The Adventures of Elmo in Grouchland will never fail to piss me off
There are a few problems with the movie, but I'll save that for another time.
My biggest criticism of the film is the main problem: Zoe's treatment of Elmo and how unfairly Elmo is antagonized.
So, the main plot is that Elmo doesn't want to share his blanket with Zoe, and the two get into a fight, and it causes Elmo's blanket to fall into Oscar's trash can and Elmo needs to go through Grouchland to get it back. The moral is that its bad to be selfish.
Sounds fairly simple, right?
Well, here's where the problem starts: NONE OF THIS WAS ELMO'S FAULT.
In the movie, after he cheered Zoe up at the beginning, Zoe constantly tries to take Elmo's blanket even after he repeatedly said that he was uncomfortable sharing it.
Then, for the rest of the film, he is wrongfully called "selfish" just because he did not want to share his blanket, a comfort item that has been repeatedly shown to be a VERY IMPORTANT ITEM FOR HIM.
And what does Elmo get? He's called selfish and forced to apologise to Zoe.
Meanwhile, Zoe just gets let off with a slap on the wrist and doesn't even apologise to Elmo for forcing him to share his blanket and ripping it.
I get that the film was trying to tell the message of "don't be selfish", but they butchered it so badly that the moral of the film rather comes off as, "You need to share everything with your friend and never establish boundaries, and if you don't, you're an awful friend".
And that brings me to another point: the one-dimensional view that many kids' shows have about sharing. A lot of the time, kids' shows will discourage being selfish and encourage always sharing, no matter how important something is to you.
Yes, it is good to share things, but a lot of the time, these shows neglect the other part: SOMETIMES, YOU HAVE TO BE SELFISH. Being too selfless is just as bad as being too selfish. They fail to acknowledge that sometimes, there are things too special to you that you can't share.
As a person with ASD with a comfort stuffed animal, I don't feel comfortable sharing him with anyone. When I told my family I wasn't comfortable sharing him with my baby cousin, they just pushed me into sharing him anyway.
This movie basically demonizes boundaries and being "selfish", and it also sort of shames and gaslights children into always being selfless and bowing down to others needs even if they're not comfortable with it. It's teaching children to invalidate their feelings and boundaries to please their friends.
To me, its a very toxic message to send to children and I'm extreely disappointed in this movie for implying that to kids.
-- Big Bird's Momma/π¨π£Anon