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Until now I had been able only to grieve, not mourn. Grief was passive. Grief happened. Mourning, the act of dealing with grief, required attention.

“Where you used to be, there is a hole in the world, which I find myself constantly walking around in the daytime, and falling in at night.” ― Edna St. Vincent Millay, Letters of Edna St. Vincent Millay

“I recognize now that there was nothing unusual in this: confronted with sudden disaster we all focus on how unremarkable the circumstances were in which the unthinkable occurred, the clear blue sky from which the plane fell, the routine errand that ended on the shoulder with the car in flames, the swings where the children were playing as usual when the rattlesnake struck from the ivy.”

EVERYONE needs to watch this video of MJ Rodriguez and Indya Moore explaining why cis-gender actors shouldn’t play transgender characters.