why don't you listen to solsbury hill by peter gabriel and then maybe you'll understand the inherent duality of transitions and how every significant change in your life can simultaneously lead you to fulfillment and also to profound grief for what you had to lose in order to get there. why don't you listen to solsbury hill and realize that the sense of renewal will always come with the sense of loss, that one cannot exist without the other, and that's okay because the loss leads you to what you were truly meant for. maybe listen to the most perfectly bittersweet song ever written and realize that if you're never where you want to be, the change you have to go through may be painful, but it has come to take you home























