Not sure what I want, but I think it might be you.

I’m not sure what aspect you meant it in, but let’s gossip about everything I can think of 👅👅👅

I think men are a lot like children in certain ways; easy to impress, emotionally simpler than they pretend to be, and tbh many of them are terrible at taking hints. Women usually hate that. But over time, I realized most of them aren’t being intentionally ignorant; they just genuinely need direct communication. Women tend to notice tiny details and care instinctively, often without being asked. Men usually work differently.

And honestly? I don’t think that means they love any less. In fact, I think most men LOVE a woman who communicates openly and trusts them enough to be vulnerable. Men love feeling needed. They love providing, protecting, solving, reassuring. A man feels truly fulfilled when the people he loves trust him with the softest parts of themselves.

By “easy to impress” i say, welcoming him home with a kiss, remembering his favorite meal, listening to him ramble about cars, games, technology, or whatever strange fixation has consumed him that week (while expecting the same care and attention in return, of course :p). Sometimes, just the smell of your hair, warmth in your voice, or softness in your eyes can make his entire day better.

Men act tough, but most of them crave gentleness more than they admit. They like being cared for, nurtured, cuddled, reassured. And I think the motherly instinct women develop toward the partner is very natural

To me, real masculinity isn’t about emotional repression or dominance. It’s being strong enough to stay gentle. Being kind without feeling weak. Being able to cry without feeling ashamed. A man who is secure in his masculinity doesn’t need cruelty to prove it.

Questa è la voglia, questo è il desiderio assoluto…

Altrimenti non fa per me…