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It only takes time.
Be patient with yourself through your storms.
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Confusion brings understanding.
Chaos brings clarity.
It only takes time.
Be patient with yourself through your storms.

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âLove didnât hurt you. Someone who doesnât know how to love you hurt you. Donât confuse the two.â
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shoutout to the people who for the longest time didnât see a future and thought their lives would be over by now. you made it. youâre still going. i know itâs hard building a future you werenât prepared for, but i believe in you. youâre a survivor.
LOVE WILL FIND YOU AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN EVEN WHEN YOU THINK IT WON'T
Just keep going. You will find your way back to yourself.

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I don't know who needs to hear this but whatever you are going through right now - you are not the first nor the last person to experience it. We all go through friendless phases in our lives, we all experience heartbreak and soul wrecking pain, we all feel lost and alone sometimes and we all felt directionless at some point in our lives. And I just wanted to tell you that whatever it is that's making it difficult for you to breathe - it will pass. No wave will overlay you forever. No darkness lasts forever. New waves and new days will come and you will be ok again.
But for now, just remember that even if you feel like you have nothing left, you still have new sunsets and coffee that comforts you and new books and characters you can fall in love with, and flowers and autumn leaves and everyday you can wake up and start a new hobby or rewatch the series you have seen a hundred times already. New days will bring new hope and you will be ok again.
Self improvement is great but ultimately? you have to accept your self. Yes you can eat better, exercise more, read more, set boundaries, love your self, but it all comes down to this. Some days you wonât have the energy to do any of these things. And youâll look in the mirror and think that this is not enough. Thatâs a lie. The biggest love for self is to live slowly. To rest. To really rest. Have a nap. Eat what makes you feel good. Read if you want to. Embrace yourself and accept that you cannot and will not be ever be perfect. Accept that you are good enough. You donât need to keep busy all the time. you donât need to go out all the time and post on instagram. You donât need to journal if you donât want to. You donât need to make art if you donât want to. Breathe, give yourself grace and compassion. Give yourself the love and tenderness you so badly need. Be gentle with yourself. You are trying and it is good enough. You are good enough.
A beautiful poem that illustrates my point
things get better slowly. youâll wake up and you wonât feel an aching dread in your chest, but feel lighter. youâll start to notice little things that make you smile: sunlight, soft pyjamas, hot tea, biting into fresh fruit. youâll seek out these things, and your life will get warmer and fuller. day by day. you may still have days where you canât get out of bed, but theyâll be fewer - small dark spots in a world of colour. if things arenât too good yet, please remember that recovery is slow. show yourself some kindness. you deserve it.

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your future self loves you. they will look through old photos of you with affection, not disgust, nor embarrassment. they wish they could tell you stories of your future, of how much youâll change, of the people youâll meet, of how youâll eventually learn to accept yourself, then love yourself. they will read your diary entries and poems and favourite lyrics, heart aching, tears in their eyes. if only you knew...
your future self loves you. if only they could show you. they are living proof. youâll turn out okay after all. they wish they were there to console you, dance with you, and make you write it a hundred times: âI AM LOVEDâ. they will listen to playlists you made, just to experience you again. they will write you a letter - of forgiveness, longing, reassurance. you will never read it. but you will know.
I donât know who needs to hear this but I just wanted to remind you that life isnât a competition or a constant self-improvement project. You donât have to be better or âprettierâ or smarter than anyone else and you donât have to overwork yourself to be deserving of rest. You are not behind. And itâs totally ok to find happiness or fulfillment in a life that others donât understand. Itâs ok if success looks different for you than it does to someone else. I just wanted to remind you that you are enough. You always have been. đЎ
youâre about to overcome something youâve been dealing with. your mind and heart will soon be at peace again. youâre going to start feeling more lighter. things are about to get clear. breathe through it. be patient about it. trust that you will make it. everything will be okay.
anne lamott, bird by bird

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there is no such thing as being "behind in life" but it's okay to recognise that you missed out on some things whilst you were busy surviving
i want to live. i want to see this through. i want to get to a day where iâm doing more than surviving.