Scary Spice

The second part of the situation which really makes me upset is that this person is making me feel like my time is not valuable to them. Because they feel they are more important because they are “doing more”, they take the liberty of making plans with loosely and saying they will do blah blah and this hour, and I end up waiting for them for over an hour or two. And then I have to keep my mouth shut because their excuse is that they were doing something very important, so if I say how it upsets me they make me feel like I am being irrational because they have a good excuse. Right now I was stood up again by this person and I am afraid to even call them out because I know they will only turn it on me and make me feel bad and so i just have to stay quiet and never deal with it because this person can’t seem to ever accept and CHANGE from their errors. Now i just feel dumb because I am here crying and I can’t even tell them how they made me feel...