North Coast CupCake

I’ve been in chastity for a looooong time. The very first thing i did when i turned 18 is take a buss to a crowded city, and bought a chastity cage CB-6000 in there. I remember that, i got so nervous.  If you are looking for the perfect chastity cage for you, feel free to folow my advise, it will save you allot of cash. 1) Don’t buy a device that can pinch your skin.

2) Don’t buy cheap plastic devices or flexible materials! The only plastic device i know won’t break are the expensive CB-series and Holytrainers.

3) Don’t buy a transparant device. You dont want to see your penis, after 2-3 weeks you will forget how your penis looks like exactly, and forget about it more and more. 

4) Dont buy a chastity cage with a lockpad. You can grab the lockpad and move your cage untill you orgasm, lets be honest sissies.

5) Dont buy a cage that shows too much skin. With erections, your skin will just get swollen and hurt.

6) The perfect cage examples and places where you can buy them :

I dont get anything out of this post or something like that, this is just to help you! Dutch people can buy from https://www.kuisheidskooi.nl/huismerk/Kuisheidskooi-Metaal Extremly cheap, i bought mine there… For the others you can buy one at for example :  https://steelworxx.de/ But those are expensive, you can probably find one like this online cheap, but be carefull. I know you are wondering… ‘’Sissyjoyce, on your picture you are wearing a holytrainer S) I know… its a good chastity cage, but these are betters? Right now i got the right one from the lowest picture i showed. xxx

So I have had a lot of request, “How can I become more of a sissy?” etc. I decided to put together a post of some of the things I do, and things that will help you, in your sissification.  This post is “bloggy” more than anything, so you’ll just have to wait for more of my own sissy pics~  ;)  Anyone can become more feminine, old, big, small, whatever…. trust me, I am older than most might think…. nothing is impossible, just a matter of how much you are willing to do! Let’s get started~

HRT (Hormone replacement therapy):

is NOT something you do to become a sissy. HRT is a serious decision, and should be made after consulting professionals (Doctor, and Therapist). I know it’s fun to read the captions about taking HRT etc… but it WILL cause permanent long term effects on your body, and can also lead to other permanent, dangerous, side-effects if not taken properly.  From my own experience, when I was young and stupid, I do not condone HRT unless you are SERIOUSLY considering transitioning.

The Workout: Getting in shape is very important! The more feminine your figure, the easier it will be to pull of a feminine sissy appearance! This is make basic routine for my legs and butt (I am pretty thin otherwise, luckily). I do this 3 times a week.  On the off days, I jump rope! It’s a great, easy way to burn fat/calories, and you can do it almost anywhere. It is important here to mention, you want tone, slender muscles, not bulk; more reps, less weight. Also I don’t really work my arms out at all, that way I don’t have big shoulders etc… However, if you have extra weight in those areas, you might want to work on toning them down as well.

Body Hair:

Shave those legs sissy! Getting rid of body hair, is one of the most feminizing things you can do, that achieve almost instant results!  I always see sissies posting pictures, asking how they look, and they are brandishing unshaven legs etc. This will break the illusion instantly (obviously the reason for this can very depending on what you define as being a sissy, and how feminine a sissy should be). You don’t even have to shave all the time! For example, I use a beard/hair buzzer on the closest setting to shave my legs (if I am just doing photos), because the slight stubble will not really be noticeable, and I can avoid any razor-burn/ingrown hair etc… That being said, my hair is already quite fine/thin and not very dark. Some of you might have to shave completely. I suggest you look at many youtube videos on how to shave, to lessen the effects of burn etc.  “But I have hair EVERYWHERE!” Yes, some of us are not as fortunate when it comes to hair. This is one of those times where I mentioned in the beginning; “how much are you willing to do?” Laser hair removal is cheap, and can effectively reduce/thin/remove body hair. Look into whats available near you! 

Stockings:

STOCKINGS ARE SEXY!!!! Seriously, on those nice smooth legs, stockings will make your legs 10x sexier, and feminine, just how a sissy sluts legs should look. (Also, you can cheat here. If you have fine hair like me, just be lazy; shave your legs real close with the hair buzzer, then put on some black/nude sheer stockings, and your legs will look sexy smooth for photos!). Stockings can also help manage the appearance of your legs. They make them look longer and more tone. They also create a nice consistent color! Nothing is sexier than rubbing your smooth nylon legs together. It drives most crazy. (I love it when I guy rubs his hands over my stocking legs, and tears at the rump to get to my, lady parts hehe)

Makeup:

Is not as hard as you think, so don’t be intimidated. It takes me about 20-30min to achieve a decent makeup look that I am satisfied with! There are literally thousands of girls on youtube doing howto makeup tutorials. Fine a girl with your same skin complexion and watch her videos. See what product she uses, how she uses it, and there is probably going to be a style of makeup that you like. Watch, practice, learn. You can buy the same makeup in the vids online. Also, there are makup apps on the phone you can use too (if you’re lazy). Get a nice clean shave, take a selfie, and makeup away! When I am feeling lazy, I use a combination of “Airbrush” “YouCam Makeup” and “Perfect365″. 

Hair/Wig:

A quality hairpiece is essential. A cheap party wig, is going to give you a cheap party look…. a quality piece, not only will look 10x better, but will last 10x longer with proper care. It will also look waaaay more convincing when you meet your guy in person! So don’t be cheap here.

Clothes:

Don’t just buy clothes that you think look great on the model, they might not fit you the same way. Buy clothes that work for you, and that show off your most prominent feature. For example: I don’t buy hot-pants, because don’t have a bubble-butt yet, and they just wouldn’t fill out…. However, I my legs, or probably my best asset, so miniskirt/dress all the way!  You’re a sissy, the sluttier, the better in my opinion (within the tips above). Online shopping makes this a breeze, just measure yourself, and look at size charts.

High Heels:

Nothing screams sissy more than having to prance around on a pair of slutty heels! 

(Other Things To Consider)

Your surroundings. Don’t take pictures in your bathroom, and clean your room. I nice clean room/bedroom background is really going to make your feminine sissy self stand out.

Photo filters can add a better sense of lighting if you have poor conditions or a not so great camera.

Be confident.

When meeting a guy, make sure they know what they are in for. Make it clear your a CD or just a Sissy etc.

Have fun! Explore your femininity.

Those who pledge to my Patreon will be able to view exclusive sissy captions, like the one below. 

I call them Sissy Stories :)

And this is only the tip of the iceberg. 

There are many more rewards waiting for you at the link below ❤

Train your knowledge and skills! It will help you to become a real sissy!

All you sissies looking for a daddy to teach them, this is for you. This is REAL teaching. I’m not writing these words as fantasy, I’m writing them in unvarnished honesty. From the perspective of a guy who fucking loves screwing sissified queer boys on the side. I’m writing this to help you move out of the shadows of fantasy and I to the shadows of the night, into a John’s backseat, into sexual relations with a man.

These words are not for fantasy. Take them to heart.

Forward:

“But what about getting my outfit together?” you might ask this. Well, sweetheart, steal your girlfriend’s/sister’s/mother’s/roommate’s/neighbor’s I don’t give a shit. Buy them online from amazon or one of the million other websites that’ll take your credit and/or debit card. Buy clothes, your jewelry and makeup from stores with automated checkouts. You could be buying that purfume for your gf, no one cares! No one is going to arrest you or blast you in the face with insults. Honestly, no one cares. This is the easy part.

End of forward.

Go get laid ASAP!!!!! I have to say it again, get yourself fucked tonight. Suck a guy off tomorrow. Post craigslist/grindr/wherever and everywhere daily!

Do it! Do it, do it, do it, do it! Flaking out of a craigslist encounter is stupidly common and easy to do. Don’t be the person who lives in fear and doubt. Seize the day! I ask, do the heteros chicken out everytime until their 38 year old virgins? What do we say of such people? No, this sissy itch of yours might be considered taboo to some but this is who you are, this is what you desire, fulfillment, urges, seek it out like a missile. Online jerkbait only goes so far and those digital packets will never smell like a cock, they’ll never fill your mouth with warm man meat. A video won’t commit assault and battery on your ass like you crave. Kik, Snapchat, Reddit pms, ain’t none of that going to fill a room with the unique sounds of anal humping, of a man pushing your head into his lap. You get the picture. Being a sissy is soooooo easy! Just fall down, open your painted lips, arch your back and pop that ass in my face. Your nervousness and your commitment to fucking a random on CL should be non-overlaping magisteria, one should not effect the other. Tremble like a leaf, go have a cute little nervous puke in the toilet but always DO IT. Go get sexed. Sissyhood cannot just be fantasy anymore than hetero life can, it has to be lived and experienced in the flesh. All cherries must be popped. All you cute sissies are coveted, men want to get with you and fuck. Do it.

Take the time to do yourself up up right. Qaulity shave, eyebrows, makeup, purfume, etc.

Treat yourself to a small new purchase. A tube of lipstick would be nice, or mascara. The thrill of an ellicit purchase will only serve to excite you more and commit you to hooking up.

Decide if you’re 100% committed to clean anal and if so then enema your slutty ass! Pro tip, anal is usually clean anyway and very few people honestly care if their dick gets a little dirty while pounding a red hot sissy.

Moan like a high pitched whore. It’ll come natural so don’t repress it.

Get sensual. Too many sissies, fem boys, crossdressers, and twinks just lie there like a stiff rag because they’re not used to feminine sensuality, don’t be that sissy. Move your hips! Gyrate. Bounce like Nikki Minaj, hump like you’re a pornstar, throw your head back in ecstasy! Squirm, shake, tremble, quiver. If your legs start to convulse let it ride, if you feel the urge to shake your head back and forth while crying in pleasure, do it!

GET SENSUAL. Like a girly. Lick lips, necks, ears, faces, chests, butts, cocks, thighs, feet. Whisper. Hump. Prance. Swish. Mince. Queer. Smile! For Christ’s sake smile like a southern belle at a summer night ball.

Your asshole is a pussy, treat it accordingly. Show it off, spread it for your lover, stroke it, pet it, finger it, moan for it, sway it around in people’s faces. Expose it, let him eat up the sight of it. Redden your face in embarrassment as the cool night air hits your sex hole.

Ignore the nervous Nancy inside you, hump like you’re being filmed for a porno. ‘Sissy Queer Bangers 7’ or 'My Backdoor Angel 3’

Be vocal! “Harder,” “More!” “Ahhhhh” “fuck!” “Deeper” “spit on me!”, these words are your friends. Forget Shakespeare and hail the era of airhead bimbo nymphos!

Own it. You can be the most nervous/shy/unsure sissy slut peddling her tight ass on craigslist BUT cock will become your universe. Go to your happy place, act like you’ve done this a thousand times before. Put it all on the line. Be a horny little pump, go over the top, push yourself, abhor silence, abhor stillness. If you need to use the washroom leave the bathroom door wide open. If the anal is hurting your tender rectum scream and bite and wail and shiver. If you cum, play with it. If you’re scared force out a “please fuck me silly,” through clenched teeth. Not every encounter is going to be blessed with instant animalistic chemistry so ride out the first few minutes of awkwardness with a smirk, you know it happens and it shall pass soon enough. When you have a prick hardening in your hand you’ll know what to do. All will be forgotten. Bliss out.

Bonus round:

Everyone be like “oh, what if my dick isn’t big enough?”, “ what if I get shit on his dick!?”, “what if he doesn’t find me attractive?!”, “ what if I’m awkward and stiff?”, “what if he’s a noshow!”, “ what if it hurts…”, “what if I’m seen as a freak?”, “ what if I can’t get it up?”, “what if the sex isn’t good!”, “ what if I’m found out?!” What if what if what if…

No one cares!!!! Everyone is self doubting and no one cares! The only thing! The ONLY thing! The only thing holding you back are these bogeyman doubts that are borderline delusion. There are sissies out there right now who are rolling in sex, little oversexed whores flirting with porn and prostitution because they love it so much, because they’re lusted after by horny men. These aren’t the 1%ers in looks or skill they’re the 1% who go out and actually live their naughty dreams in the flesh. Please, sweet sissies, go out and please a penis today, this weekend, weekly. Be the slut you were born to be. Show off your special talents, break away from your bland male persona, do good, empty ballsacks of their sperm.

Would you drop everything you’re doing tonight or this weekend or next Tuesday for a cute girl who wanted to get a coffee with you? Would you jump to the office for 2 hours if your boss wanted to give you an award and a slice of cake? Would you take time to help a friend with a flat tire? Would you go to the movies if you had the spare $$? You know the answer is “yes” to at least some of these so where are your priorities? What kind of sissy do you desire to be? Closeted or real?