For our first official post, we wanted to showcase tips for new daddies! Feel free to reblog if you find any of these helpful!
Always be aware of her little space triggers! Know what helps her get there and know what helps her stay there.
Know the right time and place to help her into her little space. You should take visuals, her voice changes, and her mood into account. A good daddy knows when little space is needed.
Take care of her. That should explain itself; run her a bath, color with her, cuddle her, pick out her favorites little shows/movies, etc.
Have a set list of rules, punishments, and rewards. Always make sure you use the right punishment for the crime. And make sure you always follow through with the punishment if she doesn’t straighten up.
Aftercare is by far the most important thing. After a rough scene, or punishment, always make her feel safe. Cuddles, snacks, stuffies, and love are in order.
Do things for her. Fill up her sippy, go get her paci when she’s fussy. Even the smallest things have the biggest impact.
Band-aid boo boos immediately, no mater how big or small
Make sure she’s keeping up with her health; medicine, bathing, meals, etc.
Make sure her mental health is taken care of too. Most littles use their little space as an escape from the adult world.
In public places, be sure to still be her daddy. I’m not saying to go around and spank her in public. More like, if she breaks a rule, tap her on the butt or whisper in her ear to behave. There are plenty of punishments out there that are suitable for public use (i.e. hand on the shopping cart, holding on to daddy’s belt, etc)
If there are anymore beginner things you think a daddy should know, drop it below! Thanks for reading!
