Spaced Out Rockstars

thats one thing i actually wish people would speak about more in relation to trauma, often trauma especially trauma within children is not dictated specifically by What Happened but how their emotions to the traumatizing event or situation were responded to by the trusted people in their life. two children can go through the same exact experience and the biggest factor that changes their reaction is how their parents respond to their reaction, or if their parents had already taught them coping skills that were applicable. so many parents and guardians panic and freak out about how they can prevent their child from being traumatized by outside forces, but every child will encounter multiple traumatizing events just due to the fact that that's a part of life. the important part of parenthood is not doing everything you can to prevent an event from happening in the first place but learning and preparing how to provide them with tools to help them cope with whatever happens if something happens. i feel like this is an argument that can also aide in the support of anti-censorship but i never see anyone talk about how if parents stopped worrying about banning shit and started worrying about learning how to explain things and help guide their children to have healthy views on things they'd have an easier time managing their childrens internet use. which is just odd to me that people don't bring it up.

pre nut insanity

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