Sesbian Gex

SCAR: chat says it's big hot where you live, did [your computer] just overheat?

GRIAN: am... am i a big hot?

SCAR: you're a big hot, but is it big hot weather and um–

GRIAN: ohh, yeah, it's warm. it's warm

GEM: happy pride month!

GRIAN: yeah, thanks. happy june

IMPULSE: how's the green couch?

[various laughter]

SCAR: the what?

GEM: we circle back, every time

GRIAN: i'm gonna put my leg down, i'm gonna put my leg down

SKIZZ: where's your leg– yeah, where's your leg?

SCAR: i think i missed the green couch bit

GEM: it, uhhh. means you could be bisexual

Here you go anon ask from November last year.

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I was a teenager once. I get it. Everyone lies about their age online. Maybe not to other people, but I’m sure every minor has clicked a ‘yeah, sure, I’m 18+” button at some point in their lives. I’m not here to shame you for that.

What I am here to say is it is vital that teenagers understand the difference between engaging in sexual content independently (ie, entering a fake birthday to access 18+ content), and lying about your age to engage in sexual activities with others online (joining discord servers/using nsfw channels intended for adults only/lying about your age to talk to nsfw content creators/commissioning nsfw art/etc).

Lying about your age to a website so you can look at porn is one thing. It’s an entirely independent experience, where the only consent that really matters is yours. Nobody has any power over you in this situation, and there’s about no chance of legal consequences.

However, lying about your age to other human beings is extremely different. If you’re engaging in nsfw roleplay with a friend about the same age as you, talking about sex with other teenagers, sharing nsfw fics among friends, that’s one thing. But do not lie about your age to engage in sexual activities/discussions. Not only is something that could have actual legal ramifications, and very serious ones depending on what’ going on, but it’s a violation of the other people’s consent. The moment other real people are involved, you need to be respectful of their boundaries & what is and isn’t appropriate for you to be engaging with. If they say no minors, I don’t care if you’re 17.5, you stay out until you are 18 years old.

Examples of situations where it is never okay to lie or mislead anyone about your age online include:

Joining/accessing nsfw channels or servers on discord.

Yes, I know it’s very easy to just click that little red button on discord that lets you access the channel you’re so curious about. It looks just like the one you see on adult websites that you click without thinking.

Don’t do it.

If channels are 18+ then you stay out of them. There are other real life human beings involved who did not give consent to have a minor in an adult orientated space.

Engaging with nsfw creators/content directly

ie, commissioning nsfw artwork, following or talking to nsfw creators who’ve asked for no interactions from minors/flagged their accounts as 18+ only, subscribing to nsfw creators on patron, nsfw roleplay, etc.

Joining/engaging with adult only communities, like Fetlife or cam sites.

Engaging in romantic and/or sexual online relationships

Any time you are talking with one or more other real human beings, particularly any adults, in a sexual context.

I know that adult websites have basically trained teenagers to just say they’re 18 and move on, but it is vital that teenagers understand that it is never okay to lie about your age when directly engaging in any kind of sexual activity. Knowing people’s age is a vital part of consent, and if an adult is found to have been engaging in sexual activity with a minor, they could face life long legal consequences. Not only that, but a basic facet of consent is clear, honest communication. If you are lying to a partner, then you do not have consent. Lying about your age is a huge violation of consent.

That’s not to say you can never mention sex around adults online. There are times and places where you may be asking for advice, or even just making jokes about sex or whatever. That’s all well and good, so long as everyone is on the same page. It’s on adults to make sure that we are behaving appropriately around minors online, and make sure that we’re setting boundaries in those relationships. But it’s on minors to communicate that they are minors, and respect those boundaries that are set.

So, tl;dr,

I need a word that means I'm a believer in freedom of the press, freedom of creation, and freedom of expression so long as it safely lays within the boundaries of proper tagging and not being forced onto other people.

I don't want to read about incest, I think it's super fucking gross but I'm not going to force someone to stop writing about fictional characters in a fictional space if its tagged where people aren't going to see it.

I need a word for that. I need a word that means I don't go here but I'm all for freedom of expression ESPECIALLY because I know a lot of people do this for 2 reasons- 1: it's a safe place to explore the taboo and its ok to be curious. The majority of people are not writing and reading this stuff because they want to do this in real life it's just a fantasy. And 2: there is a significant amount of people writing these taboo subjects as a form of healing their own traumas and its none of my business to make them share that trauma to prove they deserve to be allowed freedom of creation.

Some people said kinktomato and I thought of that but some of this isn't kink related- Some people are harassing people for being "proshippers" because they have a FICTIONAL ship with an age gap of adults in their 20s and 30s. Like for fucks sake this online purity culture is driving me insane.

It's not unhealthy if they are consenting adults. Like yes here's a world of difference between an 18 year old and a 40 year old, but once you are beyond teenage years that's none of our business if they're both happy. AND THATS NOT JUST IN FICTION THAT'S ALSO JUST REAL LIFE.

In fiction they aren't even real people and yet I have seen people get harassed because the 20 year old "is just a baby". Why are we infantalizing adults? Like that's not how adults work- a 20 year old might be a bit naive compared to a 30 year old but a 30 year old is naive to a 40 year old and so on. That doesn't stop making them adults.

Like you see how that's absolutely bonkers, right?

And fiction is still fiction and even if you don't want to touch it with a ten foot pole you should be allowed to enjoy taboo content in a fictional setting.

We've been doing it since the dawn of writing and its kissing the taint of the churches to insist this purity culture is better and safer.

Like following the silencing doctrines of churches just hides away the taboo and makes it a whole lot easier for actual exploitation to happen. I am reminded of how often the church physically abuses children in real life but they hide better when people are less informed.

Hiding the concept of sex from teenagers makes them want to do it in secret in a much less safe way. Forbidding access to information is ALWAYS bad.

Putting it behind accessible but properly tagged and with warnings that irs adult content is a better solution all around.

But anyways that's why I need a word that isn't kinktomato or proship because whether I want it to or not, proship has become a word that means pro real life fucked up shit and that's not what we need.

And as someone said in the notes "I'm allowed to block you for gross shit" that's entirely true! That's what the block button is for! That's why the back button exists, that's WHY we post the warnings and tag it. It's so you have the informed decision to say no thanks I the same way movies warn for gratuitous violence.

You deserve thr right to back out and not see it. But that doesn't mean everyone shouldn't get the right to create the thing you didn't want to see.

starting off strong with popo s car / permit office g rian working hours shenanigans

and more explicit sketches:

sitting on g rian's face