and one of you were to willingly cheat, the string would snap sending another pulse of energy through you. Cheaters don't get let off the hook!
Its not very common to actually find your s/m which is why it would only snap if your together because some people go on to not date their soulmates.
I hate (love, actually) to break it to you, but you actually have! Just hear me out.
We are constantly being told that shifting is "the act of moving your awareness from a reality to another", which is true.
However there has always been some confusion/ misinformation (in most popular shifting spaces) about what qualifies as a different reality, and consequently, about what qualifies as a reality shift.
What I've noticed throughout the years that I've been observing and engaging with shifting spaces online, is that most shifters only consider something "a shift" when you become aware of a different reality in a way that breaks the illusion of continuity (let's call this category 1).
Here are some examples of breached continuity:
- if you fall asleep in your cr and wake up in you desired reality -> that's a shift.
- if you fall asleep with a red t-shirt on, and wake up with a yellow t-shirt on -> you shifted to a "parallel" reality.
But whenever the change doesn't impact continuity (considered as normal) they don't think of it as a shift (let's call this case category 2).
For example:
-Falling asleep with the tv on, and waking up with the tv off --> not considered a shift because it is "common sense" that the tv goes on stand by after a while.
- Or, falling asleep in the car as a kid and waking up in your bed--> not considered a shift because "obviously " your parents carried u to ur bed, right?
Right...?
WRONG!!!
Both categories fall under the umbrella term "shifting", because in both cases your subconscious beliefs "triggered" a change of awareness (a shift).
And for the very same reason, any slight changes, or occurrences that you experience in life can be referred to as shifts.
Long story short the mechanism behind shifting to your desired reality is the same mechanism behind you waking up to your phone having its battery on 100% after charging it overnight (for example).
normalise referring to ur "cr/or" as ur "pr" (previous reality) and referring to your dr as ur cr instead, bc if were following law of assumption....youre already there. So technically, ur dr is ur cr lol. hope this made sense
one of my favorite side quests to do while scripting is going on pinterest and finding pictures of my friends/family/partner that look like i could have taken them, and putting together a little camera roll of my loved ones :p
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Some things that I donât really get about other shifters, is when they have an issue with:
a) using other people online as face claims
b) being against race, gender & age changing
We have infinite amount of lives, and unlimited amount of people that we already are, weâre just shifting our awareness to the reality where we are that race or we are that age, etc. Because shifting is not making up a story, itâs choosing the reality youâre shifting to âźď¸ Shifting is inevitable, and you canât help who you are in this reality, so why could you help who you are in another reality? I think a lot of it is shifters that donât really understand it or see it how it really is, and also anti-shifting propaganda.
Because ârace changingâ in shifting is different to like race changing in general, you know? Youâre a different race in another reality, and youâre just shifting and becoming aware of that self thatâs a different race. But itâs not the same as trying to change your race in this reality or just any reality where you already have a set race.
And using a personâs face in this reality as your face claim in another reality is the same as like using a song made another artist in this reality, and using it as a song made by you in your reality in say a fame dr! Itâs still the same, and thatâs just your face in another reality. Itâs not âweirdâ, itâs the same thing as âthatâs their face in this reality, but your face in that realityâ. You know?
But shifters need to stop limiting themselves and others by creating these rules. Shifting is not a thing that needs rules, itâs freedom. Freedom to live as many lives as you want for however long you want, freedom to travel the multiverse. Itâs unnecessary to police other shifters so strictly for things that arenât supposed to be an issue in our community! Go change your race, go change your age, go change your gender. Do not limit yourself to the rules, limits, and morals of this world, because itâs just one reality out of infinity.
Some things that I donât really get about other shifters, is when they have an issue with:
a) using other people online as face claims
b) being against race, gender & age changing
We have infinite amount of lives, and unlimited amount of people that we already are, weâre just shifting our awareness to the reality where we are that race or we are that age, etc. Because shifting is not making up a story, itâs choosing the reality youâre shifting to âźď¸ Shifting is inevitable, and you canât help who you are in this reality, so why could you help who you are in another reality? I think a lot of it is shifters that donât really understand it or see it how it really is, and also anti-shifting propaganda.
Because ârace changingâ in shifting is different to like race changing in general, you know? Youâre a different race in another reality, and youâre just shifting and becoming aware of that self thatâs a different race. But itâs not the same as trying to change your race in this reality or just any reality where you already have a set race.
And using a personâs face in this reality as your face claim in another reality is the same as like using a song made another artist in this reality, and using it as a song made by you in your reality in say a fame dr! Itâs still the same, and thatâs just your face in another reality. Itâs not âweirdâ, itâs the same thing as âthatâs their face in this reality, but your face in that realityâ. You know?
But shifters need to stop limiting themselves and others by creating these rules. Shifting is not a thing that needs rules, itâs freedom. Freedom to live as many lives as you want for however long you want, freedom to travel the multiverse. Itâs unnecessary to police other shifters so strictly for things that arenât supposed to be an issue in our community! Go change your race, go change your age, go change your gender. Do not limit yourself to the rules, limits, and morals of this world, because itâs just one reality out of infinity.
â â â â â â â â đ youâre trying to feel your dr with your cr senses
â a lengthy shifting guide
why is it so hard to shift from your cr to your dr but not so much vice versa? youâve spent the first large chunk of your life believing this reality to be the full extent and foundation of existence. even if you now logically understand this not to be the case, the years spent curating and deepening a mental, emotional, and physical anchor to this reality has warped your perception of reality and instilled in to you the subconscious idea that your cr is the default. and in treating it as the default, the end all be all, and in compromising with it, you reinforce the idea that you are attached or stuck hereâthat it is even a place to get stuck in in the first place. not only do you trap yourself in this reality and grant it power over you that it does not actually have, you start viewing your cr as the âstarting pointâ too, and shifting as some form of transportation from point A to point B. accompanying this belief is an imagined distance created between your current reality and desired reality. you mightâve already recognised this in yourself; the feeling that your dr is somehow faraway, a place that needs to be travelled to.
itâs important to make and internalise the distinction between a shift in realities as an act of metaphysical travel, and a shift in realities as a shift in focus. imo the former is a much better descriptor for what shifting actually is in essence. i will go into more depth later, but a byproduct of being raised the way you were, growing up knowing nothing but your cr and rooting & centring yourself wholly (confined) within it, is the over identification you end up developing with your cr self. you are not living reality, you are watching it. but after years of the constant unbroken immersion, the two become almost impossible to distinguish. you define yourself by and take on as if they were your own the thoughts and identity and feelings of the âvesselâ you are observing, and let them dictate how you experience reality. the lines begin to blur between you; your cr self, and you; your awareness/the observer.
feel your hand. donât touch it, but notice itâs weight and temperature, or the air around it. now feel the feeler. can you feel yourself? or your body, maybe? now go a step further and feel the one feeling. you probably arenât fully able to, but this is the observer. âthe observerâ, or the state of being after breaking the immersion, is you in your natural or purest state. it has also been described as pure awareness, the void state, ego death, sakshi, the self, anatta, and interpreted in different ways across a multitude of different religions and branches of spirituality & philosophy, all used as a means to an end for different things. fyiâiâm not saying you have to completely forsake your cr identity or start ignoring/dismissing your senses or thoughts to shift, just understand that those things donât define you or your reality. the means to the end here is just getting a point across and hopefully helping improve with the approach you take to shifting. all of this to say, youâre not travelling from point A to point B. point A and B are not places you can (technically) even travel to or exist in, because youâre just watching/observing/being aware of. shifting is not the transportation of a self from one location to another. shifting is simply changing what is focused on/experienced; from one stream of experience to another. a shift in focus.
to summarise, you as in your ego, the you in this cr as you know it, your body, your brain, your thoughts, your identity, donât actually go or shift anywhere. you, your awareness, in favour of perceiving you, your cr self, the one sat at your computer or phone or whatever reading this right now, starts perceiving a different you/ego/selfâone that could have the exact same personality, memories, and thoughts, just in another realty, or one that is a different person entirely. there is only a change or âshiftâ for the observer, not the cr self or ego. so stop trying to feel your dr with your cr senses. youâre not going to. youâre so immersed in your cr and cr self that you automatically rely on this realityâs bodiesâ senses to gauge your success when you try to shift, waiting for your cr self to get a cue that itâs never going to get. the surroundings your cr self feels arenât going to go anywhere. nor are your senses going to shut off. your cr body will continue to receive sensory information, because thatâs what bodies do. so donât lie there expecting your bedsheets to disappear or magically warp into your dr surroundings or something and feel like youâve failed when they donât. shifting is not about somehow willing your surroundings to change or lying in your room forcefully convincing yourself that your senses are feeling something else, itâs about acknowledging whatâs beyond those senses. feeling and connecting to what your dr self feels.
if you can still feel your cr, itâs not you feeling it, itâs your cr self. and you are not your cr self.
you can apply this to your thoughts too. your thoughts are no less your cr selfâs than your senses are. if you start getting doubts mid attempt or canât let go of the thought or feeling that youâre not in your dr, remind yourself that you are not your feelings or thoughts or doubts. you are simply observing them. of course your cr self will think that theyâre still in their cr, they are. just ignore them and shift your attention elsewhere. your focus and awareness are what dictate what you experience, if you relinquish your focus from your cr and direct it to your dr instead, thatâs where youâll âbeâ.
obviously thereâs no one set way to shift, so if you want you can stop reading here and apply this information to your shifting journey in whatever way suits you. if youâre interested in my method though, hereâs the compilation of all this info into practical steps you can actually take to shift.
get comfortable somewhere you wonât be disturbed. close your eyes and focus on what you can see. the light behind your eyelids, shapes, colours, whatever. but instead of automatically interpreting these sensations as belonging to your cr, allow them to become sensory input from your dr. light? thatâs coming from the lamp by the xyz in your dr bedroom. or maybe your in a field if thatâs a fitting setting for your dr, and itâs the sun shining down on you. shapes? thatâs because youâve been lying down with your eyes closed for a while now, youâre tired after your classes or job or whatever you do in your dr. even if itâs nothing at all, let it be your drs nothing. just feel it. do this for about a minute.
then move onto your body. whether itâs sinking, lightness, tingling, focus on it. and do the exact same as you did for the previous step, interpret it as input coming from your dr. donât worry if you can still feel your body lying in your bed, because your surroundings arenât going to changeâat least not physically. again, those sensations belong to your cr self, and they donât prevent awareness from directing itself elsewhere. the goal here is to shift your focus away from them and onto something else, so hyperfocusing on your cr and worrying about your surroundings is counterintuitive. just gently guide your attention back to your dr, really try feel your dr surroundings and what your dr body is currently feeling. if you canât fully avert your focus away from your cr, thatâs fine, at the very least just try receive/tap into the input coming from your dr alongside your cr.
finally focus on what you can hear. if youâve already managed to make a connection with your dr through your sight and physical senses just build up on what youâve already got. feel grass tickling your skin? deepen the connection there by focusing on the sound now too, the wind blowing through it. see light behind your eyes? focus on the hum of the lights.
repeat these exercises over and over, deepening the connection with each cycle. if you donât manage to get anything the first cycle just keep going until you do. it might take some practice. like i mentioned before, after spending so much time here and being in constant attunement with your cr self, the sense that your cr is the default starts to take root and it can be difficult to shake the feeling that youâre just indefinitely âhereâ. itâs normal for it to take some time to learn how to question this feeling and push past it. since you've never (technically?) been aware of anything outside of this reality, learning how to do so can be a bit like learning how to use a muscle you've never used before.
this method operates on the idea that reality is something that is tuned into through focus & narrowed awareness and not something metaphysically travelled across, so for the most success with it, iâd recommend starting to make a conscious effort to see your dr less like a place and more like a wavelength or channel, a perspective already existing beyond your current focus. shifting to your dr then becomes an effort to notice and receive input from this channel/wavelength, input that already exists out there and that simply needs to be acknowledged. youâre just picking up on whatâs already there, feeling something that a version of you already feels.
persist in the belief that reality is observed and flexible. youâre not "stuck" anywhere unless you believe you are.
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I think we need to have a real nuanced talk about censorship of drs on tumblr of all places gang gang- tumblr of all places is a place for dark and weird shit so if people wanna talk about their weird and dark drs, just block them bro like you're literally making yourself mad and making drama in the community and accomplishing nothing because guess what? shaming people for their drs isn't going to stop them from shifting to it and if your point is to shame them into stop talking about it, that's opening up a whole can of worms that allows everyone to be targeted.
i honestly believe that the policing of peopleâs dr no matter what they are is why the shiftblr community is overrun and oversaturated with the same advice posts because thatâs easily digestible and you dont have to actually think about it and can just reread the same thing over and over unlike people sharing about their drs because they arenât pandering to you for likes and reblogs, theyâre sharing a vulnerable part of themselves to connect with others