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HOW can you say that?!?!?! HOW can you sit there and watch Asa say “scrumptious” and “tickety-boo,” bring out the hot cocoa, and then watch Anthony absolutely GEEK OUT over the universe and point out the NIGHTINGALE while they hold hands under the night sky — and then look me dead in the eyes and tell me that’s not them?!?!?!

I love Kit, I adore this boy since his first page and I know his issues and I understand from a moral and emotional point of view that what happened was not good for anyone in the long run...

But

If I was in Ty's place and some dude I know for two months would tell me that it's either him or my sister, i would choose my sister too

And I also know that Kit is angry because Ty made him feel like he was nothing not because he didn't chose him

And as you said, I think is such a valid and realistic thing to do to put you sister before anyone else.

and about Kit reasons to be angry, I don't think. you can separate the choice from the "he made him feel like he was nothing". Bc yeah, Kit is hurt bc Ty made him feel like it didn't matter, but the only reason he felt that way is bc for him Ty choosing Livvy over him without even doubting equal "I don't matter to him at all"

And while trauma obviously play a role in that assumtion, I think it was also the fact that he had never experience that type of relationship.

I think there is no one that, having read the books, doesn't get why Kit reacted the way he did or anyone who thinks is unrealistic for his character ro react that why. As I said in my post: trauma and a lack of having experienced a sibling bond.

The point I was trying to make is that there are people that, while giving Ty a lot of understanding for his grief, still think that "Without my sister I have nothing" it's a very hurful, crazy or exagerated thing to said (again, I'm talking about the statement here, everyone understand why trauma made Kit get hurt by it, but there is people who believe the statement is somehow bad) . Instead of a very normal way to feel to that type of loss. And I think that is sad that people downplay sibling love.

I'm just really family person, so i would chose my family over literally everyone no matter what, and that is what i wanted to say

I wanted to to highlight the power of family love, that a person will sacrifice everything for their family (let's look at Julian), I didn't want to belittle Kit's feelings about this situation at all. If I were him, if I told someone I loved them and they didn't say anything back, I would probably bury myself underground at the age of 15.

I think Dru said it the best with "the price of losing Kit" and Ty realises it

Also the OG post was not Ty's point of view, it was mine, it was meant like if some man come to ME that it's either him or my sister, it's always my sister

I'm so insecure voicing my thoughts in the fandom because of that and also because I don't remember every detail or what Cassie may or may not posted or said in interviews 🙈

I love Kit, I adore this boy since his first page and I know his issues and I understand from a moral and emotional point of view that what happened was not good for anyone in the long run...

But

If I was in Ty's place and some dude I know for two months would tell me that it's either him or my sister, i would choose my sister too

And I also know that Kit is angry because Ty made him feel like he was nothing not because he didn't chose him

And as you said, I think is such a valid and realistic thing to do to put you sister before anyone else.

and about Kit reasons to be angry, I don't think. you can separate the choice from the "he made him feel like he was nothing". Bc yeah, Kit is hurt bc Ty made him feel like it didn't matter, but the only reason he felt that way is bc for him Ty choosing Livvy over him without even doubting equal "I don't matter to him at all"

And while trauma obviously play a role in that assumtion, I think it was also the fact that he had never experience that type of relationship.

I think there is no one that, having read the books, doesn't get why Kit reacted the way he did or anyone who thinks is unrealistic for his character ro react that why. As I said in my post: trauma and a lack of having experienced a sibling bond.

The point I was trying to make is that there are people that, while giving Ty a lot of understanding for his grief, still think that "Without my sister I have nothing" it's a very hurful, crazy or exagerated thing to said (again, I'm talking about the statement here, everyone understand why trauma made Kit get hurt by it, but there is people who believe the statement is somehow bad) . Instead of a very normal way to feel to that type of loss. And I think that is sad that people downplay sibling love.

I love Kit, I adore this boy since his first page and I know his issues and I understand from a moral and emotional point of view that what happened was not good for anyone in the long run...

But

If I was in Ty's place and some dude I know for two months would tell me that it's either him or my sister, i would choose my sister too

And I also know that Kit is angry because Ty made him feel like he was nothing not because he didn't chose him

And as you said, I think is such a valid and realistic thing to do to put you sister before anyone else.

and about Kit reasons to be angry, I don't think. you can separate the choice from the "he made him feel like he was nothing". Bc yeah, Kit is hurt bc Ty made him feel like it didn't matter, but the only reason he felt that way is bc for him Ty choosing Livvy over him without even doubting equal "I don't matter to him at all"

And while trauma obviously play a role in that assumtion, I think it was also the fact that he had never experience that type of relationship.