selfship ask games

With somewhat obscure questions. All questions (other than North) are intended for any type of f/o, no matter what your relationship is.

Home: What is your f/o’s ideal way to relax after a stressful day?

Compass: You and your f/o are tossed into a forest, no map. Are you making your way out? Who’s more helpful?

North: You intended for your familial f/o to meet your romantic or queerplatonic f/o for the first time, so they’ve been invited to the same place. You end up in a situation where you can’t make it and aren’t able to update them on this. They both show up (and you are not there). What happens?

South: When your f/o was a kid, what was their favorite part of a playground? (If they never went to one, what would be their favorite if they had?)

East: Your f/o has to pick out your outfits for a week, with no input from you. What are you wearing? Are you happy with their choices?

West: Who’s more dramatic? You or your f/o?

Fire: Your f/o has to protect you. What’s their weapon of choice? (Gun, knife, fists, magic, etc.)

Tent: You and your f/o have to perform a two person act in a talent show. What are you doing?

Trees: What’s your f/o’s favorite small detail about you?

🐱: Do your familial, platonic, and romantic f/os like your pet?

🐶: What kind of creature is your pet? What are their behaviors that are most typical for that kind of creature?

🐰: Does your pet know any tricks? If so, what tricks do they know?

🐭: How active is your pet? Do you bring your pet places, or do they prefer to rest at home? How much does your pet sleep?

🐹: How do you pet your pet? (Like pats, petting, playing the side of your pet’s tummy like a drum?)

🦊: How sneaky is your pet? Does your pet get into trouble?

🐻: How good is your pet with other creatures? Do they typically get along with them? Does your pet have any friends?

🐨: Does your pet protect you, do you protect your pet, or both?

🐷: How boisterous is your pet? Do they get stirred up easily?

🐸: Can you understand your pet’s speaking, or do they just make animal noises?

🐮: You’re gone for an extended period of time. What does your pet do?

🦋: How does your pet comfort you?

🐯: How does your pet like to play?

🦁: Could your pet navigate their way out of a maze, or would they sit there and wait for someone to come get them?

Make something creative about:

🍉: (S/I) and (F/O) engaging in your favorite summer activity.

⛄️: (S/I) and (F/O) engaging in your favorite winter activity.

💭: (S/I) thinking about (F/O) or vice versa when they’re supposed to be doing something else.

♟️: (S/I) and (F/O) playing a board game on a cozy day at home.

🥹: (S/I) and (F/O) seeing each other for the first time in way too long.

😳: (S/I) or (F/O) saying “I love you.” for the first time.

🏖️: (S/I) and (F/O) on vacation to their dream destination.

⛰️: The most dangerous thing (S/I) or (F/O) has ever done. (Bonus: The other’s reaction to it.)

🎠: (S/I) and (F/O) on an amusement park date.

Feel free to make anything creative incorporating any meaning of the words.

1. Call

2. Space

3. Holiday

4. Bed

5. Leap

6. Dance

7. Stars

8. Game

9. Water

10. Fall

11. Heater

12. Display

13. Candy

14. Question

✨: What is your self-insert talented at?

👯: Who are your self-insert’s best friends?

😡: Who are your self-insert’s worst enemies?

🎤: If your self-insert were put in front of a crowd, microphone in hand, forced to sing a song that they will get all of the lyrics correct for, what song are they picking? (There is NO option for not doing it. If they physically can’t, they’ve gotta write that shit on cue cards and show them on time while the instrumental blares.)

🕺: Your self-insert is at someone else’s wedding. What are they doing? (If the answer is that they’re on the dance floor, what dance moves are they hitting?)

😎: How cool does your self-insert consider themself to be?

🏹: Your self-insert is thrown into the Dungeons & Dragons world. What’s their class?

🐶: Your self-insert is thrown into the Pokémon world. Who’s their partner Pokémon, and what type would they use if they were a gym leader?

🙂‍↕️: How does your self-insert respond to someone yelling at them out of worry?

🙄: How does your self-insert respond to someone yelling at them out of annoyance?

🤬: How does your self-insert respond to someone yelling at them out of anger?

😆: How does your self-insert respond to someone yelling at them out of excitement?

🧢: Show or describe what outfits your self-insert would wear in the following situations. Everyday, a fancy occasion, to sleep, and to go on a date.

❤️‍🔥: How does your self-insert flirt? What’s the way that they think will work to charm someone? (Does it work?)

🌀: If your self-insert was asked about how they identify, what identity would they assume that the other person is referring to? How would they respond?

💙: What are some things that (S/I) does that are just so (S/I) to you?

🦋: What talent does (S/I) have that awes you?

🐬: What’s the coolest thing that (S/I) has ever done?

🔵: If you were face painting and (S/I) asked you to just give them anything, what would you paint?

🔹: What always makes you like “HELL YEAH! THAT’S MY (S/I)!” when they do it?

🩵: If you had to pick one attribute of (S/I)’s that you find the most interesting, what would it be?

🫐: How well do you get along with (S/I)’s friends?

🌀: Pop quiz time!!! You gotta answer fast!!! What’s (S/I)’s favorite color?

🥣: What is your go-to dish for making for (S/I)? (If you cook/bake.)

🥏: What’s something that you do to bond with (S/I)?

These questions are for your (F/O)s to answer about you!

⏰: If you had to very publicly profess your love for (S/I), how would you do it?

🆘: How do you let (S/I) know that they’re on your mind when you’re someplace crowded?

🧸: What does your bed look like? Is it just you and (S/I)? Are there stuffed animals? How many blankets and pillows do you have? Do you prefer the bed to be hot or cold?

👾: What are your favorite things to do with (S/I)? Who’s better at them?

🎃: Are you or (S/I) artsy at all? Do you ever hand-make things for each other?

😍: What color do you think looks the best on (S/I)?

☀️: Does (S/I) have an outfit that you think they look most attractive in? If so, what outfit is it?

🌾: Name five of your favorite things about (S/I). (Feel free to be as descriptive as you want!)

🚮: How do you deal with someone bothering (S/I)?

💐: If you saw this thing in the store, you would instantly buy it for (S/I)! What is the thing?

Please only use if you’re 18 or older.

Taste: How do you let everyone know that your (F/O) is yours?

Please Please Please: What’s your favorite way to remind your (F/O) to behave?

Good Graces: Do you have make-up sex after a fight?

Sharpest Tool: Do either of you like degrading?

Coincidence: Did you two ever have to sneak around, or be quiet so that others wouldn’t hear? Did anyone suspect anything?

Bed Chem: What’s the sexiest physical attribute about (F/O) to you? Like something you noticed when you first met?

Espresso: What are your sex drives like? Who constantly needs it?

Dumb & Poetic: How well do you communicate your needs?

Slim Pickins: Body counts? And how does (F/O) satisfy you in a way that nobody else has?

Juno: What are both of your favorite kinks? Like the things that immediately get you riled up.

Lie to Girls: Have you ever had a “NO, THEY’RE NOT ABUSING ME! WE JUST LOVE GETTING IT ON!” moment?

🏳️‍🌈: What is your self-insert’s gender identity? What’s their sexuality? Are they the same as yours irl?

🐣: What are some unique experiences that your self-insert has had that you have not?

🧜: Are there any important parts of your self-insert’s life that can’t be recreated irl? What’s the most interesting one?

🤷: What is your self-insert’s most mundane hobby?

‼️: What is your self-insert’s most extreme hobby?

🏃‍➡️: Is your self-insert cautious, or are they a risk-taker? Does this match how you are irl?

👑: What’s something about your self-insert that completely matches up with you irl?

💞: What canon character has the most in common with your self-insert?

🌻: Who would your self-insert say that their biggest role model is?

⭐️: What does your self-insert do when they feel awkward?

❤️: What does your self-insert do when they feel happy?

🫶: Talk about a moment when you and your (F/O) kissed in public.

❤️: Talk about a moment when your (F/O) wordlessly reminded you of how much they love you.

😍: Talk about a moment when (F/O) couldn’t keep their eyes off of you.

😳: Talk about a moment when your (F/O) managed to totally fluster you.

🥰: Talk about a moment when (F/O) looked at you with hearts in their eyes while you looked away.

💌: Talk about your (F/O)’s favorite compliment to give you, and a few times that they’ve used it to compliment you.

❤️‍🩹: Talk about a moment when your (F/O) managed to stop you from crying.

💕: Talk about a moment when (F/O) walked with you while one of you was leading the other by the hand.

🤟: Talk about a moment when (F/O) made you feel more confident.

willow: What are your most reoccurring daydreams or favorite moments that happened in the story of your selfship?

champagne problems: How committed is your relationship with your (F/O)? Are you married? Do you plan to be? Have either of you been worried about commitments like that?

gold rush: How did you and (F/O) deal with your feelings before you got together?

'tis the damn season: What places have the most history between you and (F/O)? What were the experiences leading to those being your places?

tolerate it: What are the little ways that (F/O) shows their love for you?

no body, no crime (feat. HAIM): What’s the most out there thing that you’ve ever done for them. How about the one that they’ve ever done for you?

happiness: What are each of your happiest moments?

dorothea: How did you feel about (F/O) when you saw them for the first time?

coney island (feat. The National): Who are some of the most important people in the lives of you and your (F/O)?

ivy: How did (F/O) court you?

cowboy like me: How are you and (F/O) perceived by the people around you? Has your relationship changed that at all?

long story short: Summarize your selfship in one sentence.

marjorie: Are you and/or (F/O) close to your families? How close?

closure: Have you ever had a big (or little) fight with (F/O)? What was it about, and how did you two forgive each other? Is there any lingering resentment?

evermore: How do you and (F/O) help each other through bad mental health episodes?

BONUS:

right where you left me (bonus track): Have you and (F/O) ever separated or taken a break from each other? If so, tell the story of how that happened and how you back together. If not, share about a time in which your platonic (F/O) helped your relationship with your romantic (F/O) along.

1. What’s your favorite Pokémon?

2. Who’s your favorite rival? Which type of rival do you prefer, friendly or antagonistic?

3. Who’s your favorite gym leader from each generation?

4. Who’s your favorite player character?

5. What is your favorite Eeveelution?

6. What is your favorite Pokémon of each type?

7. Who’s your favorite character who appears exclusively in the anime?

8. Who’s your favorite character who appears exclusively in a spin-off game?

9. Which Pokémon has your favorite regional form?

10. Which Pokémon is your favorite convergent form?

11. What’s your favorite mega evolution?

12. Who’s your favorite Champion?

13. Which villainous team is your favorite?

14. Who’s your starter of choice in each game?

15. Which region is your favorite?

16. If you were a gym leader, which type would you be?

17. Who’s your favorite Pokémon trainer overall?

18. What’s your favorite trainer class, and which one would you be in the Pokémon world?

19. Who’s your favorite Kahuna?

20. What’s your favorite Gigantamax Pokémon?

21. Which Z-move animation is your favorite?

22. What’s your favorite move, and why?

23. What are your top three favorite types?

24. What’s your go-to held item?

25. Which game is your favorite?

🏳️‍🌈: What is (F/O)’s gender identity and sexuality? What is (S/I)’s gender identity and sexuality?

🏳️‍⚧️: How did (F/O) and (S/I) figure out their sexualities and gender identities?

❤️: How did the two of you come out to each other?

🐻: How do you two celebrate pride month?

😅: Have the two of you ever had an awkward moment because of your sexuality/gender identity? (Example: Someone thinking you’re siblings instead of a couple.)

🤗: How did you two come out to family and friends? How did they react?

😍: How did you announce your relationship?

😘: How do your LGBTQ+ identities affect your relationship?

🤫: Did your relationship start while either of you were closeted? How did this affect your relationship?

Requested by @punchurlightsout.

Disloyal Order of Water Buffaloes: What character and ship tropes do you and your (F/O) fall into?

I Don’t Care: Do you and (F/O) generally have your relationship accepted by the people around you? How does this affect your relationship?

She’s My Winona: Do you and (F/O) have kids? If so, how lenient are you both with them, and how similar are your parenting styles? If not, do you or (F/O) have anyone who looks up to you, and what kind of things do they look up to you for?

America’s Suitehearts: How long did it take for you two to move in together?

Headfirst Slide Into Cooperstown on a Bad Bet: What interests do the two of you share? Which ones do the two of you have separately?

The (Shipped) Gold Standard: How public is your relationship? How much do you both talk about it to other people?

Coffee’s for Closers: Do either of you have other admirers? How does this make the two of you feel?

What a Catch, Donnie: What are your favorite compliments to give each other? What little everyday kindnesses do you do for each other?

27: What are your favorite memories of each other? Talk about those experiences that got turned into stories you share.

Tiffany Blews: How fancy do you two get when you dress up for formal events? Describe your outfits.

W.A.M.S.: What are the things that you think are the most unique about each other? What was the thing that made you realize that you fell for them (and what made them realize that they fell for you)?

20 Dollar Nose Bleed: Which one of you ends up injured more often, and why?

West Coast Smoker: What are the biggest stressors in your lives, and how do you help each other through them?

BONUS:

Love From The Other Side: What is the longest you and (F/O) have been apart?

Heartbreak Feels So Good: Do you have any exes in (F/O)’s universe? If so, how well do they get along with you and (F/O) currently?

Hold Me Like a Grudge: Do you and your (F/O) hold grudges easily, or are you quick to forgive?

Fake Out: Are you spontaneous or do you plan ahead? Is there a big difference between the two of you? Does this ever cause conflict between you?

Heaven, Iowa: Do you feel like there’s something keeping you two apart? Is there pushback from any of the people in your lives?

So Good Right Now: Do you and your (F/O) frequently get into trouble? Is one of you a bad influence on the other?

The Pink Seashell: What are little things that you appreciate about each other?

I Am My Own Muse: Do either of you believe in luck?

Flu Game: How clingy are the both of you?

Baby Annihilation: What bad habits do you two have? Does the other person help with them or reinforce them?

The Kintsugi Kid (Ten Years): How do you help each other through hard times?

What a Time To Be Alive: What are the biggest ways that your lives have changed since you got together?