Sci-Fi Fangirl Blues

tamlin: tries to built that life for feyre

feyre: gets angry how dare tamlin do what i had told him i wanted?

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feyre: i don’t want to be a high lady

tamlin: u won’t be bc that’s how it works in the courts

feyre: gets angry tamlin never saw me as his equal

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feyre: hates the political duties, hates events where she meets the citizens of court and wants them all to leave her alone

feyre: tamlin treated me like his pet and never bothered to teach me anything

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feyre: extremely traumatised, can’t stand the color red, newly made fae i want to go hunt for the villagers and help kill those wild creatures

tamlin: it’s not safe for u, i will be worried for ur safety and if u get hurt ppl will react badly bc they see u as their saviour so pls pls just stay here

feyre: i can’t believe tamlin wont let me leave and go get more traumatised, have a bad reaction to blood and death and make tamlin and others lose their focus on their take bc they’d have to babysit me

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feyre: doesn’t listen to tamlin pleas, doesn’t understand his point and so he locks her up in the big manor to keep her safe until he came back

feyre: tamlin had locked me up! he wanted to lock me up for no reason and treated me like his doll

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feyre: i don’t have anything against spring court people turns the ppl against their high lord, kills tamlin’s guests from another kingdom, destroys spring court

feyre: omg i can’t believe hybern broke their promise, i didn’t mean for this to happen

feyre: i won’t ever apologise for it or even think about it tho

feyre: i can’t even tamlin is angry and blaming me for what i did, he doesn’t get to rewrite the narrative

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feyre: uses lucien to push tamlin to his breaking point and make him more paranoid and destroys their relationship

feyre: gets angry when tamlin treats lucien like a betrayer

feyre: i won’t ever apologise for it, i don’t even feel guilty for it that much

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feyre: pushes, pushes and pushes tamlin into a corner until he snaps

feyre: i can’t believe tamlin lashed out and hurt me

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feyre: idc what happens to tamlin or how my mate treats him bc i no longer have any business with him yolo

feyre: is a high lady and doesn’t realise how politics work

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feyre: lies to tamlin about how rhysand treated her

tamlin: believes them and tries to find a way to break their bargain

feyre: i can’t believe tamlin fell for my lies and thinks rhysand a daemati is controlling my mind

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feyre: sees how open and welcoming spring court is to others and how much tamlin loves all of his ppl and they willingly are loyal to him

feyre: hears rhysand’s dream of a better world, sees how illyrians and CoN is and thinks rhysand is the better high lord

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feyre: tamlin sees me as his pet, his property

tamlin: literally fell in love with the wildest feyre, a hunter who killed his friend and was kinda crazy

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feyre: tamlin wasn’t there for me after UtM

feyre: wasn’t there for tamlin after UtM either

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tamlin: sends lanthe, a priestess, someone tamlin trusted to be there for feyre after UtM and have someone to talk to

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This image is funny, I'll give you that, but maybe part of the reason no one ever knows when conservatives are talking about trans men is because its never taken seriously.

"Haha, they're talking about men being pregnant, isn't that funny. Anyway, its like conservatives always forget that trans men exist. Wonder why that is?"

"Free the nipple" never meant "free to not wear a bra" or "free to breastfeed." Those were adjacent conversations that of course "free the nipple" supporters would boost, but that was NEVER the core of free the nipple.

The core of free the nipple was always that the breasts of people perceived as women ("female-presenting nipples" to use some Tumblr speak) are in no way different than the breasts of people perceived as men. And that since the chests of people perceived as men are not sexualized and are allowed to be exposed, so too should the breasts of people perceived as women. If men can be topless, so can women. If it's inappropriate for women to show their chests, neither should men. It isn't sexual assault for a woman to walk around barechested, because it isn't sexual assault for a man to do so either, and breasts are NOT sexual organs.

Claiming breasts are inherently sexual organs is factually and morally wrong, it is sexist and controlling, it is a tool of oppression, and it defines normal body parts (and bodily functions) as sex which leads to inherent sexualization of people with those parts. It leads to 12 year olds with large breasts being accused of seducing 40 year old men or trying to distract and corrupt their classmates.

"Free the nipple" doesn't mean "free the nipple in a god-fearing way." It means FREE THE NIPPLE, full stop, end of sentence. It means to free the nipple of the faulty social constructs that cast it as a sexualized, malicious force of seduction instead of a normal body part that should be free of expectations of shame or "modesty."

Breasts and nipples aren't shameful, sexual, immoral, porn-adjacent, kinks, a distraction, or things to be feared. They are a part of your body just like your elbows and ankles, and being afraid of them, thinking they will corrupt some innocent person or that being exposed to them is trauma akin to sexual assault, is the entire fucking problem.

Free the nipple, not just for breastfeeding, not just from bras, but from the fucked up social constructs that cast them as malicious instead of innocent. Stop trying to sanitize "free the nipple" for puritanical, conservative audiences who already hate you and the rest of us. You aren't helping anyone.

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