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There are fat girls who are also poors, we don’t all have enough money to buy the new season in Torrid and have our closets filled of colorfull clothes. 

There are fat girls who live in cold places, we can’t run in the house in some thight sexy swimsuit, use short pants or be naked all day.

There are fat girls who don’t wear make up because their faces have acne and can’t use them, or because we just don’t want.

There are fat girls who don’t have a lot of free time and can’t take the work of look like models in a big house.

Feminism talk about minorities and the power of the woman as human being, and mostly, size our worth according the fact that we are a living thinking creature and not a sexualized object.

Then why even the movements of Body Positivity focus in show chubby girls looking like models? Instead to celebrate diversity, only reinforces the idea that we are pure objetcs to see. 

Even if you “dess to yourself”, even if you don’t look sexy for others, but only to your eyes, as a woman, we also need to make visible the other side. The side of the same womans that we look here, pretties, sexies, nakeds, with perfect hair and amazing make up, in her worse days. We are not less worthy, important and amazing creatures for not look like a model.  There are fat girls that never will look like a model, because their situation does not allow it, and that don’t make her less worthy, less human, less woman. And these girls, who never see a pic of a chubby girl looking like a trully mess, will grown up thinking that they are the only mess in the world. 

In my endless worst days I would had loved to see a chubby sexy girl showing me that she can be a trully trash sometimes too, that I’m not alone. And today, I still wanting to see that too. But the Body Positivity movements keep showing me the same: Pretty chubby girls of smooth sking with perfect make up in a king size bed, black goddesses with some epic cute dress in the sun, girls that weight barely over the average looking like the cutests things ever, big powerfull girls in swimsuit in a pool, totally naked girls with lovely tattoos and filters… 

I know my wish will end in the nothing, but I’m here to give a hand to these girls like me, that don’t know how is live like that, and tell hers: YOU ARE NOT ALONE.

Ely- 29 @gildaelia

what? i have no idea what you’re talking about. i’m guessing you have a preconceived idea of what a latine should look / sound / do based on the “classic” latines that you see in the media all the time, like:

and they’re great, but there’s also white latines, like:

and don’t forget about the black latines, such as:

and the indigenous latines are also very important:

and there’s also chinese latines, like Harry Shum, Jr. yeah, thay guy from glee and the shadowhunters (the netflix show). i don’t know if he self identifies as latino, but he was born in Costa Rica and lived there for six years, so that makes him latino by definition.

in fact, there’s presence of many asian racial / ethnic groups, but they’re not very common in the media. that’s why i’m not including any pictures. but they’re here and we love them.

and let’s not even talk about the mixing going on with all of the above because this post could go on for years

so bottom line: 

latinoamérica is a big beautiful melting pot of everything

latine is not a skin color, it’s an ethnicity

there’s no such thing as “looking latine”. all latines are different

me after im hired: